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- Morning, doll. - Hey.
What are you drinking?
Some espresso.
Oh, I thought you were drinking Milo.
No, I wish.
Some [INAUDIBLE] Oh, that's what I need right now.
Something soothing.
You feel good, leaving the house?
I feel like I could have made better decisions.
He made an excellent point to say like, I gave away
his opportunity to make the choice
and make the decision without me trying to say bye
and just be dismissive and exit stage left.
Randall let me know that's really not how
he wanted the weekend to go.
He definitely wanted to have his own time
with Kayla to kind of let her know where he stands with her.
And for Tranika, Randall is another top connection for her.
I get it.
We're in a house with three women
that you have a connection with.
And I get it, because it's easier.
It's easier when you feel like there is any hint of anything.
It's like we'll rather self-destruct.
And I'll rather leave and say, I left, I did this or whatever.
And you know what I mean?
So it's easier to displace that.
That's real. Swa!
What's up, what's up, y'all.
What y'all doing?
I don't know.
Maybe he'll have better advice for you.
- Yeah. - What?
She was saying like she wished,
in hindsight, she wished that she would have gave it a chance
to make its full circle, instead of being
so reactive, you know, so fast.
[INAUDIBLE] ever been in a process like this,
where you have to intentionally date this
person and know he's intentionally
dating another one for a fact.
And you see it, and you're around it.
Right.
So everybody like, I don't think
you was wrong for doing it.
That just was your reaction, I think.
He made a decision a long time ago to me.
He was very clear.
He sat down with my friends and said, that's my best friend.
From the all-white party, he said
I'm not pursuing anybody else.
I need to make that clear to you.
Well you got to remind him.
I need to remind him?
Oh baby, now here we go.
No, I'm just saying-- no.
Then I would have looked like the clingy--
No, no, no.
--oh, taking claims on him, and that's not my man.
You're taking it wrong.
You're taking it wrong when I say remind him.
Remind him like, Hey, remember you told me this?
What happened to that?
Not remind him like, Hey, don't forget to love me.
I'm saying remind him, Hey, you said this, so live up to that.
I'm holding you to it. That's good.
- So he can correct it. - Yeah.
I think he kept every one of our feelings in mind.
However, I still feel like the statement
should have been set a little bit earlier at some point.
I'm only human.
You can only take so much.
But I just thought his decision was made.
I came in here like, we're going on a big trip.
This is a couple's trip.
And I didn't realize he still had
so much more to think about.
It's like, I believe in you, that you
can do what you need to do.
But I'm not seeing it.
So I think the problem was, I was rushing it.
I'm trying to rush it like, Hurry
up so I can get on your back.
We're trying to set a new tone.
I want to be in the pool on your back.
But it wasn't-- it didn't work out like that.
You were ready to be just one connection.
I was.
My mood leaving the house is, this
was a great learning moment.
I handled it to the best of my ability.
But I know Randall feels as though I've
robbed him of the opportunity to let
these women know how he feels.
And so if Randall and I, if our connection is to end here,
we'll leave it knowing that we've grown from each other.
But you know, he's a likable dude.
People are going to be around him.
I'm fine with that.
I'm attracted him for a reason.
Right.
I think everything is going to be fine.
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