Hey, ladies! It’s Kay, Larry, and Beardy here. Welcome to Galtelligence.
You know I was up last night watching a video from Charisma on Command. It was about
How to be charming without trying and I really enjoyed it. I learned a lot from it.
So you now know how to be charming, huh? Of course! Don’t you think I’m charming?
Sure, Beardy. Anyway, since we found that video so insightful, we thought we’d share
Even more insight on it. In our video today, we’ll be sharing with you the eleven sure
ways That you can be the girl next door.
That’s right! And because we want you to be your most charming self, we’ll also tell
you the One thing you’re doing that’s not doing
you any favors. Right, what are we waiting for? Let’s go!
10. Show Me Those Teeth The number one thing that you should be doing
if you want to be effortlessly charming is To always smile. The trick here is to find
humor in things. It’s very easy to force Ourselves to smile but when we do that, it’s
also very easy to spot that we’re faking it.
When you fake a smile, it’s not genuine. And honestly, it’s going to look creepy.
It’s much like learning how to flirt with a guy, ladies. You want him to feel comfortable
with You so you smile. You find humor in everything
he says or does, so you smile naturally. You Don’t force it out. What makes these charming
people effortlessly charming is that they are
Also genuine people. Exactly! That is how to be likeable. Be genuine.
This means to smile genuinely and Show that you’re truly happy to be around
the people you’re with. Charming a man is just one way to flirt with
him. Find more tips to get the man of your Dreams by watching this video. Maybe you’ll
even be more charming after that. 9. Picture Perfect
The way you dress says a lot about who you are as a person. It’s how you present yourself
To the people around you. If you truly want to be charming, make sure that you present
Yourself in a way that people will look at you and say “hey, she looks good”.
Show that you are confident through the way that you dress. Dressing sharply is also going
to help you On how to be more attractive, ladies. When
you’re able to show your confidence without Talking and just by the way you present yourself,
everyone in the room will be hooked by your charms. Men will surely be giving
their attention to you. 8. Remember Me
No one likes realizing that someone has forgotten their name. It’s even worse when
Someone doesn’t remember you. If you’re the type of person that has an issue with
Remembering names, well, that’s going to be a problem. If you want to know how to be
Charming, then you need to know how to remember everyone’s names. Charming
People remember not only names, but also small details. It can be surprising for some, but
They appreciate it. When you’re meeting someone and you know you have trouble
Remembering names, you can try repeating their names twice or thrice upon meeting them
Just so there’s a recall. It’ll be easier for you to remember them through that.
Also, try to make it a point to remember small details about people so that when you see
Them again, they’ll be surprised at how much you remembered about them. People like
that Feeling, you know? That’s the ultimate
Charming move you can do to someone. 7. Observe
No one likes awkward silences. I don’t think anyone likes “So… nice weather.” either,
right? Yup. So what should you do when there seems
to be nothing for you to be able to start a conversation? Observe.
Beardy’s right. You have to observe. Observe the person you’re trying to speak to and
find Something positive about them. You can try
by saying something along the lines of “Hey, your
Hair looks good. How’d you get it that way?” This will not only help you start a conversation
With someone, but it will also show them that you see the positive about them.
It’s really all about making people feel good about themselves.
That’s how they find you charming. 6. Common Factor
Research from North Dakota State University shows that people that get into agreements
Are often viewed more positively than those that tend to engage in arguments.
It’s very easy to automatically see points of disagreement when we’re not giving too
much Attention when talking to other people. This
is why we can get into arguments without Meaning to. Keep in mind that there’s really
nothing less charming than getting into Arguments with people.
Kay’s right. So, the next time you talk to someone, instead of arguing over differences,
Make it a point to find a common ground. Find any point that both of you agree with, and
go From there. It will make all the difference.
Ladies, I hope you’re enjoying the new things you’re learning so far. If you are, keep
Watching because we have 5 more tips to be charming for you.
Not only that but at the end of this video, we’ll tell you what you’re doing that
makes you not So charming. Okay, let’s not waste time.
Let’s get back to it.
5. Build Me Up, Buttercup One important thing on how to be charming
is to know how to build other people up. People love people who lift their spirits
up. Those who support and motivate them. That’s right! We all want to be around people
who are positive and build us up. No one Wants to be around anyone who drags them down.
Did you know that building someone Up is also one of the things all men want
women to do more? I bet if you learn to Motivate people more, you’re a step closer
to learning how you get your crush to like you.
So, what are you waiting for, girl? Go go go! Let’s build each other up. You can also
build Your girlfriends up by telling them what they
should do more that will get men to like them. Know more about that by watching this video.
4. Are You Listening? Do you know that one song from Hamilton the
Musical? It goes… “talk less, smile more.” Oh, yes! I love that one.
Well, that line makes sense here. We’ve already established that for one to be
Charming, it’s important to always smile, hence the “smile more.” But, another important
Thing to do is to talk less and listen more. If you really want to know how to be charming
Then the trick lies in just listening to someone while they’re talking.
While it can be tempting to interject now and then when someone’s talking, don’t
do that. Let them say their piece before you say yours.
Beardy’s right. And anyway, charming people already know what they know. You should aim
To know what the other side knows. 3. Feel Special
Charming people just have that thing about them, right? They just make you feel good.
Do you know how they do that, Beardy? They do that by making you talk openly about
Yourself. They always put the spotlight on you. That’s why charming people are so likable
Because they make you feel so good. Come on, Kay, how can I become that kind of
charming? Beardy, it’s simple. All you have to do
is ask open-ended questions. When you find out
A detail about someone, make sure to show that you want to know more. Ask why, ask
How. Ask anything you can think of. Put the attention on them. Make sure you’re sincere
About what you’re doing. Do this and anyone will think you’re charming. Doing that is
also One way on how to make a guy fall in love
with you, so there’s a lot of benefits of putting
Other people in the spotlight. To this and charm your way into the hearts of many.
Aside from being charming, are you curious about what other ways you have to make a guy
Fall for you? If so, watch this video. 2. The Waiter Test
According to Dr. Frederic Neuman, if you want to know how a person treats people, take him
To lunch. Observe how they treat the waiters and waitresses. You can gauge a person’s
Personality by seeing how they treat the people that most think are beneath them.
If you pass this “waiter test”, it just means that you know how to treat people equally.
Charming people do just that: treat everyone with respect regardless of who they are.
Be Vulnerable
As humans, it’s very easy for us to want to cover up the fact that we’re vulnerable.
I mean, no one really wants to show their flaws and what makes them weak, right?
We even go the extra mile and actively try to show people that we’re winning in life.
However, charming people don’t work that way. If you truly want to be a charming person,
Show a little vulnerability. People tend to be more appreciative of people who aren’t
Afraid to show that they’re vulnerable and are just human. Just be yourself. That’s
the key. And you don’t know, maybe that’s how to
get your crush to like you, just by being yourself
And showing who you really are, vulnerable or not.
We’re now at the end of this video. We keep our promises,
and so we’re telling you the one thing that’s not helping you to become the charming
Woman you want to be. There’s a lot of ways for you to ruin your
charm, but the number one thing that you Might be doing that’s not helping you be
the girl next door is you try too hard to be one.
At the end of the day, if you want to be charming, you need to be genuine.
If you try too hard, it just means that you’re forcing yourself. When you try to force it,
People will be able to see through you. You won’t appear charming at all. What you should
Do is to be original. Only do these tips we said if you’re really happy doing them.
Do you know any more ways on how to be charming? Tell us in the comments below.
You can finally be the girl next door with our genuine tips on how to be charming.
Be sure to enjoy yourself while doing these. And since you’re already here, why not go
an Extra step further by learning how to flirt
with a guy you like? We have the video just for you.
Charming and flirty, what a great combination.