you need to take risks and love for love
to happen oftentimes that means getting
outside your comfort zone
Einstein of course said that the
definition of insanity is doing the same
thing in expecting different results I
think the same is true in dating if you
keep dating the same type of person or
you keep repeating a pattern in dating
that's not working for you you have to
examine that and then you have to do
indeed differently dating differently
often involves getting outside your
comfort zone getting outside your type
so if you say I'm never attracted to
introverts I only like extroverts try
dating an introvert and see what happens
because let's put it this way if you
always date the extroverted life of the
party you're probably shrinking down a
little to let that person shine when you
date an introvert different parts of you
may be expressed so if you don't know
what you're dating pattern is I have a
simple exercise consider if your dating
life were a movie what would it be
called
how would it begin and end and what
character do you always play you'll
start to find some themes and that's
when you can determine what your type is
what your pattern is let's say your
pattern is that you're a runaway bride
or that you never commit you're a 40
year old virgin or something else has
kept you back from opening up to love I
think it's really important to get out
of your head chances are you're
overthinking it love is a feeling not a
thought