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- So this is the Q&A
that we promised since like three weeks ago
that we never did,
but this week we're gonna have proper audio,
so that's why we're doing it, finally.
- Now's the time. (hands drumming)
So let's go with a question.
- All right, first question is,
this one's for you, Max.
Since Yos is so cute how do you handle him
if he's troubling you or in an annoying mode?
- Well, that's easy.
I can't handle you, so just need to leave you alone
and I go do my things
and at some point you'll get back to your self.
- That's a good answer.
I can't be tamed.
- Mm-hmm.
- For Max, again.
Have you ever had a girlfriend
before you find yourself as a gay man?
- (laughs) Funny enough, yes, I did, in high school,
second year of high school.
- I didn't know that.
- Yeah, well, it did not last for more than two weeks.
You know in high school, I was in music playing drum.
There's that girl who was supposed to be a popular girl,
I guess, and she came to ask me,
"Hey, do you wanna be my boyfriend?"
Me, not knowing what to say, I just like, yeah, sure.
And then (laughs) the two weeks after that,
I was just avoiding her at all cost
because just sometime like holding hands with her
did not feel right.
I was like getting sweaty palms
and like, oh, not comfortable.
- 'Cause you had secrets, you were hiding secrets.
- Yeah, well no, I didn't know at that time.
- You didn't know you were gay?
- Yeah, you know later on I had a boyfriend
in the same year.
She probably felt like inside
that something was wrong with her, but it was me all along.
- Why was she popular?
- I got told by a common friend,
the other drummer that I was playing with,
said she was hot.
So I was like, okay, I guess she's popular.
- When did you come out as gay?
Well, I came out to my friends in high school,
so like 18, but to my family like a couple years after that.
If you wanna see my coming-out video, I'll link it up here,
it's really fun, really nice.
A nice watch for when you're eating breakfast.
- First came out to my family and it was a rocky ride.
I told my parents that I had a girlfriend at the time,
again, in high school.
- Was it a different girl or?
- I mean, it's a fictive one.
- Oh, right, right.
- I had a concert coming up and I told my parents,
"Oh, I'm seeing that girl
and she gonna come to the concert."
Little did they know it was not a girlfriend that I had,
but a boyfriend.
And he came to the concert and on the way there in the car,
that's when I dropped the bomb.
And I said, "Oh, by the way it's not a girlfriend,
it's a boyfriend that I have."
- PSA to everyone.
- Don't do that. - Don't do that.
- Dead silence in the car (laughs),
and they watch the show right next to him,
poker face the whole time.
- How did your friends react to your relationship,
were they supportive?
- Yeah, of course, my friends were very supportive.
- My friends, they liked him, they liked him a lot.
But then in the background, they all whispered to me,
"Yos, break up with him, don't do it,
don't go to Canada."
- Are you serious?
- No, they all love you.
- They better do otherwise they're canceled.
- Do you guys intend to have a human child?
- At some point, maybe when I'm around 40.
- Definitely not now but one day.
I really wanna adopt.
Max wants his own DNA.
But my point of view of that,
and I've mentioned this before, it's like
why bring a child into this world
when there's so much suffering already,
and there're so many children that are in need?
We're nowhere close to the point
where we're capable of raising another child.
- I don't think we were ready.
- No where near.
- For now it's Brutus,
maybe he's gonna get a little brother in the future, but.
- I'm getting one this Christmas, right?
- No. - You're getting me a puppy.
- I'm not getting you a puppy.
- I know there's a puppy, I saw.
I saw through your email
that you are already emailing an adoption center.
- You're lying, Yos (laughs).
It's not because you see it on the internet that it's true.
- I wanna dog. (both laugh)
Before you guys met, did you have any celebrity crushes
and who?
- Well, I know yours.
- Who?
- Shawn Mendes.
- Yes, so easy.
- Me, not really.
I'll say it again, Arnold,
Arnold Schwarzenegger, but it's a man crush,
it's not the same.
- You don't wanna have sex with him?
- I wanna be him.
- You wanna be him?
- (laughs) That's all.
- I don't think that's what a crush is.
There's not one celebrity that you're like, oh, he's cute?
Like, I wanna have sex with that one.
- There was no celebrity that I gagged over and be like.
- None? - None.
- Really?
- During all that time I was in love with myself.
Until I found you.
- Yeah, mine's definitely Shawn Mendes.
Anyone who's like a twinky-jock vibe.
Let me say that again, without sounding too gay.
Anyone with like a twinky-jock vibe.
- How did you end up with me then?
- Oh well, twinky-jock or like jock-jock,
you know what I mean?
Max, favorite body part of Yos and Yos same question.
- Those lips.
- I thought you were gonna say my (bleep).
- I'm staying PG for the channel,
we wanna stay brand friendly.
Your lips and those big puppy eyes.
- They're contacts.
- And your small build,
'cause I can swing you around.
- No, you can't.
(Max harmonizes)
- You swing me around, but then like you sweat a lot.
- Yeah, you got heavier with time.
Maybe it's time to get to the gym.
(both laughing)
- Maybe these arms, hey, these arms need to get to work.
- Maybe it's a little bit of both.
(bleep)
I love you too.
- My favorite body part of yours is your (bleep).
- You wanna reiterate that?
(bleep)
You wanna go more specific?
- Your (bleep).
Oh, I like your big chest.
- That's more like it.
Hey, you hate my face?
(both laughing)
- Oh, I like your chin.
- Wow, you could have said you like my eyes.
- I like your eyes too.
When was the last time you were very upset with each other
and why?
- I'm never really upset.
- Yeah, right, that's such a lie.
- I never get really upset because.
- Yes, you do.
- No, because I brush it off like in a matter of seconds.
- Yeah, but you get upset at the moment.
- Everyone's human and you can get upset
for a stupid reason.
When you look at it after and you realize
this is really ridiculous and stupid,
why am I fighting over this?
I kind of quickly realize that.
- Well, when was the last time we got upset with each other?
- We got upset building the Christmas tree.
- Yes, we did a couple of times.
But what I learned like over these past couple of days,
just watching people's like vlogs,
hang up decorations and stuff, everyone fight.
Not one couple survive like an entire like decoration mania
without at least two divorces.
- We both stubborn to get our vision out,
that lightening sparks.
- What's something that Max does that annoys you,
but you don't tell him or you just let him get away with?
Same question for Max about Yos.
I pretty much tell you when you're annoying.
- All the time.
- I don't keep it in, I'm not the type.
- Sometimes Yos, you try to blame your fart on Brutus.
- I do, he can't speak.
What's the point of having a dog
if you can't blame your farts on him?
That's why I want a second puppy.
- I'm a real saint and I let it slide.
- Bullshit.
Do you like K-pop, if so, who's your favorite band?
Oh my God, I love this question.
I mean, we both generally love Blackpink,
like we listen to them a lot, but like visual wise,
I love NCT because, oh, they're so beautiful.
- I did not really know about the K-pop
before going to Korea.
Over there they play the K-pop song in the clubs
and all the gay boys know by heart the choreography.
And that's where the first time I was like really impressed,
it was especially Blackpink at the time playing.
So I would say, this is my favorite band,
for a boy's group, let's go with BTS or Seventeen.
- That's how you know you're gay in Korea
is when you decide,
oh, I feel like I wanna learn this dance.
Maybe think about it, your sexuality.
- Especially if it's a girl group.
- Especially if it's a girl group,
and if you're dancing to Blackpink,
if you wanna be Lisa or Jennie, you're 100% gay.
Do you have any advice for long distance couples?
- Talk to each other every day,
even if it's just by text,
or a quick call before going to bed
and stay hopeful, patient and especially faithful.
- Yeah, don't cheat, I would say is number one.
Number two is have a lot of phone sex, number two.
(Max laughs)
Number three is take a lot of nudes.
What's the fun of having a long distance relationship
if you're not gonna be sexting each other?
- Mm-hmm
- Didn't you appreciate getting nudes
while we were long distance for a bit?
- I did, I saved all of them.
I have material for our OnlyFans in the future.
- Those photos are for your eyes only, Max.
They were presents.
- I bet you shared mine with people.
I bet you showed one of your friend my (bleep) sometime.
- You know like one of those Reddit forums
where they rate people's (bleep),
I put yours on it once.
- What was my score? - 10.
(Max laughs)
They liked the curve.
- What curve?
(both laughing)
- What's the most embarrassing thing
you two ever experienced?
So when we just moved into this particular apartment
we didn't have any furniture yet.
So we were in Walmart one day
and they had a huge sale on all the outdoor furniture.
And we saw one set that was super nice and really cheap,
and we were like, we need it, like we need to.
- It was the last one.
- It was the last one, yeah, so we had to buy it.
But we didn't have a car yet,
and Uber was taking like forever to come.
- So I went, "Hold my beer."
- Yeah, so what he did, he took a Walmart cart
and he wheeled it down, all the way back to our apartment,
and everyone was looking.
We looked like little homeless people.
Why were we walking around with a Walmart cart?
Like he took it back, but I was still really embarrassed.
How's it like living with each other?
Both POVs.
- I'm so easy.
Now, you said it in the past,
that I was really easy to live with.
- Yeah, in the beginning you were.
(Max laughs)
In the beginning he was really easy to live with,
and I was really surprised.
Living with someone else is always difficult
'cause you have to adjust with their like weird quirks,
their weird activities,
and everyone has their own rules, right?
And at first you were super easy going,
you always followed the rules and stuff,
but then as of recent it's been getting harder and harder,
especially since lockdown
and we are just stuck with each other.
- Really?
- I'm noticing more of like there's things
that you annoy me about.
- Like?
Well, I think that's.
- I know one easy one, you don't close the cabinets ever,
the kitchen cabinets, you always leave it open.
I would come out of the bathroom
and it would be like a fricking Poltergeist.
(doors crashing)
- I turn down the lights and open the doors.
- Yeah, you turn out all the lights.
- Mm-hmm, and a thing that you do that bothers me
is when you play with the thermostat.
You change the heat and I'm like,
it's supposed to be set at that one,
because you're gonna turn on the heat in that room
and turn on the AC in the other room.
And that drives me nuts.
- That's just what happens when you turn into a daddy.
- Mm-hmm.
- Have you ever worried
whether you wouldn't find the right person for you?
I'm the kind of person who's very comfortable
with being like independent,
so I was never worried about never finding the right person.
Like even when I was single, like I was just happy and dandy
to just be with my friends and living by myself,
I wasn't like forcing a relationship, right?
It kind of just happened.
- I just came out of long-term relationship,
so for, at that point I was just like,
well, let's just live my life and have fun.
But just at some point after two years,
then I missed again being in a relationship.
I don't appreciate as much like playing around,
like I used to do.
And when I finally met you, it was not forced or anything.
It was a good surprise.
- That's so funny that you said that,
'cause I remember when we started dating,
you mentioned to me that you had boys waiting for you
in Korea if we didn't work out.
- No, I didn't say that (laughs), didn't say that.
- Okay guys, so we're gonna play a game
where we're gonna find out
if we really know each other or not.
What's your partner's least favorite body part?
So what's your least favorite body part?
One, two.
- Yeah (laughs), you got it.
- Yay.
- Yeah, my bridge here is a little bit crooked.
- So this is the part you don't like.
- Yeah, I'd like to have it straight
- One day for your birthday, I'll pay for it.
- Can I go to Korea and get a nose job?
- I'm gonna send you somewhere cheaper.
I'll send you to Chinatown in Toronto.
When I was a child, what did I wanna be when I grow up?
You're not gonna get this answer right.
I don't think I ever told you.
One, two, three, go.
- An astronaut (laughs).
The president?
- I wanted to be president.
That's what I told all my teachers.
Name a country that you would love to visit.
Oh my God, that's too easy.
One, two, three.
- Got it.
I just wanna go back with you and visit my friends
and show you around, that's why.
- Because you're a rice queen.
- No, because I love the country, it's a beautiful country.
- And because you're a rice queen.
What was my nickname as a child?
- Did you have a nickname as a child?
- I'm not telling.
- Ha?
- You should know.
- I don't think we ever addressed that.
- You should know, we've been together for so long.
Two, three, go.
- I wrote the pageant king (laughs).
Well, you told me that you ran like those pageant contests.
- I did, I went to the pageants.
But no, I did not have a nickname.
Wait actually no, that's not true.
I did have a nickname in school.
- What was it? - In elementary school.
Everyone called me an electrical pole
'cause I was so skinny.
- That's not a nickname, that's just mean.
- Is it mean?
Yeah, yeah I guess it is a bit.
- Your nickname now should be doll, hey doll.
- Okay.
Which of your achievements are you most proud of?
Ready? - Yeah.
- One, two, three, go.
Oh, wait.
- Living abroad and succeeding.
Like succeeding at finding a job, making friends.
Once you are able to do that once, you can live anywhere.
- Yeah, I mean, that's hard, that's not easy.
Like going to a whole new country
and then like making a life for yourself.
- You know me well.
- I do.
What is my least favorite homework task?
- What kind of classes did you have in Indonesia?
- The same classes you have here.
(both laughing)
- I don't know, Yos.
- We studied a lot in the jungles, we studied about animals.
We learned how to like make herbs.
Two, three, go.
- I said math.
- [Both] Whoa.
- 'Cause I know you're not good at math.
- Impressive.
(Max laughs)
- Well, I know you well.
Don't mean to be running like stereotypes but as an Asian,
you're not good at maths.
- Outside of their career, what's something
your partner considers themselves naturally talented at?
One, two, go.
- (laughs) Yeah, playing drum and I did not.
You're gonna have to blur that part out.
- You're naturally talented at both.
- Both, cool.
- What is my favorite smell?
- Okay.
- One, two, three, go.
- Hotels in Bali candles.
- No, it's you.
- Me? You keep telling me I'm smelly.
- No, I meant the perfume Glossier you.
- Oh, (laughs).
But am I close though?
- You're right, I do, for candles,
I love like hotel smells in Bali,
but I love the smell of you, too.
- Also?
- No, the perfume, not you.
- Why you still pointing at me?
Stop giving me fake hope, Yos.
Every time I go to the gym, I give you a big wet hug.
- What is your partner's favorite flavor of ice cream?
- This one's easy for you.
- It's not.
- [Both] One, two, three, go.
- Cheesecake.
- Oh, that's right.
- Anything with nuts?
- 'Cause you're gay.
- The only nuts that I like on my ice cream are pistachio,
and that's all.
- Of all the ways there are to die,
which one does your partner fear the most?
- Ooh, one two, three, go.
- Yeah, pretty much.
- Skinned alive by a maniac.
Well, a slow and painful death.
- Yes, exactly, I said this
because this is very slow and painful.
What is something that we both have in common?
- Okay, you know what, yeah.
(pens squeaking)
Go.
(Max laughs)
Wanted to name our pet Shark as a kid.
Right? - Yeah.
- We had that conversation and it was so random and funny,
and I was like, funny that you mention it
because my brother were mocking me for that
for a long time.
- I wanted to name one of my hamster Shark.
- Mm-hmm.
We were destined, we were made for each other.
'Cause we were equally dumb as a kid.
- We are very dumb kids.
Okay, well that's it I guess for today.
Thank you guys so much for joining in our game,
I hope you guys had a laugh.
- Please propose us some other game
that you would like to see us play.
- But leave shark in the comments, if you see this.
- Bye.
- Wait, we shouldn't kiss.
- Why?
- I got a message earlier today of someone saying
that we kiss too much and it ruins our videos.
- Fuck that person.
(lips smacking)
- Happy birthday, babe.
- Again, it's not my birthday.
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