Finally we are both alone...
Only you Unicorn Boy
You're amazing!
You're so cool!
I want kids!
Thanks for the meal!
Please teach me!
That's so you!
I am looking at you all the time.
I want to spend more time with you
Hey guys and girls on Ask Japanese it's CathyCat. This time we're going to talk
about 10 Japanese words or phrases to get a japanese boy to fall for you
and let me also know boys: would they work on you?
and girls would you like to try one of them? Let's go!
Number one: Finally we are both alone with each other.
Finally we are both alone
Meaning "finally we're both alone" that can for example be at a situation where
you're like in a university club or a school club or you were out
drinking with your colleagues and there's just one moment when you
find you're alone together with that one person that you care about
and that's a really good line. Because it only says "hey we're both alone, maybe
the other ones are coming back in a moment or someone's coming back from the bathroom
any second but those
moments in which you both are alone expressing that you're glad it's just
you and him it's just the right moment
Everyone went to go buy drinks...
Finally we are both alone together...
What shall we talk about?
This is SO embarrassing!!!!!!!!!!!!
Only you "Unicorn Boy...." (insert name here)
Only you...
(what's it with all the pictures of old men in this edit director?)
"Unicorn boy only for you" i mean instead of unicorn you're obviously saying
the name of the person. So for example only "so-and-so -kun i do that for you"
Or would do that for you or do these things for you ...and that's a really good
way of showing that maybe you're nice to this person
but you want them to know you're only doing these things
because you already think he's kind of special ... so it makes the other
person feel special about themselves saying "I only do that for you" or like
"I only tell these kind of stories to you", or you know "I would only do that kind of
stuff for you" i mean how happy would you be if someone said that to you!!!
You know, you instantly feel special and that's
when you can use the situation . So for example if it's just
a little thing that you do for him and you want them to know that you
don't would do that for someone else, like you bake cookies,
and they're like "oh wow you always bake cookies for everyone?"
and if you then say
No... I would only do these things... for you... Unicorn Boy.
Then you know, they will know, that you only baked the cookies for him
think he'll be happy! (Now I want cookies)
Amazing!!!
AMAZING!
(again... director....)
Meaning "amazing"! Everyone loves praise! You love praise! I love praise ... pretty
much everyone loves praise and "sugoi" is one of the common words that's used the
most to say like "amazing great" so if someone does and especially if a
boy does something cool or great be sure to let him know and say "hey sugoi"
Unicorn boy how amazing you are for being able to do such difficult math questions!
This is way too fake now...
Lol "Wow Unicorn boy you can do this complicated math that's amazing amazing..."
Of course ... just don't overdo it because then it just sounds a bit fake
Just really praise them when you really think something is cool about them though.
But when they've done something cool be sure to let them know!
If you do it too much... it's a pain ... it hurts.... like just now that was too much
don't do that don't copy that one!
So cool!
(director!!!)
"Cool"... now generally this is the word that girls use when they talk about another
boy saying "Wow he's so cool" and it doesn't harm to also let a boy
know when you think he's cool but again ..that's the word do not overuse
that one! If you call a boy kakkoi... do it maybe once maybe twice but don't
do it too much because otherwise it will just be a bit too much and it might
sound fake... but yeah if you find a good situation
when someone does a really great shoot for example
at the baseball and he wha and he does it and he won and
yes he's done it and then you say...
Motomuki you were so cool!
That's okay to tell him but ... maybe not with the kind of anime voice
That shoot the other day was amazing. You were so cool.
That sounds a lot better.
Id' like to have kids.
I'd like to have kids.
"I would like to have kids" now that's not something that you randomly just drop on
someone but generally Japanese boys are still very domestic
and they like the idea of kids and family much more than
some western boys are open to admit... which means
they like hearing that girls like that kind of "domestic thing" that they want to
have kids and similar things like that... so if it comes up in a conversation and
family and similar things are mentioned...
it is totally okay to say
"Kodomo ga hoshii na"
"I would like to have kids in the future" because again it will make them think
about you in a much more domestic way
and if you mention these phrases he might think about a future of you guys together
Arigatou Gozaimasu. Gochisousama Deshita.
(I really don't understand the director's picture choices today)
All these manner words are very important in Japan.
Japanese people take a lot of care about society, about other people
so if you can't say "please" and your "thank you"
you're definitely not going to look good. So make sure that you know the manner
words and you know ...saying "arigato" thank you just goes a long way
about loads of things so be nice to other people around you
not just to the boy you like, but other people as well
know your manners and know Japanese manners that's definitely gonna help you!
(oi director!
Hey hey, explain this to me please!
Nene kore oshiete!
"Explain this to me please"... now this is a sentence you probably will be
using a lot when you come to Japan. You don't know a lot of things
there's loads of things that he can teach you and being able to
teach another human something, always makes you feel good too. So if there's
something you don't know be honest about it and get some help
from him. It will make him feel better because he managed to help you and it
might give you a chance to spend more time with each other
talk a little bit more and get to know each other
Hey hey can you explain what this is in Japanese?
IT WAS A SPIDER!!!!
A Spider (Japanese word)
As I expected!
Sasuga!
"As expected" that's an unusual praise word here in Japan but it goes a long way
If you say "Sasuga" if someone does something good, something cool something
great, or knows something... if you say "sasuga" it explains that it
has the connotation that you already have great expectations of that person
and they happen to do the right thing
according to your expectations. So it pretty much like shows that you
have you know high standings or a higher view of that person
so saying "sasuga" can really really be a really cool word
Mamoru you got a score of 100 points in the last test. As I expected!
You're amazing...
You're so cool
This is definitely too much ....
Oh so kawaii...
That's because I watch you a lot.
Watashi ha anato wo yoku miteru kara.
"That's because i watch you a lot!"... now
saying that in the wrong way it might actually sound kind of creepy
"I'm watching you!" but it's more the idea of
noticing what the other person is doing, and noticing what they're up to so
that's why it's often used in anime and manga is as almost
a love proposal.... because it shows that you're very aware
of what they're doing, you you "see them" ... you don't like
stare at them and follow them but.... you see what they're doing
and you notice the things they are doing
and that's why "anata wo youku miteru kara" means ....
you pick up also on things so for example if he seems to be a bit happier than
usual or maybe sadder than usual... or similar things like that... if you pick up
on the feeling and go like "hey how have you been recently ...you seem
to be a little bit down. What's up?" and he goes like "Oh how did you notice?"
then you can say "anata wo yoku miteru kara" meaning you know "i watch out for you" or
i look i look ...out for you and notice the things you do and your emotions
i just picked up on it so why don't we talk about it
And that's a wonderful thing because it means that...
This could also show in a connotation that you guys already have spent a lot
of time with each other and you know the other person from that
time or for spending time with them so much already
that you can pick up on their emotions. Japan is a society where it's so
important to pick up on the other person's feelings, because many things
are kept inside... so if you're able to spend so much time
with the boy that you're able to pick out what his emotions are if he feels
good or not then you're already on the right track
I want to spend a little bit more time with you...
Mou chotto isshouni itai na
Meaning: i would like to spend a little bit more time with you
Now you can say this in different environments maybe after
school, on the way home, or after you were out and you had some fun.
At disney or similar things like that...
just saying you kind of want to extend the time with them a little bit more
and you know that moment when it's time to say goodbye and
you feel like you don't want to say goodbye yet
so put that into words with this phrase
and i mean it can also have an other.... connotation
which you know uh if you want to take it to
that level it's another thing.... but generally it doesn't have to be a naughty connotation
it just means like "I would like to spend a little bit more time with you"
and again it's it's a lovely little scenario and i think we've all been there
and that would help us a lot to just have the other person say
"Hey i enjoy spending time with you" and I'd like to spend more time with you
and that hopefully leads into them giving you a chance to maybe meet them again
or similar things like that so
these are a couple of phrases that are very helpful if you think about them
it makes sense right? That these phrases would make
people happy... I hope, i hope these phrases help you
i know it's not easy... especially as a not a Japanese girl to talk with Japanese boys
and get them to be interested in you but if you're on the hunt
and there's someone you like then good luck try your best
and we're also gonna put more tips and advices for love and
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