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What Relationship Do You Have?
We want to create the life we want.
then why is it so damn hard?
It is so incredibly hard for people
to understand why it is
that we aren't manifesting the things we want in life
this is because we aren't aware of our resistance.
we aren't aware of the actually relationship
we have with things in our life
resistance is an oppositional force
we can meet with resistance in the external world,
and the internal world.
Now, you know what external resistance looks like.
people, places, events and things
that are opposing you
but what we have to accept is that external resistance
is a reflection of internal resistance.
most of which we are completely unconscious of.
to understand resistance in depth, watch my video titled:
'Urgent! Deal With Your Resistance Before You Do Anything Else
the resistance that we have present within us
makes for a strange relationship with anything we have resistance to.
you can't have a good relationship with money,
if you have a bad attitude towards money
anymore then you can have a good relationship with a partner
if you have a bad attitude towards that partner
life consists entirely of relationships
we are in a relationship with every single aspect of our life
and therefore every aspect of your life can be treated like a relationship.
its obvious, that we have a better relationship
with certain things, than we do with other things.
but if we look at it from this revolutionary approach,
all we have to do in life to live a happy life
is to improve our relationship with each aspect of our life.
we have to become aware of the resistance we have
and consciously dissolve that resistance
if we want to manifest something in our lives.
for this reason, one of the best exercises you can do
is to become more aware of the relationship you have
with each aspect of your life
to do this excersise
you're going to examine the relationship you have with each aspect of your life
and you're going to do it in this format:
"_____I think you are_____"
for example:
"Money I think you are:" and then a whole list of the things you think about money
for this exercise I want you to be as brutally honest as you can.
this is not the time to be politically correct.
this is the time to be totally raw, authentic
and as unevolved as you can possibly become.
I don't want you to try to be balanced in your approach.
you can feel free to write positive and negative things.
assuming that positive and negative things exist.
but what you'll find is, relative to certain things,
your list will be almost entirely positive.
and relative to other things they will be almost entirely negative.
spiritual people love to bypass.
what they love to do is to think:
Ok, it's not ok to have this negative attitude towards something.
and so a person who is spiritual tends to be completely unaware
of their "negative side", shall I say,
that is not the time for this exercise
because this exercise is about becoming aware of the reality
that is going on within you in terms of your relationship with certain things.
the truth is if you are more balanced in your actual thoughts about things
you would be in a completely different place then you are
with your manifestations
Once you have compiled this list,
what I want you to do is to imagine being on the other side of this list
as if you were the thing being talked about
for example,
if you do this: "I think money is _____"
and then you write that whole list.
imagine that whole list is being written
not about money, but about you
how would you feel towards you
in that scenario?
for example, would you feel like coming closer
or going further away from you?
Also, assuming that the universe wants to bring things
that you want into your life
if the universe was looking over that list
what would the universe feel about bringing that into your life?
would the universe want to do that or no?
I'll give you an example of what this might look like.
Let's say that somebody is trying to do a list
relative to wanting to manifest women friends.
but manifesting women friends has proven very difficult.
Here's what this list might look like,
women friends, I think you are conniving,
impossible to make it work with,
temporary,
incapable of creating resolve for conflicts,
bitchy, jealous, devious, fake,
false, unpredictable, physically beautiful,
likely to betray me and everyone else for that matter,
manipulative,
just looking for the opportunity to stab me in the back
and use any vulnerability I shared with them against me,
can understand the problems I'm having with men,
can relate to most of the struggles I face,
competitive for no reason,
gossipy, horrible with money,
have terrible priorities,
flirty, conspire against me,
gang up against me,
petty, stupid about things that there is no reason to be stupid about,
like driving cars.
moving out of the second part of this exercise,
if I was the one having written this list,
how would I feel if this list was written about me?
I would not feel like being around teal at all.
in fact, I'd feel pretty much like turning against her.
If I was the universe
I wouldn't really want to ( given this list )
bring women into Teal's life.
I'd feel like the message Teal is giving me is:
Keep women the hell away from me.
keep them at arms length
maybe so I can just look at them from a distance.
it's also obvious
from an external perspective looking at this list
that what Teal would be a vibrational match to in this circumstance,
is women who don't actually want friendship from her.
but want something else.
it would also be obvious
that Teal has a lot of traumas relative to other women
especially women in her early life
that she's gotta focus on and create some resolve around
in order to move into a different space of manifestation
relative to this thing
basically if whoever compiles this list
wants to manifest women friends
these oppositional thoughts, beliefs, traumas,
and actions she takes as a result of them
have to be worked with directly
so the resistance present within her
no longer holds her out of the vibrational range to actually
manifest women friends.
do this exercise relative to anything you want to manifest in life.
and also with things you have manifested
it's really good to see the contrast between the types of lists
you write with things you feel good towards
and things that you have a mixed vibration, shall we say, about.
Here's a list of some really good things to try this with
money, romantic relationships, Mom, Dad, society,
the Universe or God, spirit guides,
marriage, cars,
food, exercise,
meditation, the government,
the city you live in, your career,
your body, your health,
life in general, family,
emotions, your mind,
how you look, your hobbies,
your home, your community, your kids, and your partner.
in order to manifest something you want
you have to have a positive relationship
with that thing.
Now, you don't immediately have to know how to do this.
I'll give you some good news;
most of my content available today
is about how to go about doing this
but the first step
is to become completely conscious
of the actual relationship you have
and then the real work begins
about releasing resistance
so that you can come into a state of complete alignment
with the things that you want to manifest.
the life that you are wanting is waiting for you on the other side
Have a good week.