By the end of this video,
you’re gonna know what secrets all narcissists keep and
you're gonna wanna watch all the way till the end,
because I'm saving the best one for last.
Hey there, I'm Rebecca Zung,
I am a narcissist negotiation expert, also an attorney,
I've written two bestselling books,
“Negotiate like you M.A.T.T.E.R” and
“Breaking Free: a step- by-step divorce guide”.
I've helped thousands of people break free
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So, let's talk today about the 6 secrets that all narcissists keep.
Yeah, they're super secretive and
I wanna make sure you know what those secrets are.
I know because I've seen them keep them,
I've seen it in my law practice,
I've seen it in dealing with them in a negotiation setting,
in business, in relationships, in all sorts of settings,
in helping people all over the world at this point now,
in all sorts of negotiations.
So, it's time to expose those secrets.
They go through your stuff when you're not watching.
They're going through your drawers,
they're going through your phone,
they're going through your computer,
I know it's super creepy, but it's true.
They’re just super insecure people,
they just wanna know what you're up to,
they want information and they're gathering.
They're gathering information in case they might need it down the road.
They're taking notes and
they will maybe use it down the road.
I mean, they kind of assume the relationship may not last,
they don't know, whether it's business or personal,
they've been down this road before and
so they kind of think they might need it down the road.
I do have a whole video, by the way,
on the 10 unsettling things that narcissists do
when they think that you're not looking,
definitely check that out.
But one of the secrets that they they keep,
is that they’re looking through your stuff
when you're not watching.
They do. Narcissists hate being alone.
That's a secret that they keep.
They're actually very much people that
want people around them all the time.
They act all tough and strong,
but they really don't wanna be alone,
they actually want people around them all the time,
so that's number two.
They are constantly looking for ways,
they're putting people down,
degrading people, or looking for ways to be controlling,
or just looking for ways to just inject things in conversation,
to make it appear like they're smarter than they are,
maybe they'll say something in a conversation to make it appear
like they're smarter by just making a statement,
they just they want to appear smarter than they are,
they might just pick up a statement here and there,
and drop it in.
They want to make it seem,
they might just flat out lie about their background, if they need to,
they might expand on their background, if they need to,
they might expand on their resume, if they need to,
but one of the secrets that all narcissists keep,
is they try to make themselves appear smarter than they are.
They want you to see what you're up to,
they wanna know what their supply is doing,
they wanna know what it looks like to,
behave in a normal person way,
so, they watch you because of that.
They're constantly watching you.
I do have a whole video, by the way,
on why the narcissist is always watching you.
It's another super creepy thing that they do, super creepy.
I mean, I have had two covert narcissists in my life,
which it's been like, the worst and
I know they used to watch me all the time and
it was like I used to say to my husband,
why are they watching me?
I really didn't know they were covert narcissist at the time,
I just knew that these people were watching me and
now I know, that is another secret they keep.
The narcissists are always watching you.
They really hate themselves and
I do have a video on the 8 reasons why they really hate you,
so definitely check that out,
the eight reasons why narcissists hate you.
They hate you and they hate themselves.
It's true, it's absolutely true.
After 20 years of helping people negotiate with narcissists,
representing them, being on the other side of them,
having to deal with them in my personal life,
it's true, I definitely know this to be true.
I know everybody else is telling you
that there's no way you can win against a narcissist,
that negotiating with narcissist is totally futile.
But I'm telling you,
with the right understanding of how narcissists think,
and the right framework,
that you absolutely can win, every single time.
It's absolutely possible, believe me.
I've seen all the drama, trauma, and chaos,
so with the right understanding you absolutely can win and
what you wanna do is,
you wanna make sure that you grab
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Most importantly, you have to really understand your mindset.
They have done a number on your mind,
they want you to believe you're like the weak one,
but they didn't attach themselves to you,
because you had no value.
They attached themselves to you,
because you have so much,
that's why they wanted a piece of you,
they're not stupid.
They wanted a good source of supply and
that's what you were, that's what you are,
A good host.
That's what you're not gonna be anymore.
That's what I'm gonna help you,
severe the host of supply, alright?
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Remember, they only win if you give in and
that's not gonna happen.
Today's a great day to start negotiating your best life.
I will see you in the next video.