When you hear the word “flirting”, the same few ideas probably come to mind.
Playful banter and friendly touching, flipping your hair, licking your lips and batting those
lashes.
Of course, these gestures can come across a bit cliche in certain situations, so if
you’re looking to really nail your flirting game then hang tight, because I’m about
to share with you six quick tips to do so!
Hey YouTube, Amy North here.
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then welcome!
As I mentioned, today I’m going to share some easy flirting tips you can use to get
any guy hooked on you.
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Alright, now that we’ve got that covered, let’s talk flirting tips.
1.
Open Up Your Body
Have you ever noticed how easy it is to form an impression about someone based on what
their body is saying.
Even if you don’t speak a word to someone, how you communicate nonverbally is extremely
powerful.
With this in mind, you can use your body to flirt, and it’s an incredible way to do
so!
To start, you’re going to want to open yourself up.
What this means is uncross your arms, sit or stand straight and tall and keep your head
up.
By physically opening yourself up it sends the message that you’re approachable and
interested.
Unlike if you were curled in a ball, blocking the world out, it will make men comfortable
talking to you.
2.
Use Your Eyes
Again as powerful as words, your eyes are extremely expressive.
This means you can send the guy you’re into a flirty message simply by looking at him
in a certain way.
Now you may have heard of “smizing,” a term Tyra Banks coined for smiling with your
eyes.
I love it, because it nails exactly what you should be doing.
Now you may be thinking, “Amy, you sound insane!”
but in all seriousness, give it a go and practice in the mirror.
To start, relax your face, smooth out your forehead, open your eyes wide and pick a focus
point.
Next you’ll lower your chin and partially squint without moving your cheeks.
Once you’ve nailed this you can work on slightly parting your lips, elongating your
neck and pulling your shoulders down.
The look you’re giving should communicate interest, attraction and playfulness.
This combo can be tricky, but it’s definitely worth perfecting because it packs quite the
flirty punch.
Also, while speaking with the guy you’re into be to maintain eye contact.
Not only is it a sign of respect, but it’s also a subtle way to flirt and show him that
you’re interested in what he’s saying.
If you’re shy or feel uncomfortable looking in his eyes for more than a few seconds at
a time then use the triangle approach.
To do this shift your focus randomly from his mouth to his left eye and then right eye.
It lets him know that you’re focused without the pressure of staring for too long.
3.
Touch Him
This gesture can be as grand or gentle as you choose, the point is to make some physical
contact.
For instance, maybe you gentle graze him with your body while passing by, or perhaps you
lightly touch his arm while laughing at something he’s said.
Whatever you decide on, the point is to flirt by getting physical.
Entering his personal bubble may seem a bit intrusive, but when you can find an excuse
to do so, it seems more appropriate.
For instance, if the two of you are in a noisy room you could whisper in his ear to get close
to him.
Or, you could do him a favour and gently brush real or imaginary lint off the sleeve of his
shirt.
Of course you don’t want to overdo it, but a bit of casual touches during conversation
can let him know you’re interested.
4.
Smile
Smiling is hands down the most powerful and obvious sign of a flirt.
So, anytime you’re around the man you’re into be sure to flash him a smile because
when you do, a couple things will happen.
First, is he’ll return the gesture.
Since smiling is extremely contagious, by smiling at him you’re almost guaranteed
to get a smile back.
The second and perhaps most important thing that will happen though, is it’ll make him
feel good.
Again, this reason is twofold.
For starters, a woman smiling at him will stroke his ego and make him feel attractive,
and second, when you cause him to smile it will release endorphins in his brain.
These chemicals will make him feel elated, so if you can do this on a regular basis then
it won’t be long until he associates his positive feelings with you.
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Moving on,
5.
Laugh
It’s a known fact that women laugh more at and around guy they’re into, which means
showing the man you’re talking to that you think he’s funny is an easy way to flirt
with him.
Like most things on this list though, be careful not to over do it or you might risk ruining
your reputation.
I mean, no woman wants to be seen as a dits that giggles at everything.
Still, like smiling, laughter is contagious and is considered one of the more obvious
signs of a fun, outgoing person, the kind who is in love with life.
Show him this side of you and you’ll have him hooked in no time.
6.
Use Your Words
There’s a huge difference in the way you speak to someone you’re attracted to and
someone who’s just a friend or stranger.
When talking with a man you’re looking to flirt with, it’s important that you speak
cheerfully and keep your tone and words positive.
When it comes to the actual context of your conversation, feel free to switch things up.
Of course this will depend largely on your relationship and how comfortable you are with
him, but you may choose to compliment him on something he’s wearing one day, then
choose to gently tease him the next.
How he responds will play a bit part in where the conversation goes next.
Another helpful tip for flirting with words is to use his name in conversation.
It’s been proven that saying someone’s name out loud will make that person feel closer
to you.
So, if you’re talking to a man named “Joe” you could say, “Hey Joe, how’s it going?”
or “I like that shirt you’re wearing Joe.
It really brings out your eyes.”
It’s easy to spot a flirt when they’re playing their cards right, and this tip is
most definitely a way to let a man know you’re into him.
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Until next time ladies, good luck!