No intro, no BS, time for the advice.
Step 1: Don’t actively try to impress her.
Now this sounds counter-intuitive but it’s ACTUALLY so important.
Here’s why:
When you brag or actively try to impress a girl with how awesome or badass you are, you’re
just asserting the fact that you’re NOT actually badass because you constantly need
to remind everyone that you’re a badass.
For example, do you ever see James Bond constantly trying to impress other people and telling
hot girls that he’s such a badass???
HELL NO!
He knows he’s a badass and that he’s high status, and he doesn’t worry about having
to prove shit to anyone.
I call this a “Reverse Display of Value” or RDOV for short.
It’s basically when you signal high value by not going out of your way to show off your
value.
Think John Wick.
He’s an insane killer assassin who can literally handle any threat, on his own, without anybody’s
help… he’s a man of few words because his actions speak so loudly that everyone
already knows how badass he is.
He doesn’t spend an extra second trying to show off how cool and capable he is.
He just does it.
When you actively try to impress other people or show other people how great you are instead
of just being great, you’re engaging in low-value behavior, or a “False Display
of Value.”
Elon Musk just shows up to Tesla and SpaceX and does what he needs to do.
He’s not constantly posting about it on Instagram or telling people how smart and
rich he is.
Constantly trying to impress a girl only proves to her that you’re not confident enough
in your own badass-ery to let it speak for itself.
More importantly, your average hot girl has guys trying to impress her literally 24/7,
so an EASY way to separate yourself is to simply not try to impress her.
That way you easily separate yourself from everyone else and increase the chances of
her noticing you!
It sort of works like the pullaway, she’ll notice your absence more than she’ll notice
you being there, and that’s intriguing, making her like you more.
Just last week, I was hanging out with a friend of mine who’s a relatively attractive girl,
and her phone was blowing up the WHOLE time from guys snapchatting her, DMing her on instagram,
and shit like that.
So you can only imagine how many guys are hitting up the girl you like in an average
day.
Spoiler alert: it’s A LOT.
Step 2: Be unreactive.
Now this is the MOST important tip I’m going to be giving you in this video and this is
something you should apply to all aspects of dating and life in general.
I’ve mentioned it briefly before but it’s SO important, I’m breaking it down here
in-depth.
So download this into your brain, OK?
When I say to be unreactive, What I mean by that is this: If a girl doesn’t talk to
you in class one day even though she usually does, don’t be bothered by it, act like
you didn’t even notice!
If she said she’s gonna text you later and she doesn’t, don’t let it get to you,
you were too busy being alpha to notice!
This unreactivity is deeply rooted in our psychology as mammals.
Think about how a large dog reacts to things vs how a small dog reacts.
A larger dog, like a Husky is largely unreactive, unless there’s an extremely loud noise or
something super threatening, it will likely stand its ground.
It knows its ability and has no reason to be reactive to every little thing.
Think about how anxious smaller dogs are in comparison…
Chihuahas and other small dogs often bark more and get defensive faster because they’re
less physically capable and more at risk because of their small size.
Since humans are also mammals, this unreactivity registers in our brain as dominant and an
indicator of capability.
The more unreactive you are, the more capable and dominant you’re assumed to be.
If she teases or makes fun of you about something you’re doing, act like it doesn’t even
phase you, if a guy comes up to you and makes a douchey comment just act like it didn’t
even bother you because who gives a flying ballsack what he thinks, his opinion doesn’t
even phase you!
If a guy starts hitting on your girlfriend, don’t even get mad or jealous, treat it
like it’s funny, there’s no way she’d leave you for anyone else.
If you walk into your bedroom and all the models from the Victoria’s Secret fashion
show are lying naked in your bed, act like nothing, like it’s just another day … alright
maybe I’m getting a bit carried away here, that kind of thing only happens to me #ZeusSoGodly
The point I’m making is this, don’t let small shit phase you, and act like when you
do something cool or badass that it’s not even that cool because you really ARE that
awesome 24/7.
Being unreactive is the true mark of a confidence GOD and it’s what will really impress a
girl considering it’s different than all the other insecure guys who are constantly
hitting on her and seeking her validation.
Some other quick tips you can do are things like: Don’t always like every single one
of her pictures on Instagram, don’t always look at her or check her out when you see
her around, don’t tell her she’s hot or compliment her on her looks if you’re only
doing it with an agenda, and lastly have really strong body language.
When you’re unreactive, it makes her feel more comfortable around you, she doesn’t
have to worry that something she says will offend you or make you upset, she can be totally
herself because she knows that you won’t take things personally or overreact to the
small stuff.
The reason guys tend to overreact to small things like this is because they’re not
secure or confident in themselves and their ability to keep a girl, so they get really
emotional really easily.
Most problems in relationships or dating come from one person overreacting to super small
things that could be avoided by just not letting tiny things bother you.
By being unreactive to this you can cut down on the drama in your relationship by a ton.
Step 3: Make yourself standout and be perceived as high status.
Simple things would be like dressing really well at the gym in decked out workout clothes
because most people don’t care about what they’re wearing at the gym so it’s easy
to stand out.
Hell, I don’t even ALWAYS wear dope workout clothes if I’m in a rush or something so
that would be an easy way to get points over a god like me!
This is also easy to do if you’re really good at something.
For example, if you’re really good at acting and are the lead in a play and do a badass
job then that’ll impress a girl, if you’re a really good tight end on the football team
then that will impress a girl, if you’re really good making music and produce badass
beats then that’s something that would impress a girl… or if you travel a lot and document
it then that’s another high status activity as well.
Basically, find something you’re good at it and more importantly something you ACTUALLY
like doing and girls will notice it and it’ll impress them.
You could do petty things like throw a badass party and things of that nature but that never
lasts all that long and isn’t worth all the potential downsides.
Step 4: Be yourself.
Most guys try to act differently and put on a facade when they try to impress a girl,
when in fact it’s much more effective to just be yourself and assume people will like
you anyways because your personality is so badass there’s no way she can resist you.
Now when I say be yourself, I mean be the best version of yourself and remove all the
negative aspects about your personality.
I did a video on this already so I don’t want to repeat myself, but you should always
be on the path to improving yourself because this dedication and seriousness towards your
own life will be perceived as insanely attractive.
Bonus tip: always make sure you have a fresh ass outfit, and make it a habit to dress well
EVERY single day.
This is an easy, subtle way to separate yourself from most guys who just wear sweatpants all
the time.
I’ve beat style tips to death in the past, so if you want more details on that then you
can find tons of style videos on my channel, and I’ll link one on screen now.
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