Hello my wonderful friend! Today's video is on
seven behaviors that make you extremely attractive to women. If you are sick of
being single and sick of being rejected and
and instead you just want the girl then these tips
are for you. The best part is this isn't just about
getting just any girlfriend or a one night fling. These are things
that are going to help you attract a woman who's looking for a long-term
relationship. I am talking your dream girl. This
is what she's looking for. So by the end of this video you'll know seven
behaviors that are extremely attractive to women
and how to skyrocket your attraction so that you can get that ideal girlfriend.
If that's what you're interested in, if that's what you're looking for, make
sure you watch to the end. Before we dive into the tips if this is
your first time watching, welcome! My name is Melannie I'm a
Christian dating coach for men.Mmy specialty
is teaching you how to stop wasting time and money on dead end relationships
by learning the skills you need to instead get the girl. So be sure to
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big thumbs up. With that let's dive into seven
behaviors that are extremely attractive to women.
The first one we're going to talk about is the way
you dress. I like to call it "dressing to empower". You've probably heard "dress for
success" or "dress to impress". And you know there's some truth to
both of those things, but I prefer dress to empower.
And here's why: when you dress in a way that is very attractive, that
flatters you, and and shows off how physically attractive you are,
and in a way that really shows how classy you are,
what this does is it one, is really attractive to her,
because you look super attractive. That's just how it works.
When you dress attractively it shows off how attractive you
are, and that is insanely awesome. But also
it affects how you feel. This is just science, guys.
When you dress you know in a certain way that increases your confidence and
increases your physical attraction, holy cow,
you feel amazing. How you see yourself soars, you're more likely to
to flirt and approach her, and how you hold yourself is just more attractive,
and awkwardness tends to fall away much easier. The truth is,
using the way you dress and dressing to empower
is one of the easiest things and the simplest things you can do,
but it's one of the most effective, which is why it's something I teach my clients
so in depth. So if you want to be insanely attractive
to women dress to empower. Make sure your clothes
fit well, that they are flattering, that the colors
you wear are flattering, and just make sure that
you're putting your best foot forward. And really just make sure you're coming
across as classy and masculine. Now our next
behavior that is extremely attractive to women
is when you are aware of what a toxic person is
and you make sure you don't have those traits yourself
and you make sure that the people around you are not toxic as well. If you've been
watching my videos for a while you know I teach you how to
spot toxic women. Because the truth is you don't want a toxic relationship at
all. It is something you should avoid at all
costs. If you haven't yet seen this video make sure you watch it. There is a link
in the description below. So it is critical
that you are avoiding toxic and bad relationships, but
if she's smart that's what she's doing too. So as important as it is to make
sure she doesn't have toxic traits it's really important that you make sure
you don't have those toxic traits either. Because if you do, well then she's
going to avoid you at all costs. In addition to this if your
friends and your family and the people who are closest to you,
if they're toxic bullies and they're pushing you around
she doesn't have time for that, she is not getting involved there,
she will run away so fast. So it's very important that you
that you are aware of that. As a matter of fact if you find yourself
attracting a lot of toxic women there's a very very
high probability that there are other toxic people in your life and that's why
you're attracting those toxic women. So one of the most attractive traits you
can have is to be aware of what toxic traits are,
to avoid them in the people around you, to avoid
people who are toxic, and make sure you don't have toxic
traits either. Good women who are looking for lifelong relationships,
that is so insanely attractive. That right there is a deal breaker. Now our
next behavior that makes you extremely attractive to women is when
you have solid dating and relationship skills. Many of you saw this video which
is signs you are more attractive than you think you are.
And if you haven't seen it yet there's a link in the description below.
But you remember that I said in that video
that it's actually not uncommon to be a very
physically attractive person and still not have your dream relationship. This
actually happens all the time. As a coach I see so many
men who are incredibly physically attractive
but they still can't get the girl. Why? Why in the world can they not
get the girl if they're so attractive? Well it's because they don't have solid
dating and relationship skills. If they did they would have the girl by now.
That's just how it works. A good way to think of it is, as humans,
this is science, we are programmed to avoid pain. And if
someone doesn't have solid dating and relationship skills
they're coming across as awkward. Even if they think they are not awkward
at all. They think they they're super super good at dating in
relationships but they still can't get a girlfriend.
I see this all the time you guys. So what they don't realize is they're coming
across as awkward and what that does to a woman is it
pushes her away, it makes her feel uncomfortable, she's done, she
doesn't want to do this anymore, because it's painful. And
as women we have this internal alarm system, this is the way God made us,
because we know you're stronger than we are, okay? That's just how it works.
And so we know we got to watch our backs. And so if there's anything that comes
across as creepy or awkward we're done, we don't want to
get to know this person anymore. So the truth is there are men
who are insanely physically attractive but they're so awkward without knowing
it that they can't get the girl. Which means one of the most attractive
behaviors you can have is having good
dating and relationship skills and practicing them and actually
implementing them in your life. That right there takes you to the next
level. That sets you apart from the rest of the crowd.
That is what really catches her eye, what makes a woman fall in love with you,
and what makes a woman who's looking for a long-term relationship,
that right there, that's a deal breaker. This is why learning
solid dating and relationship skills can take you from being very single and very
alone and just dead-end relationships to actually
having that dream girl. Now if you'd like to
learn more about getting those solid dating and relationship skills
make sure you check out the link in the description or I will put a link in the
pinned comment below. This will take you to my free master
class where you are going to get a solid game plan. This is the same game
plan I share with my paid clients. And it will also give you a sneak peek
at what it is like to work with me if you decide you would like to work with
me further. So make sure, again, dating and
relationship skills are deal breakers so make sure you check out the link in the
description below and/or in the pinned
comment. Now our next behavior that makes you
extremely attractive to women is having healthy self-respect.
Sometimes we're a little bit afraid to have healthy self-love and self-respect
because we're afraid we're not good enough.
It is so normal as a human to feel inadequate, okay?
So if you feel that you are so normal. But also
so often we're afraid that it's like arrogant. We're afraid it's a bad
thing. The truth is it's a very very good thing.
God created you. He already knows how amazing you are and He wants you to know
it too. And that is insanely attractive
to women. As humans, we prefer to be around people who have a
healthy self-respect and self-love rather than people
who don't. Because again we're trying to avoid pain and it is
awkward if someone is down on themselves a lot.
So a man who has that healthy self-respect
he appears very very masculine to a woman
and very very attractive. Again you want to make sure it's not arrogance because
that will push her away really fast. But when you have that healthy self-love and
self-respect it's very attractive. So someone with
healthy self-respect is someone who doesn't let people
walk on them, someone who respects themselves enough
to own their own worth. Now a lot of this does come down
to having those dating and relationship skills I talked about. Because honestly
if you know your own worth then you know you deserve
to have the skills you need instead of floundering having
no idea what in the world to do. The truth is you have to treat yourself like
you matter in order for anybody else to treat you
like you matter. And there's just something, I don't even
know how to put it into words, there's just something
incredibly attractive about a man who owns
his own worth. Quick question for you guys. Are you enjoying this video so far?
Would you like more videos on how to be attractive to
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have any other questions or ideas leave those
in the comments as well. Our next behavior that makes you extremely
attractive to women is pursuing her the right way.
You may have seen this video. If you haven't yet check it out. It is
incredible, it's gonna help you so much with this. Here's the honest facts guys: a
woman is not going to take you seriously if you don't pursue.
She's just not. One of the best ways to be the nice guy nobody wants to go out
with, to be stuck in the friend-zone forever,
is to not pursue her. This is the way God made
women. Women need men to pursue. If you do not pursue her you're not a
man in her eyes, you're a boy. So if you want her to fall crazy in love
with you and to get butterflies and to think
you're just the most attractive person on the planet
one of the best skills you can have is knowing how to pursue the right way.
Speaking of the right way, please promise me you
won't just wing it, okay? If you pursue the wrong way it is going
to lead you to rejection and embarrassment and
heartache, okay? It just is. So it's very very important that when you're pursuing
you go in with a game plan and you know what you're doing.
This is literally the difference between her totally turning you
down and rejecting you versus
getting the girl and the attraction just skyrocketing.
Our next behavior that's going to teach you how to be attractive to women
is being a good guy who is also assertive. Maybe you recently saw
this video or even if you've just been following
my channel for a long time you know that I'm really big on this.
Women love good guys. Because again if you're looking for a woman who's looking
for a lifelong relationship she is looking for someone she can fall
crazy in love with and stay crazy in love with.
She doesn't want a guy who's a jerk or a guy who
she can't trust. She's looking for someone who's honest and loyal
and good and amazing. So yes, women love good guys. Women do not love
pushovers. Because pushovers are just not
attractive and she doesn't see a pushover as masculine. So it's very
very important that you are a good guy, that you keep your your mind clean, you
keep your language clean, you love God, you're just nice to
people, you're kind, you're loving, you're gentle, all of those good things.
100% that is so much more attractive than I can even
begin to explain. Those are the traits a woman is looking for
in a lifelong partner. And she's looking for a man who's all those things,
and assertive. He knows how to set appropriate boundaries. That right there
is so hot. When a man is assertive, whoa, he's a man, and it is so
much more attractive than you would believe. And our next behavior that makes
you extremely attractive to women is being driven and motivated. As I've
mentioned throughout this video she's not looking for a boy, she is looking for
a man. And what this ultimately means is she's looking for someone who is
interesting, someone who has drive and ambition. As
humans, this is just science, this is just how we're built,
we are interested in interesting people. We're not interested in boring people,
because they're boring. Now this is actually what causes some people to
teach you to be "mysterious and play games with her and mess with their
head because it's interesting." And the truth is, that's a cop-out, guys.
That is the wrong way to do it and it is not effective. And frankly it's
not even honest. That's people trying to cheat it.
Instead of being an actually interesting person they're trying to
just cop out by playing with with someone's head in
order to be interesting. Instead, just be an interesting person.
Have passions, have interests, have drive, have
motivation, have things that inspire you. That right
there, that makes a woman fall in love. That is
something that she's looking for in her lifelong
partner. That is so insanely attractive. So if you want to be
an attractive person make sure you have hobbies and interests
and things you are actively involved in. So let's do a quick recap. If
you want to be insanely attractive to women, if you want to know how
to attract women, make sure you are dressing to empower. This makes you
more physically attractive and it affects how you interact with her.
Make sure you do not have toxic habits and that the people around you
do not. Also make sure you have solid relationship skills
and solid dating skills. It does not matter how physically attractive you are
if you do not have those skills it's not going to matter, you're not
going to be able to get the girl. Make sure you sign up to watch my free master
class. There's a link in the description and a
link in the pinned comment. Seriously if you're ready to just like
take it to the next level, if you're sick of wasting your time waiting around,
learn the skills. Check out those links. Also make sure that you have a healthy
self-respect and healthy self-love. If you want other people to respect you
you need to make sure you respect yourself.
That is insanely attractive. Also make sure you are pursuing
the right way. When you pursue in the right way
attraction skyrockets. Make sure you are a good
and an assertive guy. Women fall crazy in love with good guys. Just make sure you
know how to set appropriate boundaries and that you're actively doing that. And
make sure you are an interesting person. That you are driven and motivated. Now
you know seven behaviors that make you extremely attractive to women. If you are
ready now to just like fast track it to the part where you get the girl
do make sure you check out that masterclass. I cannot wait to see you
over there! Thank you so much for watching my amazing friend. If you have
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it would help him so so much. Thank you so much again my amazing friend
and have an amazing day. [blooper beep] I really feel like I have forgotten something.
Which is kind of normal for me. ...is when you have
solid- Oh yeah. The lawnmower is throwing me off so bad.
Sometimes your neighbors mow their lawn and there's
nothing you can do about it. Okay. Now our next behavior that will
make you extremely attractive... to women... [laughter]
Now our next- [laughter] I can't talk!
The end! [singing while moving the mic] [laughter]
I never knew I wanted to do that till just now. [laughter]
That was very entertaining.