Girl: My name is Andrea. Student: Andrea, you speak good English! You were saying the beginning
"No English" you're such a liar, I like your accent, it's cute! Matt: Hey guys I'm in Cancun Mexico
right now teaching a workshop on how to meet girls in daytime situations as well
as nighttime situations and you might be wondering why would you come to Cancun a
party destination to meet girls during the daytime? Well the answer is very
simple - because there's no competition during the daytime and women definitely
fantasize about meeting a guy during the daytime at a coffee shop, a bookstore, at
the beach, or any random situation a lot more than they fantasize about meeting a
guy at a bar or club when they're, you know, wasted or on tinder so the thing
that I love about day game is that girls are really friendly during the day, I
mean they're friendly all the time even at nighttime - but see what I mean?
And of course in Cancun there's sometimes a little intoxicated which
which could help? You're not drunk why not? During the daytime there's a lot
less distractions than at night you don't have to worry about her friends
most of the time then she could be up by herself walking down the street shopping
or getting off work, and you don't have to worry about that loud music and
talking over the music, and plus you're both sober so you can actually have a
real moment together. I just saw you two
check out some of our guys hanging out with the girls playing frisbee
having a good time. What's the process of meeting women during the daytime? Well
it's very simple because it's generally gonna be a very short conversation cuz
people are busy during the daytime you know she like I said she's on her way to
work or she's shopping or meeting a friend or something like that so it
should be like a two or three-minute conversation max it's longer than that
or you want it to be longer than that then just take her on an instant date
right then and there, and we want to get to the chase like I said we want to cut
to the chase, people are busy during the day we don't want to ask some indirect
question that turns into a long topic and you know doesn't even do anything
for you, and it turns out she has a boyfriend, we want to find out those
things really quickly, we don't want to waste any time during the day so we want
to be direct. Give a direct compliment tell her exactly why you're there and
why you approached her.
this looks like you
That shows that you're honest and that you're confident when you give her a
compliment you say something like I just saw you here and I had to come over and
talk to you because you are absolutely stunning, that shows that you believe
that she should be attracted to you, because if you didn't think she'd be
attracted back you wouldn't do that right so that shows a lot of confidence
and also shows that you're honest it also shows that you go for what you want
which is a leadership quality that women find very attractive.
Okay so be direct with a direct compliment like you're something like I
just saw you in the distance and I would kick myself if I didn't come over and
meet you or this is totally unexpected and I
don't usually do this but I just saw you here and I thought it'd be a good idea
to meet you hi and then just introduce yourself so literally as easy as that to
just say what's on your mind just tell her the truth hey real quick this is
totally random, but I was just walking by and I saw you girls absolutely stunning.
Today I found this awesome spider-man mask, sorry my voice is a
little raspy it's been six days of non-stop gaming, anyways I'm gonna have
the students approach wearing a spider-man mask. So after you approach
and compliment her and introduce yourself how do you keep the
conversation going? What should you say what should you ask?
Well, there's obviously tons of different options but what I recommend since you
don't know anything about her and at that point you shouldn't want to get her
phone number yet really or want to go on a date with her yet because you don't
know anything about her and you should have higher standards than just her
looks, women like guys who have some standards and guys that are a challenge,
so I recommend that you qualify her by asking a qualification question,
something that you actually care about. I like to just say well tell me one cool
thing about you girls besides say your sisters. I don't really know
because personally I like a girl that has a passion so I just ask that or I
might say something like tell me something cool about you like what are
you all about what what do you love to do and if I really want to make it more
challenging I might add on something like, because I don't know anything about
you and I don't know if we can hang out yet. Which you know saying something like
that shows it shows that I'm still not sure about her yet, yes, I think she's
pretty and that's the reason I approached her, her looks are what got my
foot in the door but I don't know if I want her phone number yet. I don't know
if I want to go on a date with her yet, she has to prove herself to me right?
It's that mindset that you are the prize yes she's the prize - of course it
doesn't mean that you think you're better than anybody better than her but
it just means that you're not needy that you have standards and that you want to
see if she lives up to any of those standards totally diss my friends but
tell me something that you're passionate about?
So once you've asked your qualification question and you've had a conversation
with her and you've gotten to know her a little bit even just for 30 seconds to a
minute or two and you found out she's kind of cool now you have a reason to
get her phone number other than her looks if you get her phone number only
because she's cute then the number won't be as solid sometimes that works fine
but sometimes it's just not enough like she didn't have to work to attract you
people value what they have to work for and people appreciate what they have to
work for so now it's time to go for the phone number or contact information
social media is fine Facebook Instagram snapchat or basic SMS and it's real easy
just tell her here put your number of my phone and hand her your phone assume
she's gonna give it to you don't wait for her to say yes and then hand it to
her hand it to her as you say that and don't ask her if she wants to give you
her phone number don't say can I have your phone number or is it cool if I
call you just assume she wants to give it to you because you're a fucking
awesome guy so assume she likes you and tell her to give you her phone number
instead of asking that works much better and you can also go for an instant date
right then and there it's at the beach you can go for a walk or you can go
swimming in the ocean or you can go grab a drink or go grab ice cream if you're
at the mall or a shopping area you can grab coffee or grab tea or you can ask
her to come shopping with you and help you pick out some shoes or a shirt or
something so go for an instant date find out what is she doing right now just ask
her if she's busy what if what are you up to right now and she's not busy then
say hey let's go grab coffee and then go do that and boom you're on a
date right then and there you'll be surprised at how often that works so if
you haven't tried approaching a woman during the day or if you've only done it
in a very indirect method you know kind of beating around the bush then try this
out man because it absolutely works and women love it! Thanks for watching this
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