Still here in Chiang Mai. Just got into a new Airbnb. The last hostel we were in had
cats everywhere and wasn't so fun for my my allergies so we moved into a new
place. But we're only here for another week and then gonna move somewhere else
in Chiang Mai and then off to Ao Nang which we are very excited for. Now you
know how the saying goes all play and no work makes Jack a dull boy.
Okay it's quite the opposite, but either way we've been doing a lot of playing
and not as much working as we want so we're gonna be getting back to the grind
here but it's cool because there is a cool coffee shop we're gonna check out
that apparently has a slide and it sits right in the jungle so let's go check it
out.
We are at a coffee shop here in Chiang Mai is called coffee number 39 I think I
saw this slide on Instagram and I was like we have to go there's a coffee shop
on the side and it's actually a lot cuter than I thought
that's how we're gonna be tonight here
here in these trip advice community the number one question I probably get is a
guy asking about a specific girl who is not interested in them or just asking
about a specific girl in general so I get it I understand you know a lot of
you guys are going to school you're gonna work maybe you see that same girl
on the on the bus or on the train and you want to attract her and maybe you've
already talked to this girl and you found out that she's not really into you
yet well on this video we're gonna be going over what you need to do but also
going over one of my biggest philosophies over here and the trip
advice community so first of all a lot of guys don't really realize that that
girl that you're interested in might be interested in you so you might not be
thinking she's interesting you because she hasn't made a move yet you're
thinking she's not attracted to you because she isn't flirting with you she
isn't coming on to you she isn't doing anything or giving you any signs but
that doesn't mean she's not interested so a lot of you guys who are attracted
to a girl who think she's not into yet really is but you haven't taken the
steps to actually pursue her so that's kind of one of the things you'd be
thinking about if you don't know yet for sure if she doesn't like you
you need to be pursuing her now if you know for sure that she's not interested
in you I bet you that could be about 30 to 40 percent of you you find out okay
she's definitely interested maybe you've you've talked about you talked to her
about the fact that you like her maybe she put you in the friend zone or maybe
someone told you that she's not interested whatever the case is now
you're in the scenario where you know for sure she doesn't like you so there's
two routes to go and the first route is the most important because this is one
of the biggest philosophy is a trip advice that I talk about all the time
I'm not afraid to talk about it and almost every single video because I
believe it's the most important and that philosophy is one of letting her go
there is something very powerful in admitting that there is someone out
there who is not interested in you and not attracted to you and saying you know
what I'm gonna be okay with that I'm gonna be able to move on from that and
I'm gonna be going and pursuing another girl that is actually interested in me a
lot of people think that that's a weak or think
they're not gonna succumb to rejection or that they just want to be persistent
but I believe it's much more powerful for you to say you know what I'm gonna
be able to move on because I actually want to approach someone and interact
with someone that I can give the chance to actually be attractive to me instead
of pining after that one girl it's not weak it's very very powerful so I need
you to be thinking on the opposite end of things and also let's just get into
the idea of attraction for a little bit I just want to let you know it is very
difficult for a girl's mind be completely switched over from I'm not
attracted to him to I am attracted to him I'd say it's very rare maybe in 5%
of any cases that I've even heard about is a girl you know finally interested in
a guy after him just to know being in the friend zone and hanging out with her
more and more and more it's just so rare but that's ever going to happen now I
don't want to give you this give up mentality but I'm just letting you know
that this is really based in a lot of cases that I've seen right this is this
is it's very difficult for a girl to just kind of flip her mind when she sees
you as a friend that's pretty much it you're a friend or maybe she doesn't see
you as a friend at all and she doesn't like anymore because you guys broke up
or whatever it is semi productive day at the slide cafe I'm not gonna go back
home get some more work done and have a call with my video editor the
person who makes all these lovely videos look so pretty thanks Dillon talk to you
soon so with all that being said what do you
do if you want to get a girl that isn't attracted to you in - is there a way to
do it yeah like I said I'm just being realistic with you you got a five to ten
percent chance is a possible sure anything's possible I mean yeah we could
do it but it takes a little bit of work and honestly a little bit of luck just
hoping for the best here so here is my best step-by-step plan for you to be
able to attract a girl who is not interested in me so I call this the four
step attraction amplifier yes and this is something I talk about in my hooked
program you don't know my hook program you should be checking it out check out
the link down below gator look calm now I talked all about this in great detail
but let me give you kind of the quick synopsis about it
the four-step attraction amplifier is this idea of building up a more
attractive and a better you there's a little contradiction here but just bear
with me the reason why you're doing the force of attraction amplifier is not
because you are trying to impress a girl we actually want you to do this so you
can have a better life this is about working in all the areas of your life to
make it better but you want to do it before you if you start doing it for a
girl it's not going to successful so the first step is doing this but doing it
for you and then one of the byproducts of doing it is actually being able to
attract a girl at your interest in and in this case Rhea tracked or try to
attract for the first time a girl who's not interested in you or you follow me
pay very close attention take notes the four areas we're gonna be working on a
wealth health lifestyle and your social life okay so these are things we're
gonna be going after now what you're gonna be doing is you're gonna be
stopping communication with the lowest you're interested in going off for at
least a month at least a month maybe a couple more months to work on yourself
and then come back and try to react her as if you're talking to a girl for the
very first time first let's start as well here's mine
best tip okay if you want to do something to make more money that's not
currently your job side hustle is pretty good right now and a lot easier to do
because there's more opportunities for people to make money because of the
Internet here's what I want you to do in the description below I'm gonna put a
little link that's gonna help you do a skills test take the skills test find
out what you're good at and then use that to find a side hustle of course you
don't need to do that maybe you need to get a new job altogether then I would be
taking the recommended steps to be doing that so we always have to start at the
one right why well why is it important to make more money do it be super rich
to be happy no but it obviously helps a lot in your life you have more money
that means that you have access to more access to more experiences access to
more opportunities that is what money brings so it's not a bad idea
to continue working on building your wealth now I'm not a fitness expert not
a health expert my very best tip for health and things that I've heard and
learned and study is if you want to lose weight then eat less calories you want
to gain weight eat more calories so that is gonna be one of the things you want
to focus on calories in calories out yes it makes a huge difference and if you
want to stay more healthy you guy have nutrients lots of nutrients every day
going out and getting a smoothie or just going out and eating more greens adding
more greens to your diet is the me one of the best ways to get more nutrients
in a smoothie is a very simple way to do that why health why focus on your health
because it helps regulate your emotions when you eat healthier you feel better
now let's talk about lifestyle you're my biggest tip for lifestyle you want to
focus Travie make travel a priority travels so
good for you it humbles you I'm doing traveling right now and you just learn a
lot about different cultures and you see how other people live and it gives you
kind of a lot of spending where you're going a lot of gratitude in terms of how
you are living your life and also you just get to have a lot of fun
experiences and enjoy this huge planet that we are blessed to be on also when
you're traveling it gives you access to meet more people and have more
connections and create more relationships in your life so travel is
very very important and I believe obviously it's something to be putting
into your lifestyle glass is your social life okay so this is the last part of
the for traction amplifier your social life if you have friends try to make
time to spend more time with them if you don't have friends I want you to figure
out the things that you're interested in go do those things while other people
are doing those things right so for example if you are into a rock climbing
go the rock climbing gym enjoying the rock climbing gym right or go to
meetup.com enjoying other rock climbers so you can meet people it's an easy way
to make friends when you are doing something that you like and there's
other people doing that too now why do you want to create a social life why
can't you just stay at home all day and do your own thing well when you make
more friends it's proven scientifically that you are happier when you have more
relationships in your life connections with other human beings so you want to
make sure that you also make that a priority what's the common theme here
are you seeing it because the common theme is happiness
working on all these things are gonna make you in general or happy so that is
the big why why bother do all this because it's gonna make you a better
life you're gonna be happy you're gonna feel but they're gonna feel more
confident and people especially women are going to see that so and then when
you go back to that girl then you want to attract wasn't into you in the first
place she's gonna see a completely different view now this is seems a lot
of work and you wanna be able to throw all this together and make it make sense
for you don't forget to check out my program called hooked and get her hooked
comm link is down below with everything else and that's it for today I'll see
you on the next video