hi everyone I'm Adrienne Everheart and today I'm going to talk about how to get a
guy to chase you after the first date I want you to have an amazing first date
with him where he wants to pursue and chase you and hopefully keep dating you
and build that commitment you're longing for okay first things first
I want your first date to be effortless I really encourage just meeting for a
quick cup of coffee practice your tools and get to know each
other better prior to the first date I always recommend having a quick phone
call with the man most men will just want to text and text but it doesn't
hurt to say oh all this texting has been fun a phone call would feel really nice
what do you think go ahead and have a quick phone call with him make sure he
can really put sentences together and it's not C redoing it for him now I want
you to show up and be relaxed and that means being well practiced one of the
reasons I want you to quantum date is that you get to practice all of your
tools leaning back being in your feminine energy really really get him
all the tools I teach you in the unzipped collection as well as my ebook
500 ways to talk to a man I have so many tools in there that teach you how to
practice on a man so when you are well practiced you are confident you're in
your feminine energy you can show up in a very relaxed vibe and practice those
tools on him too one of the things you can do is while you're at the table with
him or bar wherever you may be is to lean back lean back in your chair have
your head slightly tilted in a receiving way and just relax your body allow your
muscles your abdomen all through your hips to just relax it also helps to
wiggle your butt into the back ear seat and if you find yourself putting your
elbows on the table and propping yourself up and leaning forward keep
your elbows off the table just just leaning back and being in your
soft feminine energy will really inspire a man to pursue you he'll feel that
space and instinctively want to move closer to you try it and see I don't
want you have any agenda on the first date he may be incredibly good-looking
show up in a Kris and driving a bee w when he shows up but I don't want you
to have any big agenda or outcome for him if your brain gets ahead of you with
that I want you to just laugh and giggle at it and say I'm here just to have
coffee I'm here just to have a nice Pleasant conversation and see where
things go just find yourself catch yourself if you're thinking too far
ahead about that man no long stories please don't go on and on and on about
stories about your eggs or on and on about stories about your life don't use
words that sound like you're in a therapy setting just have a relaxed easy
time with him and no long stories let this man be curious about getting to
know you so when he asked you a question and you can just use a feeling statement
let him know what you're feeling in your body without going into some long story
that man will be curious about you and curiosity is what strengthens attraction
this goes double for sharing any bad childhood stories or family issues you
may be having right now really this first date is just gonna be light and
playful where you're just gonna get to know each other a little bit in the
beginning this is part of the slow burn which is just taking it slowly and not
diving in all at once don't try to impress him with big words and your
amazing vocabulary you're a smart educated powerful
dynamite woman and let it shine from within you have nothing to prove to him
by impressing him with a vocabulary or work accomplishments instead use this
first date just to get to know him and again come from a place of warmth and
within your feminine body try connecting with him from there first listen more
than you talk I know this is tough I'm a girl I like to talk too but I want you
to really try a nod and listen look him right in the eyes and just nod and
listen to him and really make sure you're hearing him not figuring out what
you're gonna say next now one of the tools I teach you in the ABCs to get him
back and in 500 Way and of course the unzip collection is
really really get him and that's where you hear what's going on emotionally
with the man and you say wow that must have felt so interesting or wow that
must have felt so exciting to you you really really get him and lets him know
that you're listening you're not just planning what you're gonna say to him
next if he comes to you with a list of problems and he's treating the date like
a therapy session I want you to remember don't fix him don't make suggestions
don't offer to help him you can nod and listen and if you get bored you can let
him know if you're in that sort of situation where guides going on and on
about himself sometimes that means he really likes you and he's just super
nervous or he wants you to know everything about him because he really
likes you so nod and listen hang out there keep
the date short though let him know in advance I have about 20 minutes to meet
for coffee on Saturday what do you think that way you're not trapped in a long
dinner or a long movie with a guy you have no interest
so in closing on your first date just share what's up be do more listening
than talking and come from a place of your heart and warmth don't go into deep
issues where you're trying to solve things or fix things or bring up old
emotional wounds I mean we never know how being vulnerable on a first date how
it might trigger us or what we might feel but remember this is just your
opportunity to practice some tools on him get to know him laugh have a good
time I hope this video has been helpful if you liked it give it a thumbs up and
I love to hear your comments in the comment section as always it's my honor
to be part of your relationship life and I'm sending you much love today and
always bye bye