In this video, I’m going to share with you
the four stages of cheating
and the signs to watch for.
Stage one cheating,
this is when there is
mutual attraction
via eye contact,
text, email, social media,
whether or not it's acknowledged.
Though at a minimum
there's an awareness of it, right.
So, there's a combination of communication
or activities we know damn well in our hearts
we wouldn't want our partner to know about.
Or that we consciously
justify to ourselves
because it's innocent.
Okay, so stage two cheating,
mutually acknowledged attraction
combined with inappropriate activities
we damn well hide from our partner
because our faces would say
I want to have *** with this other person.
We're floating a balloon,
laying groundwork, pun intended,
testing the waters, and maybe even
lying straight out to our mate.
No major physical lines
have been crossed.
So, then the stage three cheat,
and I'll go through examples of all of these in a minute.
Stage three cheating is,
any and all of the above
plus a physical line
of any kind has been crossed.
So, kissing, cuddling, hand holding,
couch wrestlings,
to right up ***.
We've got some serious shit to deal with
hopefully we get forgiveness from ourselves.
We need to fix it and move on
as soon as possible.
And then there's of course the stage four cheat is
all of the above on an ongoing basis.
We are having an affair,
bad dog.
We will hate ourselves
and eventually become ill.
We are best off to seek a shrink,
repent, or leave our partner
because he or she deserves better
and really so do we.
So, let's go back to stage one cheating.
So, stage one cheat is
when you are flirting
with someone else
and you know that it's not right
because you want to hide it from your partner
and maybe you are sort of hiding
some innocent flirting with your partner
because you just really wouldn't want them
doing the same thing
to you behind your back.
And then stage two cheating
so that's when definitely
there is mutual attraction going on
between her
or the person, your partner.
And this other
particular person or maybe more than one person.
And they could be
at this point ***
definitely making plans for the future
maybe even hanging out
but they haven't actually crossed
any *** lines
or very minimally.
So, like maybe there's touching
but it's like not touching your granny
it's like touching in the not tna zones
but definitely not where you'd want
her to be touching someone.
And then of course stage three is when
like there's been any kind of ***
physical activity.
Whether it's kissing or
making out or you know straight up ***.
And then of course, stage four is obviously
when somebody's completely cheating on you
and they're having an affair.
So, the thing to note is that
you are driving her away
because you're being
needy, desperate, better.
Basically you're not being
confident, secure in yourself,
secure in the relationship,
but also
you need to be able to maintain
a level of mystery and intrigue
because if you don't keep it spicy
then it's going to get dull.
So yeah, you don't just get her
and then she's yours forever.
You have to actually work at it,
relationships are work.
Well, let me rephrase that
relationships are effort,
you have to keep putting in an effort
otherwise you know somebody else is going to come along
and float her boat
and that's going to become appealing.
So, hold on,
wait, here we go.
So, you need to keep the spice alive in a relationship.
If you're interested I can do a separate video on that
but for the purpose of this video,
it's about what are the stages
of cheating and what to watch for.
So, if she's hiding things
or she's acting different
or if she's away
mysteriously and
doesn't tell you where she is
or she gets caught in fibs
definitely these are all big signs to watch out for.
And either it's because you are not
pulling your weight as the man in the relationship
to make her want to stay
or you've got a dud.
So, that's it.
Damn, that's a tuffy
yeah, okay,
I think that's all I got.
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