Hello my wonderful friend Today's video is on the seven subtle signs you are
more attractive than you think. This comes from my insights as a woman as
well as my extensive research and training as a certified coach. The most
important and the most attractive sign is the one at the end so make sure you
pay close attention. Before we get started be sure to subscribe and ring
that notification bell. My name is Melannie. I am a Christian
dating coach for men. I help good guys and get the girl of your dreams so
you're gonna want to make sure you ring that bell. Okay, have you ever known a
woman who you just thought was so gorgeous and so beautiful but
she seemed to have no idea that she was attractive? Have you ever been in that
situation? It happens quite a bit, right? As humans, that's actually a fairly
common occurrence. Fun fact for you, the same is true of men. Just like you see a
beautiful woman and you realize that she has no idea she's beautiful, we see men
who are super attractive and they have like no idea that they are attractive.
The truth is, God made all of us attractive but there are traits about
ourselves that we don't notice, we're not really aware of. And even if we're aware
of them we don't know that they're actually super attractive. So here are
some subtle signs that you are more attractive than you think.
P.S. The best part about these things is that even if you're not doing them
they're really easy to start doing. So with that, let's get started.
Sign number one that you are more attractive than you think is that you
don't play hard-to-get. If you have seen this video you know
that I do not suggest having anything to do with a woman who plays hard-to-get. If
you haven't seen that video, it's a good one, be sure to check it out through the
link in the description below. The truth is, so many people are told "Oh, play
hard-to-get. You'll get her attention and you'll make her crazy
about you." The truth is, it may get her attention, but if she is a smart,
non-toxic girl it's actually not going to leave a good impression. But, guys who
do not play hard-to-get, guys who are authentic and genuine, now
that is insanely attractive. And because so many people are taught to play hard
to get, when you don't play hard to get you
stand out from the crowd. Subtle sign and number two kind of goes
hand in hand with the first one and it is that you let her know that you like
her. Now that does not necessarily mean you like walk up to her and say "Hey, I
like you." Especially if you don't know her very well, that will freak her out.
But it's just a fact that people like people who like them, so when we know
that someone likes us on any kind of a level it is attractive to us, it
automatically makes us like them better. Now this obviously does not mean that
just because someone knows you like them that they will automatically like you
back. However, someone who is going to like you back, that is going to be
insanely insanely attractive. When she sees that you are showing her that you
are interested, that you are pursuing, that you are flirting, that is insanely
attractive. Sign number three is that you are a gentleman. If you saw this video
that is going to sound familiar to you. There is a link in the description below
if you haven't seen that one. But if you are showing respect, if you are using
good manners, if you open the door, if you give her your jacket when she's cold,
things like that, all of those little things are insanely insanely attractive.
Now I know that there are a lot of people who think chivalry is dead and
it's not attractive anymore. The truth is, unless she's a toxic woman that is
insanely attractive. And since you don't want to attract a toxic woman
anyway it doesn't really matter. So if you are making sure that you stay a
gentleman and you have good manners, that shows that you are really really
attractive. Now as a little bonus tip to go with that, if you are a gentleman to
everyone not just her, that is a deal breaker. If you only act that way with
her she feels like it's just because you want something from her. It's not so much
about who you are it's just about who you want to impress.
But if she sees that you treat everyone that way, and she's a girl so she is
going to notice that, if she sees that you just treat everyone with that kind
of respect, now that, that's attractive. Quick question before we get to sign
number four. Should I make more videos on signs you
are more attractive and then you think? The truth is, there are so many signs I
had a hard time picking so I can talk about this all day long. So if that's
something you want more videos on be sure to comment "YES!" in the comments
below and I will know what to do that for you. And sign number four is that
you listen to her, that you are a good listener, you pay attention to what she's
saying. If you saw this video then again this trait is not going to surprise you.
Be sure to check out the link in the description to watch that one. So I'm not
going to go into as much detail here, but the truth is, women need to feel listened
to. It's what makes us feel special, what it's what makes us feel important and
connected to you. So if you're really good at listening you are far more
attractive than you realize. And number five actually goes along those same
lines and that is that you talk to her. Women love to talk. That's how we connect,
that's how we feel like we belong, and so as important as listening is then
replying to her and carrying on intelligent conversations with her, that
is insanely attractive. Sign number six that you are more attractive than you
think is that you are invested in living a healthy lifestyle. I like to tease with
my family and sometimes I'll say I don't know what it is about bumping into a guy
at the health food store but it is super super attractive. And whenever I go into
one I'm always like keeping my eyes peeled and like looking around, because
the truth is, that someone who is invested in themselves, no matter what
part of your health journey you are on, as long as that person is like invested
in themselves and improving, that is insanely attractive, that says something
huge about the type of person they are. In addition to that, God just made us in
such a way that as humans we are attracted to health. So someone who is
interested in maintaining a healthy lifestyle, it shows
that they're interested in being and staying attractive. And that is just
super super hot. And we are to assign number seven, and guys, like I mentioned
this one is probably the very most attractive trait. It kind of covers all
other traits and includes all other traits, so if you have this trait
everything else is going to fall into place, it's very very effective. This
trait is that you are always working to improve. You're always trying to be the
best you that you can be. Someone who works on them and makes self improvement
a priority is always going to be attractive. They are so much more
interesting than someone who doesn't and they're always improving, obviously. How
boring would a relationship be that just like never improved and it
never changed and it just kind of stayed the same? Many people think that that
type of a relationship isn't really that bad, but the truth is, it's incredibly
boring, especially after the infatuation wears
off which it totally does. So after the infatuation wears off, if there's nothing
else to keep you interested and nothing else to keep you attracted, well then
that relationship becomes awful, and that's not what you want.
On the other side, someone who is always trying to improve, no, this is not about
being a perfectionist, but someone who's just always working on them, that is
insanely insanely attractive. Now speaking of that, since you now know some
of the signs you are more attractive than you think, how would you like to
know how to become way more attractive and how to actually get the girl? Because
the truth is, it doesn't matter how attractive you are, if you don't know how
to get the girl, if you fail in that important step, well then it's not really
going to work for you. I have put together some free training for you on
the three secrets you have to know to get your dream girlfriend. Be sure to
check out the link through the description below and you can check out
that free training. I know it is going to help you so so much.
Knowing the three secrets that can keep you from getting your dream girl or get
you to your dream girl is super valuable, right?
So be sure to check out that link. Thank you so much for watching my wonderful
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at my amazing friend and have an amazing day. [blooper beep]
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I want to hear from you in the comments. If you want to see more videos on signs- What? [chuckle]