hey what's going on my beautiful people this is certified life from relationship coach coach court
in today's video we're going to talk about why your ex is probably hiding a rebound relationship
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all the newest content in today's video we're going to talk about why your ex is probably
high in the rebound relationship the very first one is the most obvious if you guys were in a
long-term relationship and you guys um you know form some type of bond with each other you may
have enmeshed families you have the same friend circle and everyone loves you you love everyone
in their family then most likely they're trying to protect your feelings because believe it or not
not everyone goes into rebound relationships in a manipulative or in a cold way
now this is a totally different spin on what a lot of coaches talk about and sometimes i've
even got caught up in that trying to be vengeful about why your ex have um moved on to someone else
and you know like i said in the last video i'll include that link in the description below
it's okay that they decide to move on like how a person decides to leave your life is totally
up to them you know they don't really owe you anything i know that you may think that well
if a person really cared about me or really loved me they would have took the time to
grieve they would have even considered reconciling but you don't you don't you're not old anything
now there's a concept that i heard that talks about relationship equity you get no
relationship equity right this isn't real estate investment this isn't cryptocurrency this is
real life and if a person decides to go on and be with someone else if that's how they heal that's
something that you're gonna have to be okay with all right you can't sit around and mope or try
to make up these reasonings as to why that person decided to leave you so they may want to protect
your feelings they know that you're going to be hurt and you're going to be maybe even trying to
reach out to the rebound person and talk to them and manipulate them or even have a confrontation
with them so that's probably why they are hiding it as the first reason the second one is they may
not be sure about that person they may not be sure whether this relationship that they just got into
is going to go the distance because believe it or not they do have doubts and i'm hearing this
from people that have actually been in those situations where they were in the rebound they
were actually the rebound person um they do have those doubts in their mind wondering whether this
this relationship is real whether this is something that they want to continue to pursue
and even if it's something they want to reveal to the world so they are feeling some type of way too
but you know that need for connection and that need to have that person in their life is just a
little bit stronger than feeling the pain of the breakup is hard and if you could find a way to
relieve that pain and relieve that sense of loneliness then you know most times people get
into those rebounds they'll find that next person right away and like i said they may not be totally
sure about that person so they will try to hide it they won't post anything on socials they won't be
out in public with that person now there is some exceptions right so this isn't this is this is a
general rule there is some exceptions there may be people that go out and flaunt it right away third
one is they may be actually embarrassed about the person that they're in the relationship with now
they may have went the total opposite direction of who they were dating if you go back to my
other videos i talk about this this happens quite often where the rebound is the total opposite of
the person that they're with for a while and they may be embarrassed to that person because um i've
seen more times than not where people will have this like quarter life crisis or this mid-life
crisis and they'll just completely implode their life they'll go and get into some type of rebound
they'll quit their job they'll pick up a new wild hobby go get some massive tattoos or piercings and
they may be embarrassed about the person that they decided to go with you know and i'm sure
they have friends and family saying hey what are you doing um you left a good guy or a
loyal woman for this other person what what are you doing and for that reasoning they'll you know
hide that person because in the back of their mind they're thinking about well this is just something
that's going to help hold me over till the next person come along this is just that painkiller
they'll hide that person because they're embarrassed that's all i have for you if you want
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