so in this video I'm going to share with you exactly how to get guys to approach you because
let me tell you the more people that you talk to the more options you have and options equals power
throughout the dating scene and don't worry we're gonna get high value men to approach
you not just the weird guys who are kind of creeping you out okay and at the end of this
video I'm gonna give you even a few strategies on how you can start conversations with Guys
Without A Feeling forced or without feeling like you're kind of coming on to them keep watching
hey there Adam Littleton from lovestrategies.com where we help successful single women get out
there and attract long-lasting love and do it with a strategy and as many of you know before
I started working with women about a decade ago I actually used to coach men on how to get out and
meet you beautiful ladies yes I know it's such a weird job that I had for about four years but I
would have one-on-one sessions or have as many as like four to five guys in a given night and
I would work with them on their body language and their ability to connect with women and let
me tell you one thing when these guys would walk into a room when I was with them these were really
shy guys who really struggled getting out of their shell I was helping them with that but they would
walk into the room they would scan the room and they would look for the woman who is least
likely to reject them horribly okay men have an extreme fear of approaching women it is absolutely
terrifying like most guys would rather die okay than get rejected from a woman they are attracted
to so so here are some strategies to get a guide to approach and doing it in a very friendly way
for starters make sure you're going out with just one other friend I call it the crew of two
if you start going out with as many as three or four other women suddenly it is incredibly
intimidating for guys to come up and talk to you same also goes with going out with male friends I
get it some of your guy friends might be like oh yeah I'll go out with you and I'll help you pick
up other guys or whatever but really what they're doing is they are blocking you from meeting other
guys because no guy is going to approach a woman who's with another guy they we just don't do it it
just doesn't work that way so just go out with one other female friend who's also single or even if
she's in a relationship whatever she can be your wing moment that's it crew of two next it's really
important to remember that standing is better than sitting it's a lot more intimidating to approach
a woman who is sitting down because it's kind of awkward to have that conversation than if she's
already standing up so make sure that if you do want to talk to guys be standing up and be ready
for them to come up and talk to you next position yourself in the center of the room the center of
the room is the place you want to be where there are a lot of people kind of walking by if you're
standing there you're just the crew of two it's so much easier for a guy to spark that conversation
than if you're just talking to your girlfriend in the deep dark corner of the room and you're
in this in-depth conversation guys are going to look at that and be like no way I'm not doing
that that's too terrifying stay in the center of the room make it really easy for them to kind of
bump into you and that's the way to get guys to approach now that you're standing in the center
of the room and you are the crew of two and you are standing next part is all about smiling and
laughing with your friend have fun your Vibe matters so much like the way it is that you're
interacting with your friend is listening of the Counterpoint to this let's say you're talking to
your friend about like the deepest darkest worst thing that's ever happened in your life and it's
like a super deep conversation and your body language is looking like this because oh my
God you're just like you're clearly upset and you want you're like venting about something no guy's
gonna talk to you okay he's gonna be terrified all right instead just keep it lighted have fun
with your friend talk about you're out at night to meet guys have fun be laughing enjoying your
time oh and by the way if your friend is that type of person who always brings that negative
energy and wants to vent or has sad stories to tell always find a new wing girl she's not right
for you you need someone who brings a good vibe who's fun who's friendly that's what gets guys
to talk to you I'm telling you once again when I used to work with men we'd look around the room
the first thing that we're looking for are just women that seem like they're having a good time
because if they're having a good time usually they're friendly to your approach and you know
even if they're not interested at least they'll smile and be friendly back whereas the women who
are like in deep conversation and talking about something intense you go up and talk to them and
they're like go away dude all right and that's happened into us plenty of times and then finally
and this goes back to like kind of the law of what I call dating Karma and that is don't be
mean to guys who approach you even if you're not that interested in them there can be kind of this
power Dynamic I see times where a woman gets approached by a guy who they're not attracted
to and they can be a little bit rude or a little bit mean to that guy because the woman has kind of
all the power in that situation or maybe you're just sick of it you've been approached a lot of
times that night you're just like ah get away like I'm not interested try and be the bigger
person in that moment because the moment that you start being rude or mean to other people
other people are watching whether you know it or not and if you're rude to one person who's coming
up and approaching you even if he's not on your level it's going to detract from the high value
guys wanting to come up and talk to you so just keep that in mind and ultimately no matter what
just give good karma out there the better energy you send out there the better energy you're going
to put in return even if you're frustrated with your love life always be putting out those Good
Vibes all right now that you understand how to get guys to approach you let's kind of switch
this around think about how is it that you can start a conversation with some guys when you go
out for starters when it comes to mindset we're not going out to go hit on guys okay the part of
this is not you're not like approaching him to like pick him up you're just giving him enough
of a window of opportunity to then take the conversation from there so really what we're
doing is just creating opportunities for the guys to then quickly open up a conversation
with us that's the that's the idea we want to have what we don't want to do is be going out and be
going straight up to a guy and be like you're super cute I wanted to come up and talk to you
here's my number it's a little bit too forward let him make that investment in you versus the
other way around so how do we do this for starters proximity matters get within like four to six feet
from him just so that you're in kind of his Zone all right then once that happens just slightly
look over at him be smiling with your friends and just maintain eye contact for just three seconds
longer than you might normally do it just give them the look be smiling with your friend and
laughing and then kind of look away we're not here to like be checking him out the whole time but by
just maintaining that eye contact with a close proximity that is typically enough to get that
conversation going and if that's not working then of course start a conversation with him let's say
there's you're at a sports bar and there's a game playing you can be like oh who's playing tonight I
didn't know when he was playing just anything you could literally have any words that are coming out
of your mouth it could just be hello like I've had a woman come up to me and just say hello and that
was great it's fantastic actually happened two weeks ago when I was in New York City with my guy
friend obviously I'm married so it was just like a friendly conversation but like just friendly
people if you smile start conversation that's great um and same way is if you just go up and you
don't have a TV screen you could just be like oh what are you guys drinking tonight we need a new
cocktail to drink for the evening just something very very basic just to get the conversation
going and typically from that point forward you'll get a feel if he's interested whether
or not he progresses the conversation from there so I want to hear from you in the comments Below
have you ever kind of approached a guy or started that conversation with a guy how to
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