- Should a relationship be 50/50?
Hell no.
It is not 50/50, it never was and it never should be.
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So, why a relationship should not be 50/50?
Because we are not the same, we are different.
And ladies, let me back up my words
by giving you four pointers on 50/50.
The fourth one is my favorite.
The first one: a man is a hunter,
he is a pursuer, he is the predator, he is a fighter,
he is a go-getter, he is protector, he is a provider.
Why?
Because he was designed that way.
A woman is a nurturer and carer.
Why?
Because she was designed this way.
You might say, But, Greta, that's the olden days,
it's 50-50 now, we are in the 21st century
and it should be 50/50.
Oh, is it should be 50/50?
That's great, then!
If we are so equal than maybe this year
I will give a birth to a baby boy
and next year he can give a birth to a baby girl.
You see my point, ladies?
It's not 50/50, it never was, it never will be,
it was not designed to be this way,
because we are not the same, we are different.
The second point would be: by investing more in a woman
a guy falls in love.
This is how men fall in love.
He needs to pursue in order to fall for you
and appreciate you.
By letting him invest into you and pursue you,
you are also fulfilling his love need
which is uncertainty.
A man needs to feel uncertainty in order to court you.
If you will be giving him pursuing him,
that ain't going to happen
as he will be getting not uncertainty
but safety and security, which is a turn off for him,
as it's not his love need.
Ladies, please watch my video here for more details
on how to fulfill a man's love need.
The third pointer is: Ladies, as a woman
you are the prize, you are the catch, you are that queen.
Therefore, something like 50/50 on the dates
should never even exist.
If he's taking you out, he is paying.
Ladies, if you are on a date, the bill comes,
he takes it, calculates it and says, You're paying 40,
well, guess what, thank you, next.
But, Greta, what if he thinks I'm gold digger,
what if he thinks I'm after his money?
I can afford to pay myself!
Ladies, it's not about can you afford it or not,
I can afford to pay for myself too,
it's just basic manners of him being a gent,
it's just him showing, Look, I got this, you are with me,
I'm not a loser.
Ladies, if he's so scared of being robbed
by paying for dinner, maybe he should be working
on his insecurities instead of taking you on a date.
Here is my favorite, the fourth one:
For this heads down to Steve Harvey,
Steve Harvey, this is gold.
But what if I earn more than him?
This was Steve Harvey's answer,
he said, "Well then, if he wants to take you out,
"he needs to step it up or play in his own playground."
Steve Harvey, again, thank you so much, this was gold.
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