Hello my wonderful friend!
Today's video is on why women lose interest.
And the truth is guys, when a women loses interest in a man it's because of these things
I'm going to sharing with you.
You're going to learn the main reasons women lose interest and what to do instead so that
this doesn't happen.
Because the truth is if you've ever had a woman lose interest in you, it's really painful,
right?
And it's certainly something you want to avoid.
So if you are sick of girls losing interest in you make sure to watch to the end.
You're not going to want to miss any of these tips.
If this is your first time watching, welcome!
My name is Melannie.
I'm a Christian dating coach for men.
I teach you the skills you need to stop experiencing that heartache and rejection and instead just
get the girl of your dreams.
What you are about to learn comes from my insight as a woman as well as my extensive
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So let's talk about when a woman loses interest.
When a woman loses interest in a man it's for some very specific reasons that I of course
am going to be sharing with you.
If you've ever been in a situation where she has lost interest in you there's one thing
I want you to know right from the start.
Even if this has happened to you over and over again please know that you can turn it
around and you can actually turn it around quickly so that it doesn't keep happening
to you.
Because the truth is it's so painful.
Have you been there?
If you've been there before comment in the comments and let me know about it.
And if you're excited to learn how to never have to go through that again then comment
yay in the comments below.
But bottom line guys, it's a simple fix and just knowing why this happens is going to
help you a ton.
So let's start with the first reason.
When a woman loses interest in a man a very common reason is lack of communication.
Communication is very very important to women.
It's something that we really need and it is certainly something that will cause her
to lose interest in you if you're not proactive about communicating with her.
One really really good way to make sure you're communicating well with her is to pursue her.
When you pursue her the right way, not in a needy way or in an aggressive way, but when
you pursue her in the right way it obviously increases attraction like a ton but it also
is a good way to communicate with her.
It lets her know what to expect from you, it lets her know how you feel about her, it
lets her know what direction you're moving in as a couple.
The honest truth is if you don't communicate with her well and if you don't pursue her
it is going to cause her to lose interest and to move on.
If you have not yet seen this video there's a link in the description below.
In that video I teach you more about pursuing and why it is so important so make sure you
give it a watch.
Now our second reason why a woman loses interest in a man is the infatuation wears off.
I'm gonna teach you a huge secret that most people don't know about but that is so important
and helpful.
So make sure you pay close attention.
Love comes in stages.
The first stage we're gonna talk about is infatuation.
Now infatuation is a lot of fun.
You know it, you've felt it before.
It's when you feel like you're on a high, right?
Well what most people don't realize is you actually are on a high.
It is an actual chemical high from the chemicals that our body naturally produces.
And when this happens, yes, you are having and experiencing a literal high.
When that happens, everything this person does is amazing and everything about them
is super attractive and they are perfect in every single way.
And the truth is infatuation can last a really long time.
We're not talking about a one week experience here, okay?
Infatuation can last for quite a while.
Now when we come down off of that chemical high, again this is how God made us, it's
a chemical high, it's real.
But when we come off of that chemical high we start to see this person for who they really
are.
Now when a woman comes off of that chemical high she starts to think more clearly.
It's not so much about the butterflies.
Although yes, those are still an important part of it.
But she's starting to think more clearly and she's start to ask herself "does this man
have the qualities I'm looking for in a partner?"
If she is looking for a happy, lifelong relationship she's looking for a high-quality husband.
So "does this man have the qualities I'm looking for in a husband?
Does he have relationship skills?
Is he good at relationships?"
And if she starts to see that maybe he doesn't have relationship skills, maybe he doesn't
know what he's doing, maybe he's not going to make a good partner, that is going to cause
her to completely lose interest.
Because those are the qualities she's looking for and so she's going to find a guy who does
have those qualities.
So it's very common for her to be super on this high, just like you are, but then when
she starts to come back to earth if she sees "wow, he doesn't have those qualities I'm
looking for" then yes, she will lose interest.
This is why, no lie, one of the best ways you can avoid heartache and avoid heartache
long term is to make sure you are proactive about learning the dating and relationship
skills you need and having a solid game plan so that you are good at relationships so that
you do have those qualities that matter most to good women.
If this sounds a little overwhelming to you, don't worry.
I'm a coach, this is what I do every single day and this is why I created my program.
I have a free masterclass that teaches you about the skills you need and the game plan
you need and gives you an overview of my program if you'd like to work with me closer to fast
track it to success to get the girl of your dreams the fastest and the easiest.
So make sure you watch that free masterclass.
There's a link in the description below, I will also put a link in the pinned comment.
Bottom line when a woman loses interest in a man it is often because she comes off of
that chemical high, the infatuation wears off, and she sees "maybe he doesn't have the
qualities I'm looking for in a husband."
This is why it's so important to be proactive about learning those skills.
And the truth is they're very simple and very easy once you learn what they are so make
sure you watch that free masterclass and be sure to check out my program.
Now our next reason why women lose interest is if she's playing you.
the sad reality is some women will play you.
You should never have to force a relationship to work.
You should never feel like you have to bend over backwards.
If you saw this video you know that women really want a real man.
Yes, she wants a real man with dating and relationship skills but she wants the real,
authentic you.
You don't have to be fake with the right type of woman.
But if she is a toxic woman, if she is a player, then she is going to lose interest because
all she's interested in is playing with you.
This is one reason why it is very important to know the signs of a toxic woman so that
you can spot that early on and completely avoid women like that.
If you haven't yet seen this video on the signs of a toxic woman check it out.
There's a link in the description below.
Being able to spot toxic women early on is another one of the best ways to avoid heartache
so make sure you give that video a watch.
Is this video making sense so far?
Are you enjoying it?
If you are, please comment yes to let me know.
Next up, when a woman loses interest in a man it is often because they're not compatible.
The honest truth is to a certain extent dating really is a numbers game.
It's very common to get to know someone and to think it's going pretty good and then realize
you're just not compatible.
This is actually why one of my favorite things to teach my clients in my program is that
by creating clarity about what you really want, it helps you know if you're compatible
with someone quicker.
This mean that yes, it is still a numbers game to a certain extent, but you don't have
to go through anywhere near as many people.
You dramatically reduce how many women you have to date and get to know when you know
what it is you're looking for.
Then you know if you're compatible a whole lot faster.
One of the biggest things to remember here though is if it is a situation where you're
just not compatible, don't take it personal.
Even if you're not compatible with her it doesn't mean you're not gonna be compatible
with the next gal.
Which is why it's important to be able to tell this upfront so you don't waste any time
and can instead move forward and find your dream girl faster.
Alright, next up, when a woman loses interest in a man it is often because he gets comfortable
and he stops trying.
I really don't know how to say that any more gentle than that but give me a second to just
explain.
This is completely normal.
When we meet someone cute and attractive who we are interested in we tend to put our best
foot forward so to speak.
We try to look as perfect as we can, we try to like everything they like, and we try to
be as awesome and positive as we possible can be.
And a lot of that comes from those infatuation chemicals that are that high.
Now, in a healthy, ideal relationship we try to put our best foot forward forever.
That's part of what makes the relationship so incredible.
No, you will never be perfect and she will never be perfect and it's not about being
fake.
It's just about always trying to be the best version of yourself possible.
Always trying to improve.
That is something you should always be doing for yourself, but it is also something you
should always be doing for your partner, because they deserve the best version of you.
Now, what happens is if you're not in the habit of being proactive in being good at
relationships and having the qualities she is looking for in a man and being the best
version of yourself, if you're not already proactive about that, well eventually you're
going to fall out of that habit because you become comfortable in the relationship.
At this point she starts to feel really bad because she fell in love with someone who's
not real, someone who doesn't exist.
It's kind of like being fake with her or even lying to her about who you are.
That it going to cause her to lose interest because this guy she really liked isn't real.
So what's the solution to this?
I'm about to share a massive secret so pay very close attention.
The way to make sure you are irresistible to your dream girl and to make sure she stays
in love with you forever, to make sure she never loses interest is to make sure right
now that you are proactive about having the dating and relationship skills you need, about
working on yourself and improving yourself.
You do this for you but you also do this for her so that it's a habit.
So as you move forward you can have that crazy happy, crazy successful relationship and ultimately
crazy happy life.
If you're doing now you never have to worry about "getting comfortable" and falling out
of the habit once you're with her.
This is another thing I love teaching in my program because it is so crazy effective and
because you get results so quickly when you practice this.
So again, to learn more about my program, to learn about the skills you need, to learn
about the crazy effective game plan, do make sure you watch my free masterclass.
There's a link in the description and a link in the pinned comment below.
Let's sum up what you've learned so far.
When a woman loses interest in a man it is often because of lack of communication.
This is one reason why it's very important to make sure you are pursuing her.
That lets her know what page she's on and where the relationship is going.
Another reason why women lose interest is the infatuation wears off.
And if she sees that you don't have the dating and relationship skills she's looking for,
if she sees that you don't have the qualities she's looking for in a man that's going to cause
her to lose interest and move on.
Another reason is if she's a player.
It's very very important to make sure you know the signs of a toxic woman so you can
avoid that type of woman for good.
Another reason why women lose interest is if you're just not compatible.
To a large extent this is just normal, this if just something you have to work through.
But you can dramatically reduce how many people you need to get to know when you really create
clarity about what it is you are looking for so you can tell if you are compatible much
quicker and much easier.
And next, when a woman loses interest in man it is often because he gets comfortable and
stops trying.
This happens if you're not currently being proactive about having the qualities you need
to have.
So the solution so that you avoid that forever, so she doesn't lose interest is making
sure you are proactive about having those habits, having those qualities, having those
skills.
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