so let's go through some of the most
commonly asked questions about this
program by people who are really
interested the first one is
can i enroll if i do not have children
oh that is the best person to enroll in
this quest because
the conscious parent really is one who
is prepared to be a parent so i
encourage those who are thinking about
having a child or even those who are not
interested in having a child to go
through this quest because
it's for every person who's had a parent
it's really about healing yourself and
if you've had a childhood then we all
need healing now the second question is
do i have to enroll with my spouse or is
it okay if one of us goes through this
you know i always say that a conscious
parent begins with one parent so we
absolutely can do this on our own we
don't need permission from our spouses
from our family members the conscious
parent is one who dares to start this
journey on their own and the one who
realizes that if they change that one
person is a million that's amazing but
if you can do it with your spouse that
is the best way now what if one parent
does this and is becoming conscious but
the other parent for whatever reason
is not into it will that disrupt the
whole process so if one parent is on
this path and the other isn't it doesn't
matter that one parent can create
exponential shifts in how they parent
their children and maybe the other
partner will come on board when they see
that there's greater connection with
their children so i really advise all
parents single only one parent is on the
journey but the other isn't
to do this if only one is doing it but
the other doesn't have time it doesn't
matter if one parent changes in their
consciousness it has the capacity to
change
generations to come so i encourage that
parent to take that risk to take that
challenge and get on the quest i see now
what if
this question says my children already
adults
what is the use of me enrolling in this
quest
we're conscious parenting and this quest
is really about evolving ourselves
no matter how old our children are you
know even if they're adults there is
always room for greater connection there
is always room for greater bonding so i
encourage parents to not feel that
conscious parenting is only for young
children or for teenagers
it's really for yourself to connect with
your children at all ages i see and and
that was a big insight for me as well
this program is as much for yourself as
it is for your children now this
question is interesting someone sent
this in i'm already a conscious parent i
have a great relationship with my kid do
i still need this
conscious parenting is a journey it's
not a perfect destination you can never
be conscious enough there's always room
to grow so
if one is conscious one understands that
yeah i can evolve deeper i can grow
deeper i can make sure i'm fully
prepared for all the challenges my kid
may bring to me so i encourage parents
to not stop in their conscious parenting
journey but to keep going and to keep
evolving
now this question says i'm already so
busy as a parent
can i really afford the time for this
program
well the busier you are the more you
need to do this because conscious
parenting actually relieves you of all
the extra doing that you've been doing
you know much of the doing we're doing
comes out of our fear out of our anxiety
out of the old way of parenting so if
you don't have time and you're looking
for more time if you're looking for more
connection then this is the program for
you now this this
this program
one of the things i want to stress is
after you do this program it doesn't
mean that you have to spend more time
with your kid i mean if you do that
that's great but i know that many
parents are already fully optimized what
it means is that the time you spend with
your kid is actually better for them
better for you less stressful and
creating deeper connection absolutely
it's not about the quantity as everyone
knows it's about the quality of the
intentionality and the conscious
presence with which you connect with
your children so this is a fascinating
question totally respect the person who
asked will this help me rework on my
relationship with my estranged teenage
child
yes it could potentially help realign
relationships that have gone astray and
reestablish lost connections now is it a
guarantee nothing is but it will
definitely give the parent tools and
skills to rebuild that lost connection
next question
will this program include meditation or
reprogramming sessions
that shift my
beliefs at a subconscious level
yes i truly believe that it's only when
we learn to meditate and observe
ourselves and enter quietude that we can
shift our belief systems and reprogram
our energies and our entire ways of
being so yes there's a lot of meditation
incorporated into the program and i
think that's the pivotal powerful piece
to this program that it combines the
western psychological piece but also the
mindfulness piece that's amazing that's
amazing and that honestly is one of the
biggest ways we can shift people through
getting people to access altered states
and form identity ships and and
world views and meanings so
thank you so much for producing this
program this has been one of the biggest
budget programs we've ever produced in
mindvalley and i guess part of the
reason is because i saw how much
my life and my parenting shifted with my
kids since you stepped onto the mind
valley stage and i became aware of your
work and i thank you so much for that
and i'm so excited and honored that we
get to bring this to our now 10 million
strong mind valley audience so thank you
everyone
and i'm so looking forward to the world
that we can create when we can take away
the dysfunctional damaged form of
parenting that permeates 95 plus of
households right now and replace it with
conscious parenting and the fully formed
conscious adults of this next generation
which are going to emerge in the world
so i cannot wait to see you in the
program and i want you to know that as a
special bonus for those of you who are
enrolling now when you get into this
program shafali will be making guest
appearances in the community to teach
and share insights as we go through the
very first class of this quest
so
click the enroll button we'll see you on
the next page now i want to give you an
idea of what happens when you enroll
when you click that button and put in
your credit card information and enroll
in the program you will then get an
email with full instructions you can
download the app login using facebook or
your mindvalley login it will know your
email address and it will activate the
quest for you on the app the app is
available on the apple store or the
google store you can also access this
program if you don't have a smartphone
on your desktop if you have an apple tv
we have an apple tv app where you can
watch shafali on the big screen in full
glory and it is that easy the app is
intelligent it will ping and remind you
every day to pursue the lessons many of
us when we wake up in the morning we set
aside time to exercise or meditate or
make a healthy breakfast it helps to set
this 20 minutes during that morning time
so you stack it onto your breakfast or
you stack it onto your morning
meditation in
habit psychology that's called habit
stacking you take something that you
already do every day and you add another
layer to it so for example i meditate
every day when i start this program i'm
simply going to add this 20 minutes
after my meditation and i know that at
the end of 35 days i'm gonna see a
massive transformation and i also know
that i'm doing it for my children so
it's easy to add on to your life and it
is easy to use and if you find that that
20 minutes is difficult it's not a
problem because it comes in an app you
can even listen to this as you're
commuting to work just play it in your
car and listen and sometimes there might
be some exercises you need to do no
worries you can do that portion of the
lesson for the day when you get home so
i look forward to seeing you in the
program and seeing you as our student in
conscious parenting take care and thank
you shabali so much for joining us thank
you so much for having me thank you for
listening i can't wait to see you in the
quest where you and i will walk this
journey toward your greater awakening
and your greater connection to your
children
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