- Have you just started talking to a guy
and you're trying to figure out
how does it is that you can be on his mind
even when you're not around?
Well fear not, you sexy single lady!
Adam LoDolce here,
and in this very special video,
I'm gonna be revealing
the three steps that any woman can take
that is guaranteed to make him miss you
and want to continue pursuing you.
Keep watching.
(gentle music)
Hey there, Adam LoDolce
from lovestrategies.com,
where I help successful single women
get out there and attract long lasting love.
And this week's video is
a little bit different than previous videos.
The reality is that I've been spending
the past year of my life
completely focused on
my Love Accelerator clients.
Last year, I decided to go all in
with everything I was doing
and develop this very intimate program
called Love Accelerator,
where I help my clients
follow what I call the little love steps
to get out there and attract long lasting love.
So unfortunately, I haven't been able
to spend as much time on the YouTube channel
and developing these videos,
so today I decided, you know what,
I'm going to just start revealing
some of the information
that we share in Love Accelerator,
and just start revealing it to all of you
so you get an idea of what it is
that we actually talk about in Love Accelerator.
I actually had a client
ask me this the other day
on our group Zoom sessions.
And she asked, "How do I stay on his mind?
How do I make it so that he is pursuing me
every single step of the way?"
As I continued to dig deeper,
I realized that she's just talking to this guy,
she's in the earliest stages of dating.
So I reminded her of the little love steps.
And here are the three steps
that I really told her to focus on
and I'd love for you to focus on as well,
if you're trying to make a man miss you.
The first step that I reminded this client of
is what I call little of step number one,
and this is where you build your sexy confidence.
If you are single and looking for love,
the very first step you take
is not actually about attracting men
or making them miss you.
It's actually much more about you
building your independent lifestyle,
feeling sexy, feeling confident,
leaning back into your feminine energy.
These are all the things that are naturally
going to make a man want to pursue you,
when, of course, he meets you.
So I reminded this client,
make sure you value yourself first.
Don't put so much energy towards him
and trying to draw him in.
In fact, when you start
putting your energy elsewhere
to your own independent lifestyle,
he is going to want to close that gap.
Now, the next step you really want
to be thinking about
when you're trying to make a man miss you
is what I call little love step number three,
and that is where you're gonna go out
and meet a lot of high value men.
One thing I have to remind
all of my clients of in Love Accelerator
is that you are not
in an exclusive relationship with a man
unless it is explicitly clear
that it's exclusive.
And until you get to exclusivity,
the best way to make a man miss you
and think about you,
is for you to have a very active social life.
Go out, meet a lot of different people.
Go to events,
connect with people in your social circle.
Find various ways to get out there,
surround yourself with a lot of other people,
not just men, also women.
And naturally, once again,
a man is going to notice this
and he's not gonna want to lose you.
He's gonna be reaching out to you
asking you what you're up to,
he's gonna want to see you,
he's gonna want to be a part
of this incredible life.
And the third way to make a man pursue you
and miss you and want to close that gap,
is once you get to what we call
little love step number five,
where you pace the progression
of your connection.
When our clients walk through
the little love steps,
they are getting out there
and meeting a lot of high quality men.
And even when they meet a man
that they are really attracted to,
they tend to slow things down,
and that's what this little love step
is all about, pacing.
And here's the crazy thing about pacing.
When you are the one slowing things down,
men actually want to speed things up.
It has a crazy psychological effect.
And the more that you pace intentionally
and do it in a way that's very healthy
and really contributes
to a long lasting, healthy relationship,
the more a man is naturally going to miss you,
because he is gonna be the one
who is gonna want to progress things forward
every single step of the way,
and you're the one who is pacing things
and slowing it down.
So there you have it.
In a nutshell, be confident,
meet lots of other guys
and slow things down,
there's no rush throughout this process.
And if you follow these general principles,
or of course, if you follow the little love steps,
naturally, men are going to be missing you
in ways that you never knew possible before.
So I want to hear from you in the comments below.
Which of these steps are you
gonna focus on in your love life?
Leave that comment right there below.
And finally, if you are interested
in exploring Love Accelerator
and being a part of the community,
the conversation, our weekly Zooms,
and of course, learning the little love steps,
head on over to lovestrategies.com/apply.
We'll also leave a link
in the comment section below.
That's where you can apply to speak
to one of our love strategists.
We'll talk to you directly
and see whether or not you're a fit for the program.
There is absolutely no pressure
on these phone calls.
In fact, we want to make sure
you're a really good fit for the program
before inviting anyone into the program.
So if you're at a point in your life
where you're really serious
about getting out there
and attracting long-lasting love,
go ahead and apply,
and I hope to see you
in Love Accelerator very soon.
All right, speak to you very soon
and I'll talk to you next week.
All right, bye-bye.