Four sex questions your man is dying to hear from you. Uh, the really cool thing about
these questions too is that they will actually deepen your connection with your man or with
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If you want to deepen your connection with your partner and have him obsessed with thinking
about you in the bedroom, these are the questions you want to be asking that he wants to hear
from you.
Number one, if you could design your picture perfect sex life, what would it look like?
What a great question to open communication, get to know your partner and encourage connection
between a couple. It encourages you both to talk about something that many of us are too
shy to talk about, and you can then work together to seeing if that picture perfect sex life
is something you're wanting and able to help each other achieve.
Number two, what would you like more or less of in our sex life? This is the perfect question
to open communication channels. Give lots of appreciation for all the things you like
and encouragement and then give helpful feedback to the often fragile sexual male ego on things
that maybe aren't working so well. You guys can work together to figure out what you want
more of, what you want less of and build an amazing sex life together.
Number three, what would your fantasy be for me or us to do? This is a great question and
it might sound like it's pure fun, but really it goes a lot deeper than that. If you're
really open and nonjudgmental with this question, your man, your partner will share things that
he might be ashamed to share otherwise. That is an opportunity to deepen vulnerability
and connection in your relationship and it's also a great opportunity to find out, well,
what is it that you'd like us to do? What could we do together? And you can work towards
actually doing that. You have more intimacy, more vulnerability and connection, and more
fun in the bedroom. Question is a winner on every level.
And number four, what is on your sexual bucket list that you have not yet done? Now you've
got to put your ego aside for this question because it might be that your partner suggests
something that doesn't have to do with you and you back to him, and that's okay. Right?
It's better it's out in the open. It's better you're talking about it and it's better that
you recognize it and can shine a light on the elephant in the room, and that way it
doesn't get smushed down and result in infidelity later on. Once you know what that fantasy
would be, you can either decide to fulfill it with your partner or not, but at least
this way, you know, right? It's a great opportunity to open communication channels around everything
from what your fantasies are to monogamy versus non monogamy and chat about well, what is
that we want from our sexual lives? What is on your sexual bucket list? What would you
regret not having done if he died tomorrow?
It's a really cool question that'll open up some amazing connection, intimacy, and vulnerability
between the two of you.
And those are the four questions. Those are the four sex questions your man is dying to
hear. You can see the questions are not so much about sex as they are communication around
sex. The cool part is because of that, they make you form more connection. There's more
vulnerability there because you guys are sharing, and then it's balanced out by more excitement,
more intimacy, and even the edginess of the answers creates a huge amount of attraction.
So there's a big win-win in these questions. Your man's dying to hear them from you, so
go and share them with him. Let me know your thoughts. I can tell ya when I've been asked
these by a partner, very good news!
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