[music] - You sad to leave?
Yeah, I am sad to leave.
It's the final day before decision day,
and our couples are feeling the immense pressure
of making the biggest decision of their lives.
I'm just feeling, like, nervous and anxious.
In order to better evaluate the last eight
weeks of their marriage, our couples
will spend the last day alone.
[music playing]
Let me help you make the suitcase.
Yeah.
I know you got stuff all over the place in this place.
I mean, you came with a whole house-load.
I know.
It's so much stuff to bring.
Before I got married, I honestly didn't really think
about the decision day aspect.
I think I was just--
when I found out I was getting married,
I just focused on-- so much on am I going to like this person?
And now that this day has literally snuck up on me, I'm--
I'm like, oh, my God.
It's here.
Are you nervous?
Am I nervous?
Mm-hmm.
To be alone in your thoughts?
Ah, no, I'm going to appreciate this.
- You going to appreciate it? - Yeah.
I get to think. - OK.
I really get to think the pros, the cons,
what all means what, how feel.
You know what I mean?
- Yeah. - No, no.
I might shed a tear.
You know?
This is a life decision.
This is not something that you could just make a quick answer.
Even if you was in love, I feel like you
still should think about your future and think about,
is this right?
So I just feel like I need time to myself to just really think
and try to really take in everything
I've been through with Katina.
How would you feel if you ended up single tomorrow?
I would be sad.
I didn't sign up for this to get a divorce.
Right.
So we're taking time to process and to get over it.
But I would definitely, you know?
I would be sad. - Yeah.
I'd be hurt.
I hear you.
How would you feel?
I mean, yeah, you'd be--
I'd be sad, but you always going to remember that this
was part of the process.
You knew that this is the chance that we take.
So--
Of course, but that doesn't change my feelings.
I'd bothered that-- yeah, I'd be bothered that,
you know, if it didn't work.
But I would overcome it, and then,
you know, become OK again.
OK.
I feel like, because you're a female, you're more like--
you know what I'm saying?
No.
I guess, I really can't--
I mean, I know I'd be sad, but I don't
know the level of where I would be,
because it didn't happen yet.
You know what I'm saying?
Mm-hmm.
So, I mean, I could give you an answer,
but I don't really know.
I'm not in that position.
[music playing]
It's a scary thing, because you put a lot of effort
into getting to know someone.
So if it doesn't work out, it's kind of like a--
like a-- like a draining feeling.
No matter what our decision is tomorrow,
I want you to know that I truly care for you.
I'm happy I met you, and I hope you really
choose what's best for you.
I don't ever want you to make a decision
based off because you care what other people are thinking.
This decision is deeper than just saying
I had a good time with you.
I hope you really do what's best for you.
You deserve what's best for you.
Be selfish when you make your decision.
Be selfish, because you have to.
I'm going to be selfish.
I have to make what's the best decision for me,
not because I care about anybody else.
I have to do what's best for Olajuwon.