So is there anything that you want to talk about
before decision day so we can make better decisions,
so you have more information, you can feel more
comfortable with your decision?
Basically, I want to know, you know, if you're, like, all in.
And I want to know, like, what are your biggest flaws?
You want to know my flaws?
Yeah, what are some flaws that you have?
I think I shared all my flaws with you.
OK.
It's kind of a hard question.
That's fair.
So how are we feeling about this love thing?
How are those feelings now, now that we're almost two months
in?
It's too early, for me.
But, like, my love for you is growing.
And I can see myself loving you, falling in love with you,
and being in love with you.
But I don't want to force it, you know.
I think that it just has to come with time.
You know, I want to be able to, like,
walk around naked around you and all that.
And I'm not even there yet, you. know what I mean?
I'm still kind of, like, shy, you know what I'm saying?
And it's not me being insecure.
It's just, like, you're new to me.
And I think once I get to that level,
I'll be able to open up all the way and be able to love you.
And hopefully, like, you're patient.
I feel like sometimes, you not ever having that feeling,
I don't know if you'll ever have that feeling.
With love?
Yeah.
Why?
Why do you think that?
Because you've never experienced it.
Well--
And you've been in relationships.
--I've had, like, puppy love, remember?
- Yeah, but that doesn't count. - It's not the same?
- High school doesn't count. - OK.
I'm saying, like, serious adult relationships.
Does that concern you?
Yeah, it's one of my concerns--
One of them?
--being in a relationship for two years and not loving
a person, living with them.
Like, I don't want to be in a loveless relationship
where we're living together, we're sharing bank accounts,
we have a kid.
You know, I know, like, you go through the motions
in the morning.
Like, you, you know, give me a hug,
and we cuddle, and stuff like that.
But I just kind of feel like if you were,
like, in love with me, it would kind
of be just a little bit deeper.
That kind of hurts my feelings,
but I do care about you.
Like--
I'm not saying that you don't.
Yeah, but you said like, you feel like it could be deeper.
- Yeah, like, I feel-- - That's messed up.
That's-- - Why is it messed up?
--because it's like you're saying that
my affection is not enough.
I didn't say that.
Then what are you trying to say, then?
I'm just trying to say I feel like you
don't have the burning desire.
I feel like we're going through the motions
sometimes in the apartment.
That is one of my concerns.
I'm gonna be flat-out honest with you.
I feel like I'm not gonna be able to make you happy
and please you.
And I feel like you're gonna get bored very easy.
And you're gonna feel like I'm not in love with you.
But you don't love me.
[sighs]
Right?
If you don't feel that burning desire right now
and you feel like we're going through the motions,
that's a red flag to me.
He's not listening to me.
He just listens to a few words.
And he's triggered by certain words.
And then he just creates his own understanding narrative
of what he thinks I'm saying.
Here's the deal, do you see what's on my hand right now?
WOMAN: Yeah.
MAN: Why do you think I did this?
WOMAN: To show your commitment.
MAN: Do you think I'm going through the motions
when I have a [bleep] tattoo on my hand?
No, I think you're showing your level of commitment.
OK then.
Two months in, you're already questioning my love for you?
Like, that hurts my feelings when you say that stuff.
I'm putting in a lot of effort.
I'm being very affectionate around you.
But I feel like that love burning desire feeling,
that's what I want to feel.
Well, I'm sorry if you don't feel that.
I have deep feelings for you.
And that's what I want to see.
That's all I'm saying.
OK, but I feel like I do show you attention,
and love, and affection.
You do.
So what is missing, then?
The love part.
OK.
That's what I'm looking for.
OK, you got it. We're going in circles.
I'm done with this.
[bleep]
I'm done.
I don't want to [bleep] talk about that [bleep] no more.