My dear elegant ladies, let's jump into point number one.
Now we all have traits in us that are attractive and less attractive to the
opposite sex that we wish to attract.
You can emphasize more on some of the traits you know,
the man is going to appreciate. The same way,
I'm sure you've seen men whenever they want to impress a woman,
he makes an effort with his grooming and maybe puts on a little bit more
gentleman's gestures to court that woman that he is interested in.
But the same goes for women.
We can tweak our body language to let the man know that we're interested so that
he can become more interested in us.
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body language number two that will turn a man off and that is when a woman
is overly sexual. And this doesn't matter if you're doing it as a joke,
or if you're serious showing exaggerated sexual cues. You know,
there are some body language cues that meant him to appreciate,
like when you bite to your lip a little bit sensually, a little bit like this.
But the exaggerated version would be.
And then of course, many cues,
like when you are bending over to pick something that you dropped.
You're not gonna be like.
Oops, I dropped something. Now, as you can see,
that kind of comes across incredibly stupid.
You don't want to create an awkward atmosphere and men do get a little bit
uncomfortable when something is awkward. Well, normal men,
there are of course some weirdos that like that stuff.
What I'm trying to say is that when you're trying to impress a man with your
sensual side of you, do it in a very subtle way,
when it doesn't look like you're putting on an act,
when it actually looks like you're genuinely just like
biting your lip without
even noticing that you're doing it. And that usually becomes sexy to the man,
not when it's all, you know, like that.
What I'm trying to say is that when it's also choreographed and so much like
a show. What is attractive to the opposite sex is when you are yourself.
And when you're doing things without really even noticing that you're doing them,
that is just part of who you are. That is the true nature of you,
not when you are pretending someone you're not,
putting on a show and just doing a bunch of theatrics.
Point number three,
masculine body language cues like hunching legs spread apart.
I don't know, even doing like masculine gestures,
like holding up the door for the man to pass through,
insisting to pay the bill or even things that
I know not everybody's gonna think about.
But as an example, lifting heavy things, carrying heavy grocery bags,
that is the man's job. That is not for you to do the woman,
unless you don't have a man by your side to help you.
If there is a man, he should always be carrying that stuff,
not like you have to be there, you know,
muscle man carrying all these heavy things.
Now those are masculine cues that you're sending out to the man.
And I'm not saying now that men are gonna be so incredibly put off,
as soon as they see you carrying heavy bags. No,
I'm talking about when we're adding up all these small bits and bobs together,
when we have overall a very masculine behavior.
And those masculine cues put together,
they might not attract the man subconsciously.
And that's just something to pay attention to.
Number four,
masculine intonation when you speak.
I have to speak about the speech separately,
and this is something that I myself have to think about because I am a person,
as you probably can notice. I'm very direct by nature.
That's just the way I am. That's my character. And I'm not trying
to change my character whatsoever,
but I do try and soften myself a little bit when I feel like I'm getting
little bit carried away. And definitely,
I have to also work with that in my relationship,
because I don't want to turn myself into a man because I really enjoy being
a woman. And I really enjoy being a feminine woman.
And my husband appreciates me as a feminine woman as well.
So when I start noticing that I'm starting to speak a bit like this.
I'm speaking really loud or too direct, or some of the things that I say,
or even the vocabulary that I use.
I think about that and I try to soften it. I don't try to change who I am.
I just really try to reduce that a lot.
Because what really happens is that we just let loose and we don't even
understand what's going on.
And sometimes we can go really deep into our bad habits.
And if you don't want your bad habits to develop even further,
then that's when you should just stop for a second and pay attention and
soften or reduce or change or do something to not continue
in that direction.
Not all men wants to have a very feminine men who speaks very much like this and
you know, very soft spoken, not all men appreciate a women like that.
Some men like a bit more like a flamboyant woman,
other men like other types of women. First of all,
we're not gonna be able to appeal to every man out there.
And that's not the point.
The point here is that there are general tips that I'm sharing with you that
can help you improve parts of your dating life or relationship or
marriage life for the better.
Point number five. Now remove that desperate look on your face.
And I'm serious ladies.
There are cues that you're gonna send to him that tells him that you are
interested, you're flirting. Come on, let's go make this relationship happen.
But you don't want to make it in an obvious way.
You don't want to seem desperate.
And we all know that we don't want to be too available as women.
I am talking also about taking some steps too far,
like as an one body language cue that signals that we are interested is
by giving him some form of physical touch.
But then it's important that we make sure that it doesn't become too much,
too often in the wrong places.
Or let's say there's another body language cue that says we should be leaning in
a little bit to the man. And again, we don't want to now be like.
Leaning in so desperate that it just shows,
it screams I'm interested. Take me. I'm ready.
That is the worst energy you want to send off.
You want to always keep him guessing. Is she interested, is she not?
I think she is, but I'm not a hundred percent sure.
And that's what keep them interested because they know you're interested
somehow, but they're not a hundred percent sure.
They're still figuring it out and they're playing along and they're enjoying the ride.
Because the point of my tips is for you to attract a high caliber man,
not the average Joe. Listen, for the average Joe, you don't need my tips.
You can just go out and find him anywhere.
But to get a more high-level man,
it requires a little bit of extra work sometimes.
Point number six,
we all know that we shouldn't be too available. I'm not gonna repeat that one.
But one thing is really important is that you are not turning yourself into this
really stone cold rock,
where literally all you have is like this kind resting. What do you call it?
When you're so afraid of flirting or even looking at him,
you're not giving him any form of eye contact.
You seem absolutely not interested in him.
And you never ever give him any form of validation,
not even a little giggle at one of his jokes.
So what happens is that a man oftentimes will lose confidence in such women
because he starts thinking that, you know what? I don't think she's interested.
He might even start feeling bad about himself.
And then he just gets put off because then he understands this is game over.
And then there is a woman that say, well, then he wasn't the right man for me.
And that is just very defensive to speak like that because you know what?
You also have to walk a little bit in order for the man to understand that you
are interested. If you look incredibly not interested,
there will only be this little percentage of men who are just interested in the
conquest, capturing the woman. They're not interested in the women.
They're just interested in the game of catching the really difficult woman.
And I'm not sure that's what you're looking for.
I'm sure you're looking for a serious relationship, perhaps marriage.
And for that reason,
you want to be with someone who's genuinely interested in you,
but then you have to open up. You can't be hiding in that shell.
So you need to be able to find that perfect balance,
how you can show interest without being too much.
Validate his interest without giving it all away. Sounds complicated?
Not really.
Point number seven, ladies, be a woman,
be feminine. Don't be an infant. Don't be his mother.
When you go into that really childlike state.
You know when you're just so girly and it's almost like you became 10 years old
next to him. I mean, that is not attractive. Same way,
it's not attractive when you turn into his mother telling him up for things
following up, did you do this? When are you coming home? You know,
like being to controlling. They don't want that attitude.
That is going to put him off immediately. Be a woman,
be a feminine woman. Men love that. Now ladies,
let me know in the comments below
what else turn man off from your experience?
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Now the next video, seven body language secrets that turn men on.
I'm gonna give you more cues that's going to make you irresistible.
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