WARNING: The following video contains leaked scientific data and information that holds
the keys to getting you a text back, and pulling you out of the depths of simphood.
Our team of Ph.Ds and nobel prize researchers, compiled 500,000 opening messages on a dating
site and discovered trends that decide whether you’ll be the next Hugh Hefner, or the next
simp of the week.
By the end of this video, you’ll have a proven scientific method for sending opening
messages that guarantee a response from girls who look like this and this.
Viewer discretion is advised.
Hahah sometimes I forget how badass my voice is.
I’ve really been underutilizing this thing.
But for real, I’m not kidding today I’m gonna be showing you legitimate data that
researchers found after analyzing over 500,000 opening messages on the popular dating app
OKCupid.
And no don’t worry, this video isn’t sponsored by OKCupid, in fact, I don’t even use their
app because it’s garbage compared to apps like Hinge & Tinder.
But that’s not the point, here’s what the data science tells us about opening lines
and 4 rules for what you should and shouldn’t say when matching with cute babes.
Rule #1: Be literate, don’t speak in weird slang or bad grammar, it’s a major turn
off.
This one’s kinda obvious so we’ll go through it fast but it’s important to understand
why sending messages with poor grammar is a big no-no.
Words like, “ur, u, wat,” all had reply rates below the average of 32%.
Some of these words had a reply rate of less than 10% that’s how much of a dealbreaker
grammar can be.
Why?
Well because it’s low value.
Think about James Bond, Bruce Wayne… as high value as a guy can get, right?
Do you think they’d be saying shit like “hi bb can i see ur bewbz”.
Hell no!
They have their shit together, and a guy with his shit together doesn’t speak like a kindergartener.
It makes you seem uneducated, and if you’re uneducated she’s gonna immediately assume
you’re low value and don’t have anything going for you.
Simply using correct grammar immediately puts you a few points above the average reply rate
of 32%
Rule #2: Avoid physical compliments like the plague, and these days you guys know what
it’s like to avoid a plague.
In their analysis, the data found that words like “hot, beautiful, sexy and you’re
pretty” plummet your reply rates.
In fact, just using the word “sexy” in a message at all, would get you a reply rate
below 20%... yikes.
Meanwhile, non-physical compliments work way better and get you a much higher reply rate.
This matches up totally with my experience as well, in fact most of my opening lines
these days are compliments about what a girl is doing in her photos are what she mentions
in her bio.
A good rule of thumb I follow: Compliment something she’s doing in the photos, such
as her actions or behavior, NOT her looks!
Now let’s think about why physical compliments are so bad.
1) if you’re complimenting a girl on her looks, chances are you’re not that attractive
yourself, hence why your first instinct would be to call out her looks.
2) it makes the conversation feel transactional, it makes you appear like you’re only interested
in her looks and have an agenda of trying to just hook up with her.
Remember: a lot of girls tend to enjoy the emotional aspects of relationships, and less
so the physical.
Rule #3: Use an Unusual Greeting
Now this one surprised the hell outta your boy Zeus, and as an immortal God who’s been
around a while, it’s hard to surprise me these days.
Opening with “hi, hey, and hello” all ended up hurting reply rates by quite a bit.
Saying the word “hi” actually got you a 10% reduction from the average reply rate
of 32%.
Holy Zeus.
Saying stuff like “what’s up, how’s it going, yo, and hola beefed up reply rates
pretty dramatically above average.
Now the reason standard greetings like hey, hi, and hello probably have such low reply
rates is that they don’t trigger any emotion or desire to have a conversation.
What else is she supposed to say other than ‘hi’?
You’re better off skipping the greetings entirely and just starting the conversation
head first with a comment on her profile or pictures like in the examples I gave before.
The data backs this up too, showing a big boost in messages involving something about
their profile.
And I’m not just saying that, rule #4 says that bringing up specific interests can be
a god-send for your reply rate.
Take a look here, mentioning specific interests made a significant increase in reply rates
and it makes a lot of sense why.
You’re way more hooked and interested in replying to a message if it has something
to do with your interests which is why I recommend skipping the intro and just getting right
to the good stuff when you open.
Now a few things to keep in mind about the research is that it’s quite a few years
old, back when dating apps were newer and there were way less people on them.
I imagine reply rates are even lower nowadays since there’s so much more competition and
people are using the apps more, making them more picky.
Either way, that just makes these tips a lot more valuable, since the stakes are higher
than ever on dating apps.
But let me let you in on a little known secret.
What you say is less important than WHO is saying it.
If Leonardo Dicaprio makes a dating profile and sends a girl a message, she’s gonna
respond immediately.
Hell, he could send her an empty message, or just a period, and she’ll respond.
I mean c’mon it’s common sense.
If you’re a celebrity or influencer badass, girls are gonna at LEAST be interested enough
to respond back no matter what you say.
I call this, “The Influencer Effect”.
But what if you could have this same effect on women without needing to be rich or famous?
Well let me tell you bro, you can.
It all comes down to using a secret 4 word formula, originally used by the FBI for getting
information from enemy spies… yeah intense I know.
So if it worked on Russian spies, I’m willing to bet it can get you a date or at least a
reply back.
But here’s the best part, once you master how to put this formula into action, you’ll
be amazed at how easily girls will flock to you.
And the best part?
If you use this formula on Instagram, it will turn your IG profile into the BEST dating
app in the world.
Better than Tinder, Hinge, or anything else.
You’ll be able to create this influencer effect with every girl who comes across your
Instagram profile, and bypass girls’ “online shields”.
You’ll have girls replying to your stories, asking you to hangout, and gushing over you
the same way they do their favorite influencers.
And lucky for you my disciple, Benjamin and I just put together a free documentary style
video where we give away the secret formula breaking down EXACTLY how to do this.
By the end, you’ll learn exactly how to date girls who look like this, all with the
ease of your instagram profile.
So click the link below and put your email in to check out the free docu-style video.
I’ll also be sending you a link to my brand new course, Instagame.
You guys know I’ve been working on this for months now.
Benjamin and I spent ALL of quarantine making this brand new course, showing you our copy/paste
system on how to ‘pimp’ your profile and turn you from ‘average’ to influencer’
in just a few weeks.
Here’s just a sneak peek of what you’ll get if you decide to sign up:
11 copy/paste templates for writing captions that make women melt
The ‘secret’ editing hack for making your face better looking in photos, all in less
than 10 seconds.
The 6 Copy/Paste IG Stories that will make women ask YOU out on dates
And how to go from DMs to FaceTime in just a few messages.
And so much more bro.
This course has over 6 hours of content inside from me and Benjamin showing you everything
you need to know to make your instagram profile a magnet for the most amazing women.
So click the link below, at the very least, watch the free documentary video we put together
explaining how to do this on Instagram.
And if you want the course you’ll also be getting a link to that as well!
Sign ups are only available for 2 weeks, depending on when you see this video they might already
be over so hurry, you’re not gonna want to miss this bro.
I’ll see ya over there man!