Hello! Today, we're talking about this little guy again, but rather than the usual 495 million
questions I get about text messaging, I want to talk about the use of the phone that we
all seem to forgotten - this. This is the video you want to watch. If you're serious
about making him yours. Don't go anywhere.
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Okay. Why get a guy to call you? Now, before I start the video, yes, I know the microphone
looks ridiculous. It's windy, all right? Leave me alone. What's the point in getting
a guy to call you? Okay, I'm going to tell you the point. I know what you're thinking.
You're thinking, "Don't you know Mark, I'm a busy woman. I have lots to be doing and
don't have time to be calling people and sitting around talking to them!"
Look, I love the phone. If you regularly watch my videos, you will know that the phone and
using it for this is something I harp on about quite a bit. Why do I love the phone?
What's Mark's obsession? Honestly, there's a lot of good reasons for this. You build
better connections with men. You stand out, you weed out guys who aren't serious for you,
you build conversational skills--something we all suck at nowadays, let's be honest.
You get an immediate sense for chemistry with a guy, just to name a few. So if calling has
all these benefits, why is it that we don't all do it more often? Why are we still all texting?
Well, number one, we're not in the habit. None of us are in the habit. It's not
easy and convenient and most of us just don't do it anymore. We don't go to calling people
because it's not in our nature.
And number two, which is more of the real reason, is that calling is kind of scary. Texts
you can plan out what you say. You can be really witty. It doesn't force you onto the
spot. Phone calls are scary. You risk awkward silences. You risk saying something stupid.
You can mess things up on one phone call. Now, believe me, I've been there. I've been
super nervous on the phone to women I like then said something. And the moment it came
out of my mouth, I was like, "Mark, why do you fail?" I've been there, but it's still
great to call. The benefits definitely outweigh the risks. Now, the good news is most of the
time, you don't even have to do it. You can get the guy to call you, and he'll be feeling
more of the pressure than you will. "So how do we do that? Mark, how do I actually go
about getting the guy to call me?"
Actually, it's really simple. First, you make it clear that you've enjoyed talking to him,
so whether it's via text, Tinder, Facebook, or even in person, you make it clear that
you've enjoyed the interaction and enjoyed talking to him. Secondly, tell him either
playfully or positively to call you, playful or positive, use one of the two. And then
third, if required, obviously, give him your number if he doesn't have it. That's all you
have to do. If he doesn't call you, do it again. If he still hasn't caught you off to that,
move on to a man who's actually willing to invest in you. Let me give you a few examples
to finish up, so you know what the hell I'm talking about. Let's say you're on Tinder
and you get chatting. You've exchanged a dozen or so messages and next the guy asked you,
"Oh, what do you do for a living?"
You could continue the conversation and enter his boring question, or you can answer back
something fun that gets him to call you. "Hey, I'm actually a professional lion tamer." Pretty
much the Steve Irwin of big cats. Actually, I'm not--me and my Persian battle for power
in our house every day. But I'll tell you what, you should call me tonight after
seven, and I'll tell you the real answer. Your number, your name, X" Second example, you're
texting the guy you like, but you're getting into one of those typical boring as* long
conversations that everybody hates. Text that guy, "Okay trouble, I'm a busy lass. Lots
to do. So I better get running. Literally I'm meeting my friend at the park have enjoyed
chatting though and would love to continue it. Feel free to call me after eight o'clock
tonight. X" Perfect. Fun. You're doing something, and the guy calls you.
Finally, you've met a guy out having drinks and have gotten along really well with that guy.
Simply say to him, "Hey, was great meeting and chatting to you. I've got to get back
to my friends though. Give me your number. Call me one night this week." That guy now
has the green light to call you and he knows where it's at. Again, all three examples.
First, you make it clear that you enjoyed chatting. Second, you playfully or positively
tell him to call you and give him a time if he can, so that he really knows when
to give you a call. Third, give him your number if he doesn't already have it. That's it!
Thanks for watching! Get the guy to call you. I guarantee it's going to get you better results
and better connections with the men you want. It's going to weed out d**chebags and most
importantly, it's going to help you grow confidence in yourself. Thanks for watching! I really
hope you enjoyed the video. Pick up the phone. Leave a comment below. Let me know what you
think. Make sure you subscribe to the channel as well. Give the video a thumbs up
and I will chat to you very soon.