infjs have a great capacity of empathy and love in their heart they go misunderstood most of
the time as they are the rarest combination of personality traits among all which make it hard
for the people to relate to them in any way this genuinely leaves a mark on an infjs whose major
and the most dominating trait is being overly sensitive toward people's actions they are also
receptive toward vibes and feelings eventually upsetting themselves and withdrawing from all the
relationships that not seem compatible to them as an infj is very caring and usually afraid
of offending anyone they may never openly tell you about the habits of yours that bother them
however you will slightly notice them shutting you off as they retreat back into their protective
walls and it may kill whatever bond you have now this does not necessarily mean that every single
disagreement will end up in a breakup but there is a possibility that your infj partner may suffer
due to some unintentional and seemingly harmless actions of yours in order to protect
your friendships bond and in this video's case relationships with an infj you have to be mindful
about quite a few things in this video we've listed them down for your better understanding
one forcing them into socializing if an infj is dating you do not take it as a license to
force them into interactions and socializing while they may not be silent awkward and shy
around you anymore they are still the same introverted person for the rest of the world
do not try to change their nature by forcing them to go out instead of it doing you good this will
only overwhelm your infj partner and probably cause them serious emotional damage and that's
not something you want to take responsibility for 2. materialism is a big no-no infjs like
spiritual growth more than the outer appearance of things in people that is also something that they
want in their partners materialistic nature of people is a major turn off for an infj
something that they take very seriously if you're dating an infj or planning on asking one out
you have to reduce your reliance on materialism if that is something that you find difficult to do
then perhaps dating them is not a good idea three give them space infjs are hyper sensitive
something that drains them of energy you may see them shutting you out and going into a completely
silent mode for a while that's not something that you should find defensive because as much as they
want to be there for you this is a serious requirement of their mind and body in order
to recharge their energy they may go on short interaction breaks and spend time in solitude
be understanding and give them the space they need so they can come back to you as soon as possible
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updates from our channel 4. no lies please infj personality types have the ability to detect a lie
usually it's very easy for them to tell if someone is lying if you're in a relationship with an infj
you need to be careful during your communication all they want from you is an honest expression of
what and how you feel so do not paint them a rosy picture of your mood if you're upset instead sit
down and talk about whatever's bothering you you'll be surprised to find out how good they
are at listening and advice but if you choose to lie to them in order to avoid any future situation
well then you have definitely invited their wrath upon yourself now they won't hate you but they'll
definitely have a hard time trusting your word again five let them open up at their own pace
with the constant encounters with people who fail to understand their perception of the world
infjs grow reluctant about opening up to anyone if you're dating an infj don't push
them to tell you everything in the first meeting now this sounds crazy and strange but infjs see
the world very differently from the non-infj people and they often have strange theories
philosophies and opinions added to that is the trauma that comes with being the odd one out
you should not be surprised to know that your infj partner keeps things to themselves instead of
ranting about them to you like anyone else would the right way to deal with them is to show them
your support and make them feel at home around you by giving them space they'll tell you everything
on their own when the time is right six don't wait for them to make the first move infjs are very shy
and introverted which is why waiting for them to make the first move is not the best thing to do
you can take things slow to make sure if they want a relationship with you but they will usually wait
for you to take control of the situation ask them out plan a date and express your interest in them
even if they like you back they may not say it at first but as the bond gets stronger and they start
trusting you more you'll see that they can be very chatty until then feel free to plan your outings
by leading the situation 7. no short-term flings infjs want long-term relationships not temporary
flings you'll have to be very careful with understanding what you want before approaching an
infj if you want to date them that's totally fine but if what you feel seems like a temporary crush
you should not involve them in it they feel responsible for others feelings and your temporary
traction may upset them to great extent this is all for now if you found this video informative
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