It's Tripp from TrippAdvice.com, teaching you how to get the girl whether you're an
introvert, extrovert, shy, or outgoing.
This video is specifically for my guys out there who are introverted.
Some of you may know who you are and others may not be sure.
Today, I want to go over what it really means to be an introvert.
If that is something that you are, don't worry, because I'm also going to give you some great
action steps to take to meet and get with more women.
If you're an introvert, and you know how to play to your strengths, then you'll have an
easier time connecting and attracting with the women of your choice.
On the other hand, if you are an introvert trying to play the game that extroverts do,
it might leave you with nothing at the end of the night, and a night out on the town.
First of all, what is an introvert?
If you look at the definition online, it says that it's someone who’s shy.
This is 100% not true.
A lot of people mistake introvert for shyness.
These are very different.
An introvert can be shy, but the true definition of an introvert is someone who gets easily
overwhelmed by social situation and tends to recharge by having more alone time or one
on one time.
How is this sounding so far to you?
Do you see yourself as more of an introvert?
Someone who needs a lot of alone time to recharge?
Do you get bogged down by big groups of people or anxious over the fact that you might have
a party to go to that has a lot of people?
If you said yes to any of those questions, then let me help you with meeting girls.
I'll let you know that I'm actually an extrovert, which means that I enjoy big parties, large
social scenes and crowded bars.
I always liked meeting women and these big social settings, I felt more at ease there.
If you're an introvert, that will be a little hard for you, which brings me to my first
tip on meeting girls.
If you're an introvert, you may want to focus on meeting women in a quiet, a more casual
environment.
Most of the time, this is during the day.
You want to start approaching and talking to girls in places like the mall, like the
grocery store, maybe a bookstore, sidewalk, things like that.
I've worked with many introverts before, and have found another great way for introverts
to meet girls, networking events or singles events.
These places tend to have way more one on one type conversations.
This way, it's going to be more manageable than having to go up and talk to a big group
of people.
They might be wondering, what if I do happen to be out one night at a loud bar or a party?
What's the best advice you have me now?
Here's what you're going to want to do.
Before you go out to this type of event, make sure that you're fully recharged.
Give yourself a lot of alone time.
Otherwise, it can be tough.
Like let's say that you have a big family function on a Friday night, and then want
to go out on a Saturday.
Or by Saturday, you might be mentally drained at this point.
I want you to prepare for that.
Also, once you get to the bar or the party or wherever you're trying to approach, approach
smaller groups of people and get yourself into more one on one conversations as soon
as you can.
That way you will flourish in the environment that's more suitable for you.
To wrap this up, I want you to know that being an introvert is not a flaw.
There are positives and negatives to both being an extrovert and being an introvert.
You have to figure out what works best for you.
Tell me in the comments below based on this video, if you're an extrovert, or if you're
an introvert, and if you've had any obstacles along the way, and how I can help you.
Comment right now.
If you've realized at this point, that shyness is the major problem, then don't worry because
I have a video right here that's going to help you with that.
Check that out to fight your shyness.
I'm Tripp from TrippAdvice.com.
Share this video with any of your friends that might be introverted and want to learn
a better way to meet girls.
Thank you so much for watching.
I'll see you on the next video.