- Imagine if people actually fell over
when they fell in love,
then I feel like I wouldn't have
to create this video for you.
All right, cheesy thought of the day.
Unfortunately, it's not usually that obvious
when someone's falling in love with you.
So in this video, right now,
we'll be talking about the seven things that all men do
when they are falling in love.
And number five
is gonna be actually a little bit shocking to you,
so keep watching.
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So let's jump into the seven things that all men do
when they're falling in love.
Number one is that he's booking future vacations with you.
And really, this is encompassing all future plans.
When a man is falling in love,
he's excited to book a future plan with you.
Vacations tend to be the first thing you kind of do
with someone when you first start dating them.
But then beyond that,
they start thinking about,
where it is that they wanna live?
What is it they wanna do with you in the future?
And they're not afraid of really committing to plans
in the future.
Second sign is that the sex just feels different.
It feels like more of an emotional connection.
Now look, obviously, you're not gonna be sleeping with a guy
and he's gonna be crying while he's sleeping with you
telling you how much he loves you the whole time.
No, of course, it's not gonna be like that.
Well, think about what the opposite is like.
When you're just sleeping with someone
and it's just like a fling and you could feel
that there's just no emotional connection there.
It's just all about the sex.
It's all about the pleasure.
The opposite is when you are with a guy
and it just feels like
there's a much deeper connection there.
He wants to please you.
He wants to be there with you.
He's really caressing you
and cares about what it is that you want.
That is emotion-filled sex.
Three is that he supports you
and encourages you to be your best self.
When a man starts to fall for a woman,
he starts to look as that woman as being more of a partner
than just a girlfriend or certainly some fling.
And he's gonna do everything in his power,
as you should with him,
to support and kind of guide you
and want to be there for you
as you're going through the trials and tribulations of life.
And really you should be doing the same for him
as you start falling in love with him.
And that's what makes love just such a beautiful
and incredible thing to go through.
The fourth thing is that he's happy
to go exclusive with you.
And that is without any question.
When a man is not in love with a woman, he is going to avoid
the exclusivity conversation at all costs.
He wants us to keep things the way they are.
He wants to keep things casual.
He wants to see you whenever it's convenient for him.
And he just doesn't want to have that conversation
that involves him only being able to be with you
and not other women.
If you're finding that you're flirting with a lot of men,
but they're not wanting to go exclusive with you or commit,
it's probably likely
you're not building enough emotional attraction.
Number five, and this is kind of the shocking one
that a lot of people don't look for,
is that a man will disagree with you
and they'll sometimes even argue with you.
When a man really cares about a woman
and he's starting to fall for her,
he is willing to deal with the conflict
that goes along with relationships.
On the other hand, if a man was wants to keep it casual,
he's not going to create much conflict.
He's just going to avoid conflict at all costs.
So it's pretty wild to think about this.
But if a man is actually falling in love with you
and interested in you,
he may be even disagreeing with you more
because he wants to get you on the same page.
Sign number six is that he'll come to you with his problems.
When you trust someone, you go to them for their advice.
And when you care about their opinion,
you really listened to them and value it.
And finally, number seven
is that he'll start to play house with you.
I remember when I first started dating Jessica
and I was falling madly in love with this woman.
I think it was like the fifth date
that I asked my now sister-in-law for a recipe
to cook Jessica dinner, okay?
I can't even describe what it is that I made for her,
but I know it was pretty good.
My point being that I started to play house.
I started to cook her dinner.
I want to bring her into my home.
I want to spend more time with her.
I want to do things that couples start to do
because I was falling in love with her,
and I want to actually spend that time with her.
So if a man is starting to play house with you,
usually it's a pretty good sign.
So I wanna hear from you in the comments below.
Are you ready to attract a high value, high quality man,
who's deeply in love with you?
Leave a comment right there below just saying, "I'm ready."
Thank you so much for watching
and I'll speak to you, you sexy single lady, next week.
Bye bye.