[ROMANTIC MUSIC] - Come on.
What?
What are we doing here?
We're at a house? - Yes.
Yes.
I thought we were going to a restaurant or something.
No. No.
Come on, surprise.
What?
I'm feeling really good to take Joya out on a date.
I got something really big planned for her,
and she has no idea where we're going.
I have something special. - OK.
You and me.
And I think she's gonna really love it.
(SINGING) Baby, I love you.
JOYA: Babe.
JASHA: Private dinner.
Wanted to do so romantic for you and thoughtful.
I now that's very important to you and--
Babe. JASHA: --you know.
JOYA: Rose petals?
JASHA: Rose petals.
I got you some roses.
Baby.
Aw.
This is so romantic I am literally floored.
JASHA: Got a private chef for us.
TERESA: Hey.
- This is Chef Teresa. - Hi.
- This is Joya. - Hey, Joya.
How are you? - Oh, elbows.
Hi.
Now, this is the thoughtfulness that I have been desiring.
How you feel?
I don't even know right now how I feel.
Thank you so much for finally understanding.
When Dr. Stacii said romance, you hit it.
Like, this is romantic. [LAUGHS]
Yeah, OK.
I want to show you how much I love you and appreciate you.
I'm grateful for you.
You're doing a good job.
You know, I just--
I love you even more, 'cause this process
has really magnified, you know, our strengths and weaknesses.
When we came into the process, I
literally was just like, all fingers pointed at Jasha,
you, you, you.
Like, you're the problem.
Why are we not married?
Why are we-- you know, like, everything was you.
But throughout the process I have
realized that there's some things that I need to work on,
as well.
But I just want you to know that I'm committed.
I'm committed to doing the self-work.
Thank you, babe.
What's been the hardest part for you so far?
The hardest part is being the walk-- seeing you go
out that door with another man.
Definitely that double date.
[LAUGHS]
Mm.
The double date, that was the hardest part for me.
The second hardest part was actually, like,
getting to that place where we actually argued.
Yeah.
But the pressure was good, because it forces
us to get in that space but also be able to get back
to what we know we need to be.
Hey, guys.
I don't mean to interrupt, but the food is almost done.
OK.
So you can go ahead and head over,
and I'll bring you your plates. JASHA: All right.
Thank you. JOYA: OK.
Sounds good. JASHA: Thank you very much.
You're welcome. JOYA: Thank you.
Babe, this is just so pretty.
Love it.
The candles--
Do you like it or do you love it?
I love it.
There you go.
Thank you.
Very beautiful, very romantic.
JASHA: Looking forward to Chef Teresa's making us
some wonderful salmon--
Mm.
--and a little bit of Caribbean.
You know-- - What?
You know, my baby is a Caribbean, you know,
Jamaican descent.
Thank you, baby.
JASHA: Mm-hmm.
Ooh.
Ooh, yes.
What do we have here?
JOYA: Wow. JASHA: Thank you so much.
- Thank you so much. - We appreciate it.
Thank you.
Mm.
First of all, you know, like, this is my favorite.
I know. I know.
I know.
[LAUGHS] So romantic.
It's been a journey, you know, this whole process, Dr. Stacii,
the love that she puts in to us.
She is in it with us, for real.
She wants us to win.
What'd she say?
We just got to flow.
Let us flow together.
[SIGHS] I know.
JASHA: Let life flow. Right?
I know. I know.
JASHA: And it's all gonna work out.
Get out of our heads and get into our heart.
I've had to do that, as well. I get out of my head.
I was gonna say, that's for me.
JASHA: Yeah. You be in your head a lot.
I do.
I didn't feel like I was forcing or controlling.
But when Dr. Stacii was able to help me to see the way that I
am going about explaining to Jasha
what I want, and this is my timeline,
I'm in this place of force and control.
And me just being able to open up and allow him to be
the leader that I already know he is, then that will give him
the opportunity to step up to the plate
and really just take control of the timeline.
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