come rich people only befriend other
rich people why do rich people only be
friends with other rich people well I
don't think rich people be friend only
with other rich people but definitely
they want to be friend with people who
are successful who are growth oriented
who are positive so the problem is once
you have money and this is I'm just
speaking from experience that the circle
that you hang around with change because
first of all your your buddies your
friends that you hang with and chill
with on the past you would have less in
common with them not that you have
changed because now around you they
would feel uncomfortable they would feel
insecure and you will feel that the
conversation you have with them in the
past is okay but now all most of the
time I'm not saying all but most of the
time they are bitching and moaning and
they are acting like a victims they're
talking about stuff that just it's very
meaningless you find those conversations
very just a waste of time they're not
talking about growth and not talking
about become better so when you are
growing when you're successful you want
to hang around with people who are
like-minded you want to talk about deep
issues you don't want to talk gonna talk
about sports you don't want to talk
about the weather you're not interested
in there so this is why when you hang
around with other successful people you
feel like okay you know what we've got
something in common that we are talking
about how to build a business we're
talking about how to make an impact we
are talking about
solving bigger global issues this is why
precisely the rich people are willing to
pay a premium price to belong to they
say a Golf Club a private club or
certain associations why because then
they hang around with other like-minded
successful people right show me your
friends I'll show you your future one of
the things that my mentor always says
Dan Tania
and it's very very true you see as you
become more successful the your circle
implements and will change in fact on
the other way to look at it is if you
want to accelerate your growth the first
thing that you want to do is change who
you spend time with who you hang out
with and this is precisely why it's not
that rich people don't want to hang out
with poor people it's very often poor
people the the mindset the scarcity
mindset the the way that they behave
it just doesn't resonate with them also
when you have a lot of money people
around you most our time they want
something from you they want a handout
they want money they want a job they
want to they want to get something from
you right so then they get tired of that
but when they hang out hang out with
other rich people they don't really need
anything from each other they know
there's no agenda because I'm already
rich you're rich I don't need your money
I don't need you to give me a job I
don't need to give you anything so that
kind of relationship becomes actually
more pure that's the truth a lot of
people don't believe it but that is the
truth until next time I'll see my belly