Heya playa is there a girl that you like that you think likes you back but you're not quite
sure because you feel like she might be hiding her true feelings for you?
Well that's the exact question that veezykid asked me when he said "Hey Josh, please make
a video on signs a girl is hiding her true feelings for a guy".
So let's dive into what are some of those signs and how and why girls might hide their
feelings.
This is the The Josh Speaks, you're watching The Josh Speaks.
Now I am 100% sure that all of you guys can agree that telling someone that you like them
is a scary thing to do.
For guys and girls, this is no different.
Everyone is a little hesitant and a little afraid of rejection.
No one wants to put themselves out there only to be rejected in the end.
I did a video last week all about how to get over that fear of rejection but what we're
trying to analyze here are what are some of the key signs that you might notice a girl
doing that are signs that she actually likes you.
In the past you might have heard things from other people, or even some of my older videos
saying that if a girl is playing with her hair, if she's looking at you and doing these
little physical cues then those are direct signs.
But, I want to change all of that today.
I think a way more important factor to look out for as a sign that a girl likes you is
her willingness to spend time with you one on one.
If a girl is hinting at or pushing you to ask her out so you two can hang out one on
one, that might be a clear sign but here's where it gets a little tricky.
Sometimes girls won't feel nervous hanging out with you one on one simply because they
view you as a friend and they have no romantic interest in you.
So, how do you kind of distinguish the difference between romantic interest and friendship interest?
This is where things come down to you and how you carry it forward.
If you keep up a friendship vibe with her then yeah, nothing is going to change.
She's still going to see you as a friend.
But if you start flirting with her and talking to her in a romantic way, then you're going
to start to see a change in her behavior.
The more you show your feelings and put them front and center, the easier it's going to
be for her overtime to start doing the same.
No longer will she hide her feelings or leave you confused as to what she's actually thinking
about you.
Where most guys tend to stand is in the place where they're trying to figure out how their
crush feels before they do anything.
Before they put themselves out there, before they ask them out.
It's safer to know whether or not your crush likes you before you actually make the move.
But for all you know she might be doing the exact same thing.
Hiding her feelings and keeping her actions a little cryptic to not expose herself and
put it out there that she likes you.
That's why I say if she's willing to spend time with you one on one after seeing that
you interact with her in a romantic way, then that's a clear fire sign that she's actually
into you.
But if you hide your feelings and only interact with her as if you guys were just friends,
well then yeah, she's not gonna see a problem spending time with you one on one cause she's
going to think you're doing it from a purely friendly perspective.
It's also possible that she might have a sphere of influence around her.
People really value the opinions of their friends so if there's a girl that you really
like and she's not sure how she feels about you, she's gonna run that by her friends first.
And depending on what they say, that may make or break how she approaches the situation
and interacts with you.
Deep down she may actually like you but she doesn't want to say or do anything about it
because her friends may not approve of it.
These are little nuanced situations you might run into.
So the best way for you to kind of work through them is for you to be as forward with your
feelings as possible.
And I'll say it again being forward isn't just a matter of telling your crush how you
feel, it really comes down to showing them how you feel.
If you show this girl that you really do like her, and you really do want to spend time
with her, you want to hang out with her one on one despite what her friends may say, that
may be the influence for her to reveal her true feelings.
Basically, if you want to know where she stands, you gotta put things into play.
So let's do it guys, let's get to work.
What do you think though, are you trying to figure out what your crush's true feelings
are?
Leave your comments below and we'll talk about it.
If you feel like your situation is a little more private and you don't really want to
write it in a comment, you can always shoot me a DM over on Snapchat or Instagram.
I try my best to answer every single message that I get so shoot me a DM over there and
let's talk.
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As always, love and peace.