I wanna revel in today's video because I find so many people out there
who's got so much potential but their life never changes they binge watch
videos like this they've read tons of books they go to all this seminars nothing
change and it comes down to the fact that you've not turned this one thing
into a habit this one thing totally transformed my life 10 years ago when I
was working as a toilet cleaner every single day just getting into work just
hating my job the reason why I couldn't change back then the reason why nothing
was working because I hadn't turned this one thing into a habit this one thing is
to stop being a victim and being a victim falls into these three things if
right now you can resonate with these three things this is exactly why life is
giving you the results are you currently getting life is giving you right now
exactly what you deserve because remember everything you've attracted
into your life is as a result of your beliefs your beliefs drive the thoughts
thoughts drive what the feelings feelings drive the action action has brought you
the results so the moment we begin to change this your life entirely changes
and that's what happened to me 10 years ago so here are the three things and the
final one I believe is especially important
the first is you've got to stop complaining
stop complaining the moment you complain is like you holding up this magnet to
the universe and saying give me more crap because what you focus on expands
what you focused on is expanding what you focus on right now is growing
have you ever told yourself something on lines of when you can't find your keys I
can't find my keys I can't find my keys I can't find my keys and then somebody
like your loved one just to pick up the keys is like hey here's the keys and
you're like how come I couldn't see it it's what right in front of me it's
because you are focusing on not finding it how many things in your life right
now are you saying I can't have that I can't have that look I'm so broke I'm so
broke I'm so good how many times have you told yourself I
can't afford that how many times have you said I don't have the time no wonder
you don't have the time no wonder you don't have the money no wonder you don't
have the happiness it's because you keep on telling yourself exactly what it is
that you don't want to have every single day and that's why life has given you
more of it when you stop complaining you become a champion because what do
champions do they they don't focus on problems they focus on solutions they're
focusing on what they want your situation right now might be bad your
situation right now might be the worst you've ever experienced but I want you to
realize you're focusing in complaining about this situation is not gonna
help it and you only need to look back at the past to know that's true
so does a different version of you need to show up today you bet do you need to
focus on something different today you bet you've got to do something
dramatically different focus on what you want focus on what you want focus on the
solution focus on your goal focus on your dream focus on something that moves
you forwards right now that's the first thing but you've got to stop doing stop
complaining stop complaining focus on what you want the second thing in
regards to what makes the victim is justification you see our psychology is
very interesting I've been in this field for the last decade and one thing you'll
notice is people want to change but they don't really wanna change
and by them not wanted changes because they don't realize that this mind is
designed to keep you safe you can have the best intention at heart in terms of
what your goal is for the year but trust me you're not gonna begin to get there
unless you begin to really let go of justifying what is justifying for
example imagine you wanna start a new business and then that business you're
trying to take off trying to build it doesn't work now you're gonna justify
and say oh you know that course didn't work oh you know yeah I told you it's
not gonna work and now you justify in regards to why it doesn't work
and that's the very reason why you're going to remain where you are for the
rest of your life people with no money also do the same they say you know what
money's not important I'd rather have happiness that's like me saying I'd
rather have my arm than a fricking leg stop yourself for a moment and think
about what are these thoughts that's happening in mind how is it serving you
because again life is giving you exactly what you deserve right now and unless
you change these thoughts the patterns are beliefs nothing would change around you
because most of your days are habituated true or true studies have shown half of
your day is unconscious and that's why time is flying on by in your life so so
fast this is why you've got to take control
stop justifying you deserve your dream stop telling yourself you can have it stop
telling yourself these stories and regards to why you can't have it stop doubting
your greatness own yourself from the heart you know deep inside you deserve it
what are you waiting for don't give in to that little voice of justification
the third thing the final thing that that is the underlining thing in terms
of what is a victim is blaming and this is something I hear from people over and
over again nothing triggers me more than hearing this and the reason why is
because I used to do this all throughout my life
the problem with blaming is this the moment you blame say for example you
didn't get the promotion and now you're gonna blame your boss say you couldn't
start the business and now you're gonna blame other people in regards to why you
didn't get the results the moment that happens you've now given all of your
power that's within you to them you need them to change before you
change you need them to change before you change so now you gotta wait for
them to change their beliefs for you to finally get the results and you're gonna
be waiting for a long long time because I'm not sure about you but
you've woken up before most people on this planet true or true so if you're gonna
blame everybody else in regards to why you haven't gotten the results blaming
the government blaming the banks blaming I don't know managers CEOs
whoever maybe if you blame other people in regards to why you don't have what
you want you will forever forever and forever remain as a victim it's time to
become a champion it's time to become a captain you are the captain of your
your own destiny own that you can steer the ship in exactly the way you want to
go if right now you aren't proud of where you are if you right now you
aren't proud of the destination you're heading towards if you believe the
destination is not gonna be something you want steer the ship the other
direction you've got the control as long as you didn't blame other people in regards to why
you don't have what you want take control you are the captain of your own
destiny and you've got this and you know deep inside you do right these are the
three things the three things that make up a victim the first is complaining the
second is justification and third is blaming this is the one habit that
you've got to adopt in your life stop being a victim stop being a victim it's
now time for you to take control it's either one day or day one turn the
chapter of your life because you cannot move forwards if you keep on rereading
the chapters from the past it's time to turn over the page and do what it takes
to make your dreams a reality this year because once you agree it's gonna go
very fast definitely is going to be it's time for you to wake up I felt the need
to share this video with you because I've spoken on a lot of stages now and I
find so many people so much potential who just don't do anything about it or
they can't get those results because they're remaining as a victim take
control of your life so that is it from me and by the way insider
I'm heading off to America next week got a lot of business trips got
Nashville first in San Diego second and LA third in
LA will be my mum coming up my family coming up also it'll be a first time out
I'll be sharing some content from out there so be sure to look out for the
exclusive content and also let me know if you're based out in those cities so
as always insider follow your heart my friend and take action and go live the
life you're truly born to live