do you have a big dream you're looking to achieve at the moment insider but there
are days where you doubt yourself there are days where you're inconsistent with
those actions and so your big dream seems so far away
if so today's videos can be very useful for you because I'm going to reveal the
three habits that you must know to be more successful in your life right now
so make sure to pay close attention because I'm gonna break this down step
by step for you now today's video has been inspired by fellow insider
his name is Matt Cole and this is what Matt Cole asked over on facebook
messenger let me read it out for you so Matt Cole said hey Tim I love your
message you put out I would like to know once you've seen that Steve Jobs video
on YouTube way back when what did you do after that
to get started and how did it all initially work out
Matt Cole just want to say firstly thank you so much for sending over that
question and insider if you'd like to also submit your question over to me so
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facebook Messenger now Matt as you know when I began my journey I was extremely
negative in regards to the way I saw a life I was hanging around with the wrong people
I was involved with drug dealing at a time as you know and even though I was
inspired by what Steve Jobs said and the very sentence that made me embark on
this journey towards success was Steve Jobs always used to say in his speeches
in regards to how he looked in the mirror every morning and he asked
himself if today was the last day in my life would I want to do what I'm about to do
today that sentence was the right moment for me to hear that message and that was
a moment I truly woke up and even though I woke up I did have a lot of forces
going against me resistance as after all my behavior was reflecting who I was at
the time and I view myself very negatively so it was extremely hard for
me to create change but eventually in that year I was able to get results not
in regards to not only in regards to business but in regards to my love life and
also my health because I'm suffering terribly because I was involved with a
lot of not just dealing drugs but taking in myself as well which was a big mistake
now it was able I was able to achieve this because I incorporated these three
habits into my life now of course there are more habits that I do today and this
is why I've shared a lot of advice and regardless on success insider so I do
highly suggest you check out more videos after this and regards to more habits
that I've got today but I basically started with these habits and made it a
must for me to incorporate this so this one going to break down too right now
insider so make sure to pay close attention the first habit that I
incorporated to my life was to never wait for the feeling to come first but
instead to take the action first you see most people in life this is how they
view success or trying to get results they're waiting for the feeling the
right moment the right feeling in their I don't know their head or whatever
maybe the hearts right whatever the whatever they're saying they're just
waiting for the right feeling and then they finally do it and then they believe
they're going to transform into that person their future self when in reality
that's the wrong way around that's like me saying I'm gonna wait for my muscles
to grow and then I'm gonna hit the gym in reality you got to flip this on its
head so your identity you got to change the way you view yourself as after all
your self-image does a huge impact in regards to how you act on a day to day basis
so if you view yourself negatively you're gonna you're gonna act exactly in
accordance to that is one of the strongest psychological forces so you
got to change the way you view yourself and that's why I've got a lot of
routines that I do in the morning go check out some videos I've gotten
at success insider to do on morning rituals that help me to reinvent the way I see
myself and this is why I began to do very early on which was a decade ago and
basically the way I changed myself was through rituals and once I done that I
began to take the action cuz when you see yourself differently
you begin to take action and you don't question it just like how smoker doesn't
question whether or not they're gonna light up that next cigarette just like
how somebody who loves running does need to question whether or not they're gonna
go out running when you change your identity that action comes very easily
and then the feeling comes later look at any high-performance athletes you get
Michael Phelps other olympians what does he say there are days I woke up I didn't
want to train I wasn't in feeling I wasn't in the mood to get in the pool
and yet he said I made myself get in the pool I made myself get in the mood to
train high-performance athletes high performance of life they didn't wait for
the feelings if you're only putting the work on the days you feel good you're
not gonna get anything achieved get out of it
stop being addicted to your mood you got to realize what's most important right
now and do it despite how you feel and when you're willing to delay that
gratification for the long-term gain that's how you become more successful in
life that's the first thing the second thing the habit I had to build up in my
life was in regards to the quantity versus the quality you see especially
when somebody's new to the world of entrepreneurship and I was very new and
I began when I was 17 I was focusing on that perfect business plan I was focused
on the perfect quality product or whatever idea I had I was just focusing
on the quality and I spent days after days after days planning planning
planning planning planning and I remember one day I came across this
analogy that changed everything for me and asked how I view this and it was a
in regards to a teacher who's teaching in art class he had one group of students he
said to create the perfect vars out of clay and I wanted you to make it the perfect
the most quality one he can possibly make and to the second group of
students what he said was to create a quantity amounts of these vases out of
clay you can create as many as you want in fact that is the whole goal four hours
both classes and he said go and what what you found was so fascinating at the
end of the four hours the class that actually focused on quantity churning
out step by step every every time making those mistakes were the ones who
actually created the perfect vase the quality they spent three hours passed
just planning when they finally tried making out clay they failed it's at the
end their vase looked really weird because they didn't spend enough time
taking action and making those mistakes one of my business mentors said this to
me once which really struck me deep he said Tim the best way to succeed in
business is to be in business Mike Tyson says this as well he says how
everybody's got a plan until they get punched in the face right so it's about
realizing get in the game ready fire aim get in the game
don't wait for that perfect moment clarity comes from taking action you
gotta keep taking action you gotta fail forwards of course be willing to learn
more be willing to learn from other people's mistakes of course that is
obvious you've gotta always invest in your knowledge that's obvious but be
willing to actually give it a shot as well right because if you know so much
in do so a little what's the purpose of that you get no results so be hungry
students learn but then implement get in the game
so that's the second habit the third habits that I'm gonna reveal to you
right now the final final habit is all about having a rock-solid belief in
yourself you see if you want to be more successful if you want to achieve your
big dreams if you don't have rock-solid capability to believe in yourself
that is the number one sign you're gonna fail in life if you don't believe you're
born to do great if you didn't believe you're born to win how do you expect to
win and one of the big forces in regards to your beliefs whether or not you truly
believe in yourself is also down to your social environment conditioning so if
you are a child for example who've been taught as you're growing up all you're
really bad at that you're really bad at that you're really bad at that it's very
likely you're going to grow up and think you're really bad at something and so
it's important if you do not have a lot of belief because I didn't have a lot of
belief when I began I have to surround myself with winners
I had to educate myself in regards to personal development which is great
because you're watching a video like this but you got to go all-in you've got
to be willing to ask for help you've got to be willing to ask for help
from coaches mentors go through courses just fully commit to mastery not just
dabble here and there on some videos and when you get that rock-solid belief in
regards to what you're capable of that's what allows you to constantly be in the
game that's what allows you to fail for words that's what allows you to realize
failing in life it's not about being knocked over is about staying down when
you've been knocked over failing in life is about realizing that if you don't get
back up that's true failure and so realize the strongest trees don't grow
in the best soil it grows and strongest winds we grow when we're tested but most
people they get knocked over straightaway and they quit and so in
order for to never be a quitter in order for you to be a truly a winner you've
got to truly believe you're born to win and that has to be a rock-solid belief
you cannot let go of it it's a habit that you've enforced you've stepped into
your future self because you've asked yourself who do I need to become in
order for me to overcome these obstacles and achieve my big dream and you've
stepped into that version and you're now owning that version because you realize
if you step into your future identity now you'll begin to see the results you
want much faster these are the three habits they'll help you to achieve your
success I hope you found this video helpful insider and insider if you
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