(off camera): What do you think she likes most about you?
Umm..
My arms?
*kiss*
Hey, babe
I'll have you know that I'm really good at lip reading.
Okay, then I'll just talk like this.
My name is Peter Siddhartha. I am 26.
And I'm Bethany Struble, and I'm 25!
Six years - Almost seven years
Yeah...
Can you hear what I'm saying?
You can't hear—you—
You can—
She just responded!
I can't hear anything.
Oh, you can't hear anything!
The first time I saw her was actually on the internet.
Yeah, I saw her on a website called 'lookbook.nu',
I think she'd comment on one of my pictures, so I clicked on it, and uh, I saw her and
my goodness, I mean (look at her)
Don't point at me, it makes me nervous!
The first time I met her I was...we met for a photo shoot,
we were just hanging out and as I was leaving, she
offered to cook for me.
When she was like, "I'm not going to let you leave on an empty stomach!"
I was like, 'That's the one.'
Oh, my ears are ringing.
Yeah.
We were both doing a site called lookbook. I liked his um..
Outfit and then I think I commented it or something. I thought he was cute
I don't know, yeah he came over to do like this photoshoot or something and I invited this random guy to my house and
What are you saying?
We had been talking for a while
And I was I was slow to like make a decision or like even think in that way
It took me a few months to like really think that. Oh, maybe I do want to be with this guy
uhh..
I wasn't sure.. if she liked me or not because I told her like a week before that I liked her and she just
Kind of like okay and acted as if nothing happened
And so I just kind of like made the leap to try to kiss her and as I went in she like dodged it
Ahahaha!
And I was like "ohh!"
Wrong..! Did not read the signals right
he
Went in for a kiss and I was like oh, God
and like really freaked out at first, but then I kissed him so it made up for it
Did you?
Ye- What do you mean?!
I don't remember that..
Dodged it, and then I was like
Okay yeah
Then I kissed you!
Was that how it went?
I honestly don't remember, all I remember was like, I went in and you were like *dodges*
I thought- I always thought I made the first move!
you did!
well, I kinda technically did
Guess it's not really an insecurity, it's more of a fear that
He will be taken away on like a really long job away. If he gets like a big movie or something. I don't know
She was the first, um, I guess
Non-Asian that I've had a relationship with and at first. I was something to like really insecure about
We haven't really gotten into like a really bad fight
Parenting together is..
Sort of difficult?
She- she has a daughter so, um.. I think the hardest part is the way people look at us
More than anything like we personally don't have a problem with it. We I got into the relationship knowing she has a kid.
I was 16 so you can imagine there were hard times
but he was there like about a year after she was born, and..
He's been there ever since
She doesn't wash her dishes. I always have to wash your dishes, and if you ask her she's like, I'm working on it
I've been washing dishes for the past two weeks, and she has been, but still.
If you said washing dishes. I'm going to be upset
Ahahaha!
I wash my dishes!
See I told you she was going to say that!
I wash my dishes.
Yeah, yeah you do-sort of.
He's actually a really great dancer
And I never really tell him that but he is very sexy when he dances, but as for personality-wise what I..
find the most sexy is..
his..
Honesty and trustworthiness.
I really like her shoulders
I don't know why. I know it's a weird weird thing to say, but I love her personality
I think that's the sexiest thing about her. The fact that she could do those stupid faces and do little jokes.. like that! ahah!
He did. He said it first.
I did. I thought she was sleeping
and.. I said to her..
I think I'm falling in love with you. I think she pretended to be asleep for
That whole duration she didn't want to say it back.
Yeah, and you admitted it like a week later remember?
Said I think I'm falling in love with you. Oh, yeah, I do yeah
Well, I didn't know what to say!?
I know, so you just pretended to be asleep.
yeah!
Maybe I don't tell him enough, but I have told him that I'm really proud of him
Just proud of who he is
we've been together for a really long time and..
I'm really proud of him
I've never felt this way about another person, so he is my..
Home. Wherever he is. I'm 100% comfortable, and I feel safe.
Yeah.. actually,
I wish you would love yourself..
like I love you.
at least you would love yourself like you love me.
I chose you because..
You are the purest human being, I've ever met.
You always make things lighter for me whether I'm..
Sad
Anxious
Stressed
You always there for me. I need you, actually need you.
You got so serious. I almost cried.
I know I saw that! I was like "Why you g-getting so serious?" We're just talking about..
things.
oh
I just said that I'm proud of you, but I do tell you that.. but maybe not enough.
Thank you
All I said was I wish you would love yourself as much as I loved you.
Loved?
Past tense!
*Gasp* as much as I love you.
m'kay.
I love you
Coo- I mean- I love you too.
Ahahaha!
That's it!
you could tell me all the bad things you said when we get in the car.
Or you could watch on YouTube?
I'm not gonna wait that long.
Ahaha!
*Claps* We didn't cry! *High fives*
My mic fell down
ahaha
Thank you!
Thank for having us!