So you're looking for a girlfriend. Hey, this is Tripp Kramer from www.trippadvice.com.
On today's video, I want to go over my very best my number 1 tip in terms
of finding and attracting a high quality girlfriend. Now this tip is in two parts
so it's kind of like two tips in one. They're based around the same idea.
Let me ask you a question; have you ever read the book by Stephen Covey called
The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People? If you haven't, I highly suggest
that you go get that. In fact, if you want, I'll put a link to Amazon below so you can
go check it out. It's a great book and one of the habits is beginning with the
end in mind. What does it have to do with today's video? Well my tip is this,
in order to find and attract a high quality girlfriend you have to begin
with the end in mind. You have to think about the end result. Meaning, what
is the type of girl that you want to attract? Where is this girl? What is she
like? What are her personality traits? What does she look like? And I know guys
are really into you know beautiful women but I want you to think deeper than that
because when you get a girlfriend it's going to be more than looks. Is she cool?
Do you guys have the same values? Does she have the same interest of you? Do you
let her in social situations? Do you like her when she's meeting your family and your
friends? Are you guys similar? Are you guys different? I want you to think about
all the various aspects of this high quality girl that you want to attract.
Here's how you're going to do this. What I want you to do is I want you to
actually get a pen and paper. Don't use your iPad, don't use your phone.
Don't use anything but a piece of paper and a pen and the reason why is because
what I'm going to have you write down when you're writing it down with a pen
and paper it really engrains itself in your mind a lot more so get a piece of
paper and get a pen. I want you to write down all the various things (things I just
suggested) that you want to find in a girl. Again, everything about her. Not just
her looks but everything about her personality, who she is as a person, her
likes, her dislikes and we're kind of doing almost something similar that
people doing business when they're trying to find their target audience. They write
down exactly who this person is so you're going to doing something very
similar. What we're doing here is we're beginning with the end in mind.
To attract a high quality girlfriend that's different for every
single person. Your high quality is different than my high quality and she's
different from someone else's high quality. So you want to write down
everything about this girl that you want to attract. What is this going to do?
When you finally have this long list and you really know the type of
girl that you want, it's going to be 10 times easier to filter for that type of
girl when you're going out and you're meeting women. You're going to have this
piece of paper and it's going to be on your mind so you're going to know what
to look for. You're going to know what to filter for. You're going to be
thinking about it as you're interacting with a woman, as you're going on dates
with a woman so you got to have these in your head. A big issue with finding a
really quality girlfriend is there's a lot of guys they're just settling. This is
what I'm preventing right now. I'm preventing you from settling because a
lot of guys will just say oh hey that's a pretty girl, there are a few things in
common, she's sort of fun to hang out with...boom,
I'll let her be my girlfriend. This is bad. This is going to cause you probably
to end up breaking up with her or she's going to break up with you or maybe you
go so far down the line that you get married and that can cause a divorce. All
because you settled so I want you to know exactly what you're looking for. This
is part two of the tip because obviously just knowing is not enough. How
do you actually find this girl? This is going to take you going on dating
apps, going and making a profile on online dating and cold approaching a lot
of women. This is something that I would encourage a lot on this channel is to
introduce yourself and meet a lot of women and go on a lot of dates because
it is going to take a little while to find your high quality woman so what you
want to do is put yourself in the front of as many women as possible. Now you may
be thinking, wow Tripp that seems very desperate, is that what I'm doing
here? I'm just trying to find any girl I can? No, you're not. Actually this is the
exact opposite of desperate. This is not desperate because you know what you're
looking for. But this is going to be a little bit more difficult. You're not
going to just find that girl with the first girl you approach.
No, there's going to be some rejections. You're not going to be going on dates with
everyone and the dates that you do go on, that girl might not fit what you're
looking for. Here's something you need to keep in mind. I'm really hoping
that you came this far in the video because this is very important. Listen up. This
list could be trouble. I don't want you to just reject every single girl
that comes your way if she doesn't fit every single thing you put on this list.
I'd say, to give it a rough number, you want to hit at least 70 to 80% of
your list. It's going to be nearly impossible to find the girl that is
exactly perfect for you who has everything on that list. We don't want
to settle, we also don't want to be too picky. You want to be somewhere in
this range right here where you're finding the girl who's got a majority of
the things that you're looking for because at the end of the day you're
not going to finding the girl who's absolutely 100% perfect.
Hey, you might and I really hope you do but I want to be realistic here. I
want to be very realistic and knowing that it can meet a lot of girls and
hopefully you find the one that has a majority other things on that list.
Now you might be thinking Tripp great I got the list down and I'm going to put
myself in front of a lot of women but how do I do this attraction part? How do
I get them interested and how do I filter for the right one? Well I have a
program if you don't already have it, I suggest you check it out. It's called
Hooked and you can find that at www.getherhooked.com. I'll put a link in the
description below and you're going to go to that link and you're going to watch a
video that's going to explain all about this program. This program is basically the
core foundations of what it means to be able to attract the women that you meet.
It doesn't matter if you've never met a girl in your life and you're completely shy,
this program takes you from Step a to step Z giving you the right techniques
and the right tools to attract the women that you want. Check that out at
www.getherhooked.com and if you're like I don't want to check out that program but I
still want to learn stuff well I have a whole channel here filled with hundreds of videos
on how to attract women but the program is nice because it's step by step so you
don't have to do any guessing games and putting pieces together. You can just go
to the program and voila, you can turn into the guy that will get a high
quality girlfriend. I guarantee it. Go check that out. I hope you learned something
here and I hope you find a high quality girlfriend. I'll see you on the next
video.