women like to play hard to get and it makes them more attractive to men because well they are
considered top tier you might think a lady is not interested in you but really she's just playing
hard to get confusing i know you might notice she is nervous when talking to you which can make the
conversation a little bit boring she might not seem happy or teases you but not in a flirty way
she will lean away from you instead of towards you she will never be with you alone
it's always that she's busy and she never dresses to impress now the odds seem stacked
against you it looks like she really doesn't like you and you can't actually force her to
there are things that you can do though to try and attract a lady
who is actually not interested in you granted some ladies will just not be interested in you but
some ladies you can actually change their minds and in today's video we
are going to look at how to attract a woman who is actually not interested in you stay tuned
number one look at the body language use your body language to attract that special lady
if she seems closed off in her body language maybe with her arms crossed it's a sign that
well she's just not interested so you should display open body language instead body language
also shows the other person how confident you are so if you display open body language to someone
that is not interested in you well they will realize that you are unfazed by their behavior
now you should get as close to her as possible but also as appropriate if she is uninterested
guys you don't want to freak her out if you are in a group setting though you can stand next to
her also maybe touch her arm or shoulder when you were making a joke or if she said something funny
don't do this too often though but do it enough to move you out from that friend zone she might get
some chills down her spine and think could there be something more here hmm i have ended up dating
guys that originally i was not actually interested in i found that their body language was something
that flipped my opinion of them i found their body language literally so attractive that it just got
me excited and eventually one thing led to another so it's totally possible to influence someone
with your body language spend time on your own self-confidence because if you don't love yourself
how do you expect someone else to love you it's common maths you must work on your self-confidence
to feel self-confident maybe she's not interested at the moment because you are not displaying any
confidence at all so spend some time working on building that confidence up and some ways to do
this is to put yourself out there more at work for example you can volunteer for a group project or
present something at a big meeting doing these things will slowly build your confidence and
eventually you will feel like you can take on the world you should also read out mantras and
things into the mirror things like i am brave i am wise i am confident and this will imprint
into your brain and make you a much more confident person self-confidence does not happen overnight
but once it does you will be able to attract the woman who is not actually interested play it cool
i've said this many times in videos now and women love the chase so if you have been acting
very interested and then all of a sudden you are playing it cool she will wonder hmm why she will
be thinking is he not interested in me anymore was i too cold and suddenly she will start paying
attention to you standing next to you or asking you questions it could also be that you have just
been showing your interest and she has been giving you nothing she might not actually like you or be
interested so playing it cool is less embarrassing when she tells you that you can act like yes i'm
not interested either like duh so to play it cool stop paying her as much attention don't make eye
contact or ask her any questions stand far away from her and display some closed off body language
and see how she responds also i have to say this do not chase her with messages sending messages 10
times a day without her replying does that sound familiar if it is stop it don't be that person
just message her once a day and wait for her reply until you message again smell and look the
part make sure you always smell nice because it really does attract the ladies if you also dress
nicely and look lovely the lady is more likely to start becoming interested in you she might not yet
be mentally attracted to you but she could become physically attracted and it naturally follows once
she gets to know your mental side well there you go things can go further be a good listener so she
is not interested in you well you can change that if a woman is not interested you need to show her
all the amazing things about you and one way to do this is to be a good listener if the girl is
confiding in you and telling you about maybe a problem she is having you need to listen to her
maybe reply with some of the things that she has said to show that you really are listening
for example if she's complaining about her flatmate you could ask her a question like
how do you talk to your flatmate about the problems that you are having now it's gonna
make her think and let her know that you really do care about everything she is saying now this
might flick something in the brain that makes her more interested in you be a good conversationalist
another amazingly great way to make her interested is to be a conversationalist you can bring up
topics and talk about things that interest her tell her some interesting facts or talk about
something that is in the news at the moment one top tip is to research a little bit about her
job it's sneaky but you get to ask her questions about it for example if she works in a kitchen
shop you could ask her so what's your favorite kitchen item that you sell or you could be a
little bit more specific either way being a really good conversationalist can make you instantly more
interesting to a lady win over her friends first you may already be in a similar friend group or
maybe through work you know who the friends are that she hangs out with so you can use this to
your advantage and make sure that you are friends with them also focus on forming relationships
with them and finding things in common the more time you are able to naturally spend with them
the more time you will be able to spend with her this gives you the opportunity as well as to
learn more about her friends naturally give away information about their friends it also allows
her more time to get to know you and over time she may start to be more interested in you she might
think i do like him more than a friend even though you are trying to be friends with her friends and
win them over don't friendzone yourself make sure to flirt with her and make sure it is clear that
you do like her more than a friend so to wrap this up it's better to win over a lady's heart
as opposed to searching for the signs if it doesn't seem like she is into you then focus
on just being the best man that you can boost your self-confidence focus on your body language
play it off cool look and smell nice and be good at listening and have an amazing conversations
also don't forget to spend some time winning her friends over that is a great way in and
may create a spark between you both try to just be yourself and if you win her over
that's fantastic if it still seems like she's not interested then maybe it's not meant to be
move on and find someone else who really loves you the amazing person that you are
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