my name is Marnie and from here on out I am going to be your very own personal
win girl you hear it every single week but it's my job to give you the no BS
honest truth about what women want versus what they say they want and I put
up new videos every Tuesday so please keep an eye out for my videos one of the
biggest complaints I get about dating is getting ghosted which right now is a big
topic nothing is more heart-wrenching than
thinking a date went well and then the girl is never to be heard from again it
sucks I know and it happens just so many of the guys that I work with and there's
only one person it hurts more than these guys that's me because I know exactly
why they're getting ghosted and what they should have done to avoid it so in
this video I'm going to tell you the five reasons you are getting ghosted by
women and how to stop the both sting once and for all so keep watching so
what are the top 5 reasons you keep getting those two by women you think you
have a connection with and here they are reason number one you didn't establish a
rapport with the woman during the date and this is so important a lot of guys
think it's all about attraction and flirting and getting her interested and
that's all they focus on when the truth is that's about half of what you need to
do the other half is getting to know each other getting her to trust and open
up with you and if you haven't done this you can expect her to flee reason number
two you weren't completely honest about your intention so you need to be upfront
about what you are except I thinking what you want if you're looking for
something casual make it clear be casual if you're looking for something serious
same thing obviously there are smooth and socially
calibrated ways I'm doing this but I can teach you baby at the point you can
start to keep yourself in your attentions and check by setting
intentions prior to a date and then checking to see if you did what you
intend to do so for example my intention is to flirt with this woman my intention
is to let her know I'm attracted to her my intention is to sleep with this woman
then after the date it can revisit that list of intentions and see if he did
those things if not then you know what needs to be worked on and potentially
why she didn't feel that spark and is no longer responding to your text because
you're intentional is often we were covering something up reason number
three you didn't set the expectation so you need to let her know that you plan
on contacting her again or plan on taking her out again and nothing is more
attractive than a man who can set an agenda I've heard so many stories from
women about a great date that they had with a great guy but then they didn't
hear from him until three weeks later by that time they were over the guy and
kind of pissed at him and didn't feel the need to respond back and they kind
of felt played don't be too assertive or you might make this mistake though what
is reason number four you put too much pressure on her too soon if you catch
yourself planning the next few months with a person and you're only on the
first meetup then you might be doing this never pressure
someone's agenda too much you want to be firm in what you want but always leave
them the option to follow their own agenda whatever it may be so I've had
this happen to me a lot of times I've been on a date and me and the guy are
connecting or joking around we're flirting a little bit not necessarily
into each other yet but we're having a good fluid conversation and then he
keeps bringing up things for us to do together in the future and I'm never
really sure if this is said from nerves or neediness or excitement for me but I
have to tell you it just feels diff bleeding like he's on a totally
different track than me and way ahead of me on this date which typically results
in me losing steam as I no longer feel as connected to him so ease up on the
pressure and setting up the future plans and if you guys are going to see each
other again it won't be because uncle walked her down and contrary committed
to have four plans in the future okay now I'm going to reveal the fifth reason
and the biggest reason that you are probably getting ghosted but before I
share this one I want to share an email from one of the Wingra methods Facebook
group members w.w wrote to me once things started to click for him and
his response he reveals the fifth and most common reason women ghosts you and
don't want to see you again by the way W was over the moon happy
because he finally realized why he continuously was ghosted and now he
knows how to avoid it ok so here's his email Marni first off I don't know why
it took me so long to realize this but the reason us guys get ghosted is
because women typically don't want or don't know how to tell you that they're
not interested or they're uncomfortable doing so I had a date with this one
woman we made great eye contact I even got a kiss on the lips it seemed to be
going really really well but I couldn't tell in that moment that things were
lacking but it was actually very obvious the day consisted of me asking questions
for interesting things about herself her talking about herself and her job 95% of
the time and her asking questions about me a nice exchange that I now realized
didn't necessarily mean she was into me she just enjoyed me it wasn't until
working with you that I learned this key difference in the past I always confused
a good connection with her being sexually attracted to me I mistook all
her talking in question-asking as sexual interest in me I now know that in the
past I had not done enough flirting with women and just getting a woman talking
about herself is not flirting thanks for all your help and glad I can finally see
what I was doing wrong and how to change it in the future
signed w so this is a pretty huge insight that may or may not make sense
to you completely but hopefully it does but it is the fifth reason you are
probably getting ghosted as w expressed in this email the key issue for so many
men and what's most confusing is that they can mistake a nice connection for
her being sexually attracted to you big difference women can connect and
even have a great time with a man without wanting anything romantic with
him getting women to talk is simply not enough to spark her interest do you want
to know what is just enough to spark her interest some
really good confident flirting and this is also what W was touching on in his
email and maybe let's consider the sixth reason that you are not flirting enough
on your dates if you are not flirting you are not sparking attraction as I
talked about and reason number one it's wonderful to build rapport it's needed
and essential for a date but on the flip side of it if you are not flirting you
are not creating any sexual attraction or a desire to see you for future dates
guys who understand this about women are incredibly rare which is why the few who
do get it also have way more sexual options than they can handle
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