If I knew the answer to why people hate on confident women, I would probably have done
something about it by now.
I really don't know.
I don't understand why if you see a confident woman you want to tear her down.
If everyone prioritized their own confidence, then the world would be a better place.
The day that I went to the studio to write this song I was wearing just a cute little
skirt and a bodysuit.
And I felt good in it, so I wanted to post a picture, because obviously that's when you
post pictures of yourself.
When you're like, "I look bomb today!"
So I was just trying to live my life.
I have A-cup boobs. I don't really need a lot to hold them up. I don't wear bras because
they're unnecessary.
And I had a scoop back so you could see a bra strap if I was wearing it, so I was especially
not going to wear a bra that day.
My shirt was not see through, but you could definitely see the imprint of the fact that
I do have nipples because duh, women have nipples.
All people have nipples, like fucking relax everybody!
But I noticed that this one girl said something along the lines of, "How could you post this?"
"You're such a slut.”
Bitch!
You're another woman.
When women tear other women down, it makes men feel like they can tear women down.
Shout out to the girl who commented that shit on Instagram, because I turned your negativity
into positivity for hopefully thousands, if not more, people.
So thanks for that!
I do love myself.
I have days where I hate myself, but I think that we all do.
I have days where I wake up and I'm like, "Fuck, I'm such a shitty person."
I definitely have days where I struggle.
Most of the time I like to tell myself that I'm the shit.
If you're more focused on bringing other people down, then you're probably going to bring
yourself down by the fact that that's who you are.
You are literally existing to make other people feel like shit, which is going to make you
feel like shit.
So if you exist to make yourself feel good, then you're going to help other people feel
good.
I just think it's kind of ridiculous when you can clearly tell that someone is feeling
themselves, you just want to tear them apart for it.
What is that?
What makes a sweet little unforgettable thing is just someone who is themselves, and embraces
it.
I want to take back the word "slut."
If someone's going to call me a slut I'll be like, "Whatever. Thanks. Fine. I don't care."
That just means that I'm doing something that's memorable.
I think I've got a nice ass, maybe.
I don't know, but I feel good about it.
And I'll turn around sometimes and be like, "Okay, Bea! You're popping out today!"
Let's all love ourselves and be ourselves, and support each other, and not be so judgmental
and so harsh, and not tell other people how they can and can't live, then the world would
be a so much nicer place to live.
In the bridge we didn't originally realize that it sounded like Aretha Franklin's "Chain of Fools"
but once we kind of figured that out and we were like, "Oh, should we change it?"
I was like, "Why would we change it?"
'Cause she's such a badass woman and that's what the whole song is about.