How To Get A Girlfriend. I've coach men from all around the world
all of whom have since dramatically
improved with woman the following
procedure is a proven method to getting
a long-lasting girlfriend but you're not
going to like what you're about to hear
this video is not about some trick you
can pull the procedure i'm about to
reveal to you is designed to make a long
lasting change this video is meant for
those willing to make that change
step number one is to tun tun like how a
musician tunes an instrument before he
can play it the reason you can't get a
girlfriend is simply because of your
lack of social skills your looks your
race the amount of money you have are
definitely all factors but the largest
denominator by far is your social skills
your ability to meet new people make a
positive impact on their lives and to
befriend them the key to mastering the
skills just like mastering any other
skill you have to tone practice and
repeat in order to tune your social
skills you need to know what are good
social interactions and what are bad
social interactions some of us have no
idea how to tell the difference by
reading the following two books you'll
be able to tune your knowledge on social
skills so that you'll know what to look
for
read how to win friends and influence
people and what everybody is saying
these two books give you all the
information that you need to know about
social skills now that you know how to
tell if you're having a good social
interaction you have to step number two
practice practice what practice talking
to people the easiest way to do this is
to start speaking to strangers for my
clients i give them the assignment of
interacting with five complete strangers
a day talk to the people around you
throughout your day like your cashier
your bus driver someone waiting on the
line with you start with small easy
conversation starters things like hey
what's the time
how do i get to so and so how's your day
going
you may find people treating you weird
at first this is fine
all you have to do is tune your body
language after each interaction use the
knowledge of good social interactions
that you've learned from reading those
two books in the previous step to
constantly to your approach change the
amount of eye contact you're holding
change the angle you approach someone at
adjust the amount you smile all of these
things which are covered in those two
books that we mentioned in the previous
step
keep practicing every single day until
you can get a majority of positive
interactions from complete strangers for
some dismay take a week for others this
may take a month
do not get discouraged if your
improvement is slow remember anything
can be learned and anyone can learn them
by repeating this task on a daily basis
you'll also find that you'll become
significantly less nervous around
strangers your social anxiety will also
drop dramatically this is crucial for
step number three step number three is
to make friends with strangers
congratulations now that you've gotten
somewhat good and approaching people
you've learned how to give a good first
impression you've learned how to
confront absolute strangers you've
overcome a large amount of social
anxiety now the next step is to further
your social interactions this means
having deeper conversations and
eventually becoming friends with
absolute strangers
I would tell my clients to attempt to
have a deeper conversation with at least
two of the five people they were to
interact with on a daily basis
check out the videos i have on deeper
conversations and conversation skills
use the information there and start
making friends with strangers after
breaking the ice dive deeper and attempt
to build some sort of rapport with them
talk about something that you have in
common
make a comment about
it's something that's happening nearby
if the interaction go smoothly invite
them out to hang out some will say no
some will say yes keep practicing until
you get comfortable with building a bond
with a complete stranger
step number four is to retune four steps
one through three chances are you
haven't been approaching people of the
opposite sex that you find extremely
attractive probably because you're
simply too nervous but by now you've
gotten good at giving a good first
impression and making friends your
social anxiety has also dropped
dramatically but getting a girlfriend is
slightly different than making friends
the social interactions are very similar
but there are some nuances that you'll
have to tune read models by Mark Manson
this book covers all you need in order
to tune your interactions with potential
romantic partners it also teaches you a
very important mindset you need to know
in order to proceed step number five is
to interact with members of the opposite
sex that you find attractive similar to
step number two instead go out of your
way to interact with the people that you
find most attractive this will
dramatically reduce the amount of social
anxiety you feel around them which will
make your future interactions flourish
for my clients
I assigned them the hundred month
challenge the goal of this challenge is
to interact with a hundred members of
the opposite sex that you find
attractive within a month's time any and
all forms of verbal interaction with a
woman you've never met before accounts
make sure you record all your
interactions during this challenge and
constantly tune your approach try to
hold deeper conversations with some of
these woman a lot of men in this modern
age have a built-in fear of speaking
with woman this challenge will
absolutely destroyed that anxiety now
you know how to leave a good first
impression you also know how to build
rapport and become friends with absolute
strangers and you've also been reducing
your levels of social anxiety over
past few weeks or months you develop
your social skills dramatically by
simply following steps one through five
it's safe to say that you've developed
social skills better than the large
majority of people yourself a pat on the
back but step number six is where the
real fun actually begins approach three
woman a day and ask them out on a date
you don't need a fancy pickup line all I
use hey I thought you were cute so I had
to come and introduce myself
introduce yourself and ask what's your
number i love to take you out on a date
I'm gonna warn you now the majority of
these women will say no to you this is
for a variety of reasons they may
already have a boyfriend
they might be going through something
personal right now they may have just
gotten out of a toxic relationship never
take a rejection personally market
Manson was considered to be one of the
best dating coaches on this planet
openly admits that his rate of success
with women is only around eight percent
by approaching three woman a day and
asking them out on dates you'll start to
get yeses cares where you take them out
on an actual date
it doesn't matter where you take them
out to as long as it's a place that
promotes interaction so that means no
movies during the date the one thing
that's most important is to escalate
physically make sure that she knows that
you are sexually interested in her check
out my video about the Kino escalation
ladder
honestly you're going to have a bunch of
bad dates we don't hit it off it might
be because you don't have common
interests
it might be because she's batshit crazy
it might be because you simply don't
like her views on life many times there
simply isn't a spark but if you continue
to talk to girls and taking them out on
dates you eventually meet somewhere we
both hit it off
step number eight you've made it this
far you've grown a lot at this point you
will have woman that you can go on dates
with find the one that you enjoy being
around them
most and asked her out on dates more
often congratulations you now have a
girlfriend steps one through eight can
stem over the course of a month to even
a year it really depends on how much
effort you put into the assignments
remember there are no tricks that will
get you a long-lasting girlfriend out
there you need to change your foundation
and who you are at your core this
step-by-step guide mold you into a
confident person who has exceptional
social skills
this is what eventually gets your
girlfriend