It’s Tripp from Tripp Advice.com coming to you from Dallas Texas and today, we’re
going to be talking about confidence.
I know that you want to feel confident when you talk to women and women want you to be
confident.
They want to be with a confident guy they want to be with a guy who’s comfortable
with themselves.
Because if they’re with a guy who’s comfortable with himself, then they’re going to feel
comfortable around you.
What I’m going to be teaching you today are 3 easy techniques that you could use that
will help you project instant confidence.
What I want you to do is pay attention very closely because if you use these they can
be very powerful.
Listen up and let’s get into it.
Right now.
Body language is the most powerful tool in terms of projecting confidence and feeling
confident.
It makes up 80-90% when you are communicating with someone.
That means when you are talking to someone, especially a girl, she’s going to be picking
up more on your body language rather than the words that are coming out of your mouth.
To feel confident there are 3 different areas of your body that we are going to focus on
today.
One, is eye contact.
I’m going to give you a quick little trick on how to have amazing eye contact that’s
going to help you become more confident and also project confidence with the person that
you’re talking to.
We’re going to be talking your posture.
And we’re also going to be talking about a really comfortable way to stand when you’re
talking to someone which is going to be comfortable for you, it’s going to make them feel comfortable,
and also is going to be projecting confidence.
Let’s not waste any time.
Let’s go ahead and talk about eye contact.
Eye contact is really important when you’re talking to someone because they need to feel
that they’re being listened to.
Have you ever talked to someone and they’re not able to look you in the eye?
And when that happens don’t you feel that they’re a little bit shy or that they’re
nervous or they’re not comfortable around you?
You want to want to make sure that you have laser focused eye contact.
And a great way to do that, a little technique, is to just focus on one person’s eye.
I know it can be very hard sometimes to maintain eye contact for a while.
It can be difficult because it can be intimidating to hold eye contact with someone.
But it’s going to be less intimidating to you when you look into one of their eyes.
When you look into one of their eyes instead of both, it’s still going to appear like
you’re looking right at them.
That’s a little trick you can use for eye contact.
Make sure you’re holding eye contact every time you talk to a girl.
That is going to display dominance and confidence.
Now let’s talk about how to feel confident when you’re walking.
When you’re walking up to a girl I want you to feel confidence surging through your
body.
And with this technique it’s going to help.
This is something I learned a long time ago.
I cannot reference where I learned it.
I don’t know where it’s from but it is super powerful.
And I’m just going to call it the cape technique.
Basically what you want to do is when you’re walking, you want to imagine that there’s
a cape attached to you.
And not only that, but you want to imagine that when you’re walking with this cape,
you want the cape to fly.
I’ll give you an example of what that looks like.
Imagine if I have a cape on myself and I want it to fly behind me as I’m walking, I’m
probably not going to be hunched over.
Because it’s not going to help carry the wind behind me and help the cape fly.
I’m walking around like this, right, the cape is going to be drooping.
What would you do?
Think about it.
You want to make your cape fly in the wind, you’re going to lift up your chest like
this, and then it’s going to start to fly.
Watch me walk in this confident manner with my chest out and my cape, “my cape” flying
in the wind.
That’s what I want you to do.
I want you to be walking just like that.
And it looks really confident because it’s forcing you to have really amazing posture
and lift up your chest a little bit.
When you’re walking up to a girl, when you’re walking to a club, or a bar or a party, make
sure you let that cape fly by keeping your posture nice and tight.
Number 3 is something that I learned from David D’Angelo, the famous dating coach.
He teaches it in one of his programs called “Advanced Dating Techniques”.
It’s a way to stand that looks confident.
It’s gonna make you feel confident.
And it’s going to portray confidence to the person that you’re talking to.
It’s just like this.
I’m going to stand back cause I want you to see my full body outline in terms of how
to do this.
Imagine you’re talking to someone.
There are many ways you can stand in front of someone with your hands.
You can keep your hands down to the side, you can cross your arms, you can put your
hands on your hips, you can hang right here.
He teaches a really cool method.
This is what you do.
When you’re talking to someone, when you’re facing them, you basically put your feet forward.
Take for example your right foot, angle it out a little bit so it’s at a 45 degree
angle.
Keep this foot straight.
I’ll back up a little bit so maybe you can see it a little bit better if possible.
What I want you to do, I’m gonna come a little closer now cause I want you to see
what I’m going to do with my hands right now.
What I want you to do is while your front foot here on the left is forward and your
right foot here is angling out a little bit, I want you to shift you weight subtly to the
foot that is straight.
My foot right here is straight so I’m going to shift it like this.
So it looks like you’re leaning.
It’s giving this almost invisible lean and that makes you feel more comfortable and it
makes you look more comfortable.
And what do you do with your hands?
You put your middle finger and your thumbs and you just slightly ever so slightly touch
them together and then let them hang.
You’re going to be like this.
My fingers are slightly touching, you can lift up your chest a little bit and you can
kind of lean and you just stand like this.
So when you’re talking to someone you might move your hands a little bit if you’re ever
just calm and listening to someone, you just go like this.
There you have it.
Those are 3 techniques that will help you project instant confidence.
Remember, laser focused eye contact, work on your posture, let that cape fly and then
do that confident and comfortable stance touching your fingers a little bit together and leaning
just like this.
Use that the next time you talk to a girl.
It’s going to take a little bit of practice.
Go out and try some of those and let me know in the comments below what you think and if
you tried this and if it helps you.
Write a comment right now.
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let’s hear it from you in the comments.
I’ll see you on the next video.
Peace.