Okay, first and foremost, what I want to tell you is, this is going to be one of the most
impactful videos that I've ever made when it comes to dating female nature.
And ultimately how to see if the woman that you're with is quality and will help aid in
your life and in your mission and in your purpose as a high value man or not.
As crazy as it might sound because I know I've made hundreds of these videos, you have
to pay attention to this one.
Okay?
Not only that, there's two parts to this.
So you have to stick with me until the end.
If you stick with me until the end, I'm going to show you how to avoid this trap.
And I'm even going to show you how to spot it at a deeper level.
But in order for me to deliver this message to you, here's what you have to know going
into this.
I'm not going to sugarcoat anything.
Okay?
So if you're committed to learning, okay, you're committed to your own masculinity journey,
and you're especially committed to truth.
I want you to comment the word truth right below this video, because that shows me and
it shows yourself that you're willing to take one step forward to actually achieve the lifestyle
of a full stack one percenter full stack, man.
Okay, that's important.
Comment The word truth below.
Now, when to ignore a woman that you're dating, when to start to exit that relationship and
what to look for.
Okay, there's two parts of this.
So stay with me until the end, the first thing you have to look for, okay?
Write this down on a sheet of paper, because most guys don't see it.
And I'm going to tell you why.
When you're dating, okay, I wrote this down word for word.
When you have closed off s 3x.
K, you have closed off s three actual access, que it with other women, meaning you're not
sleeping with anybody else.
You're not entertaining.
Any other partners, let's say, Okay, you're not intimate with any women in bed.
Okay, besides your girl or the woman that you're seeing, besides the girl you're dating,
maybe it's your exclusive girlfriend, okay, when you've closed that off, okay, when you've
closed off s three.
Number three is I beaten around the algorithm a little bit here, so to speak, when you've
closed off that access, but she has not closed off attention from other men.
This is when you need to start to exit and I'm going to explain why men today what I
have noticed do not understand the true balance that needs to be in place between attention
and intimacy.
Okay, between attention and intimacy, it needs to be an equal exchange of investment.
If you notice that your the girl that you're seeing or the girl that you're dating, is
still open for business, okay, is still actively seeking for attention.
Here's what you have to know, there's three things you have to know number one, in her
mind, her hypergamy radar is going off.
And on a deep down level, she feels as if you are not the best that she can do.
That's what you have to know.
Number one, she feels as if she can possibly do better.
And that's why she's still open for business.
Okay.
Number two, what attention actually means to a woman is that they are susceptible to
potentially being hidden to being hit on okay to having guys approach them.
If they're open for business and they're open for attention.
They're actively seeking attention.
Okay, this could be scandalous pictures in the mirror.
This can be selfies with their lifts, puff lifts popped out lips, excuse me, puffed out,
okay, this could also be booty pictures, doesn't matter what it is, if they're actively seeking
attention, okay, that showing that, hey, I'm open for business, I want people to talk to
me, I'm opening myself up to being vulnerable to potentially being seduced.
See, that's what you have to understand guys don't understand this.
Women don't typically take responsibility for the outcomes that happen that leads them
down that rabbit hole of a potential data potential interaction or potentially sleeping
with a guy, they'll wake up and go ah, it wasn't my fault.
One things led to a next and all of a sudden here we are and we had a great experience.
That's just how it works.
Okay, so the first is in her brain her hypergamy radar is basically telling her that she can
do better number two, okay, if she can do better number two, what you got to realize
that she's making herself susceptible to potentially being approached and number three there was
probably a past lover that she on a deep down level desires more than you those are the
three things you have to know if you are entered into an exclusive relationship with a woman
and you have closed off seeing with or seeing other women or sleeping with other women.
But she has not closed off access to attention.
Okay, the things she's posting the way she's seeking that attention you need to start to
pull back and to ignore her Okay, the reason being is because you're gonna save yourself
time energy and headache but stay with me to the end of this to part two because I'm
gonna show you how to avoid this from the get go and it's very important that you stay
okay because this is a super important topic this right here not spotting this will lead
to massive disruption and I'm gonna explain why later.
Here's what you have to know though.
Guys who fundamentally understand MBT K masculine behavioral techniques.
You can see this from a mile away.
Which means after this video is over, when I show you part two to this, I want you to
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So be sure 100% when this video is over to go and check that out, but nevertheless, what
is part two to this?
Okay, part two, okay, how to stop this from a mile away or how to spot this from a mile
away?
Here's what you have to understand.
Okay, this is going to sting.
Most men out there today in the world, our 99 percenters.
What's a 99 percenter, a 99.
percenter is a guy who typically has weak behavior.
He feels he's a victim.
He's not aggressively tackling life when it comes to his career, his job opportunities,
his business, his gym, life, gay and he doesn't keep himself his own mental point of focus.
He's constantly putting girls up on the pedestal, and he's constantly thinking how he can please
them instead of please himself day to day by tackling obstacles and creating success
for himself.
Okay, that's how you got to realize most guys are 99 percenters, which means most men are
not one percenters.
And if that's true, most women don't actually have experience what it's like dating a true
high value, man, I know that you want to think that they do.
I know that you want to tell yourself, oh, it's easy for every single girl out there
to go pull some Chad Kay or some some jack dude.
And it might be to some degree depending on how open they are for options, or how easy
it is for them to get those options.
But here's what you got to remember, it's hard for women to find guys that they're actually
attracted to there's a, there's a sea of guys in their inbox.
They don't want a lot of them.
Okay, so it's, it's actually hard for them.
Because they're not wired the same way where they like access to tons of options, they
want to find one specific guy who fits the frame.
Okay, here's what you got to know, the way to stop this from happening is you have to
have solid masculinity and you have to be centered in your masculine frame to set the
precedent going into the relationship.
See, here's what you have to know, if you don't set the precedent and the expectations
prior to dating.
She doesn't know what you want, or ultimately what you will and won't put up with.
And see this is the problem that guys have when they date women is it's all based on
short term attraction.
It's based on lust, okay, it's based on how quickly they can sleep together.
And then just because they start sleeping together, and they think that there's attraction,
they automatically think that they're compatible, and that they're on the same page.
This is not true.
Write this down in a notebook.
This is not true.
Okay, just because you have attraction with a woman in the beginning doesn't mean that
you're compatible.
But not only that, as a man, if you're centered in your masculinity, fundamentally, at heart,
you are a leader, it is your job, and it is your responsibility to be a leader, I told
you, I wasn't going to beat around the bush, I'm going to deliver you the truth.
Comment The word truth below.
If you feel it's your duty to be a leader comment the word truth below, okay?
If you're centered in your masculinity, and you're leading, that means you're going to
lead that frame, and you're going to lead the expectations and you're going to set the
precedent for how that relationship is ran.
Okay?
That way, if there's disagreement on her end, when you start dating her, you can say, Okay,
it looks like this isn't a fit, you can dissolve the issue in the beginning, before a shitstorm
arises three months, six months, 12 months, 18 months in advance, the longer I coach men,
the longer I do this on YouTube, the more I just see there's a general, there's an overall
level of incompetent men.
There's a level of men where they only lead life with emotion, they're constantly looking
for short term lost.
And because of that they can't think properly and they can't think properly because women
are literally their universe.
Women are literally their world, all they think about and all they care about is who
that girl is with and if they can get her and I'm going to tell you this until you get
on your purpose until you actually start building things for yourself.
And yes, I'm call them coming from the standpoint of a creator creation, okay?
Until you hit that paradigm in life as a man where you're creating, I don't care if you're
creating experiences with people, I don't care if you're creating a business for yourself,
I don't care if you're creating opportunities.
I don't care if you're creating a new workout routine for you to go and bust PRs in the
gym.
I don't care until you start getting centered on your purpose and you come from a standpoint
of creation, it's going to be extremely hard to be centered in your masculinity, because
you're going to be in life every single day instead of above it.
And when I say above it, you have to be looking to the future of what you're building when
you get sucked into the weeds.
Okay, when you get sucked into drama, you're susceptible to low level conversation, okay?
You get sucked into arguing, you get sucked into that low level behavior,
you will not win.
So ignore women care, ignore the girl that you're dating and start to dissolve that relationship.
Okay, if you have closed off options on an intimate level, but she is not closed off
attention you need to run because she is testing you and ultimately she does doesn't feel that
you're the best that she can do and that's why she's still open for business.
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