You know what they say – never judge a book by its cover. And it’s completely true. However,
on a realistic level, it takes quite a while to get to know someone.
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Everyone has preferences and there are several traits in a woman that catch a guy's eye in the
first go. Have you ever wondered what exactly makes a man go across a crowded coffee shop to
say hello to a woman? What exactly causes that initial spark? Keep watching today’s
video where we will tell you things that men first notice about a woman. From her eyes,
voice, confidence, skin to her style and more, watch till the end to learn about all of them.
Her Smile: A beautiful smile is one of the things that most men first notice in a woman. A smiling
woman is considered to be much more attractive and approachable. She appears to be happy and
optimistic. So, it’s easier to start a conversation with a woman who’s smiling.
Men always feel confident and more masculine with a smiling woman. Moreover, a smile can be
very contagious. When you smile at someone it provokes a positive reaction in return.
Numerous studies have proven that smiling stimulates more smiles in return.
Have you ever started a relationship, be it of friendship or romance
with someone from a smile? Tell us quickly down below in the comments section!
Her Eyes: The saying “the eyes are the window to a person’s soul” exists for a reason.
Someone’s eyes can be one of your most expressive features, and can often communicate whether
you’re truly interested or not, whether you’re nervous or happy. So, while you might assume
that a man’s attention would immediately go to some aspect of your physique, think again.
Many studies confirm the fact that, when it comes to first impressions and things that men notice
instantly, eyes are at the top of the list. If there’s a guy who isn’t making eye contact,
just move on to someone else – that’s not the guy for you.
Her sense of humour: It can be intimidating to meet someone who
is serious all the time and never cracks a joke. It can be tough to be outgoing
and toss jokes left and right if you’re a very shy, introverted type of person.
But even a dry and sarcastic sense of humour will catch his attention.
Guys love when you laugh at their jokes, but they also love when you’re able to make them laugh.
So, whether your sense of humour is more subtle and witty or whether you
crack up over fart jokes and physical comedy, he’ll definitely take notice.
Perhaps it’ll even help him decide which comedic film to take you to on your first date.
Her Scent: Guys are pretty much fascinated by the way women smell. Some guys will try to amp
things up by wearing cologne, or sniffing a few extra deodorants to find that perfect scent.
But there isn’t quite as much variety in the world of men’s scents as in women’s.
As a result, most women have a distinct scent that will definitely linger in a guy’s mind.
It can be the simple smell of the detergent you use, the shampoo you washed your hair with while
getting ready, or the signature perfume that you spritz on every time you leave the house.
Her Confidence: There are a lot of different types of women in this world. And it can be
easy to assume that men will only notice the loud, in-your-face extroverts who are shouting over the
music at whatever bar you’re at. That couldn’t be further from the truth. While a drunken yell might
catch a guy’s attention for a moment, what they really notice is something simpler – confidence.
Confidence comes in all shapes and sizes, and even a relatively shy woman can still pack a
huge punch of confidence. Whether his values align with yours, whether you’re his ‘type,’
whatever, if a man senses that a woman is confident, that’s sexy.
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Her Friends: Surprisingly, the company a woman keeps has a big impact on the first
impression. You know the statement "Birds of a feather flock together"?
Well, it's true! And in most cases, if a woman has loud, whiny, sassy or rude friends,
a guy may assume the same thing about her, even if she attracted him at the beginning.
But if a woman seems to have a tight knit group of friends who all seem to
be having a great time together, it sends a signal that she is genuine and caring.
That's one of the things guys notice first and love right away.
Her Style: You know what the difference between your clothes and your physical attributes?
It’s that your fashion choices are a wearable representation of your personality.
They are intended to inform the world who you are without opening your mouth.
It says more about you as a person than your face ever could. That’s why, when it comes to your
clothes and accessories, guys love it when women go all-out in showing guys exactly who they are.
Her conversational skills: Thanks to the art of conversation, it doesn’t take very long for men
to gauge a woman’s social skills and figure out whether interacting with them would be worth their
time. The chosen topic of discussion is always an important indicator of their interests and
intelligence. But even more crucial than this is their shared sense of humor.
If both of you are laughing, that sets the stage for some pretty amazing interactions to come.
Her self esteem: You know how you can tell that the guy with the Ferrari that constantly
boasts about cash in his bank is actually an insecure mess? Yes, the same goes with guys.
This is doubly true among abusers, who often will
purposefully seek out women that they feel have low self-esteem.
Her common sense: If a guy wants to date for the long-term, he will look for a woman who
has common sense and is capable of handling her own stuff without being babysat. A woman
who can’t actually think without making terrible mistakes in judgment isn’t attractive. At least,
not if you’re looking for a serious relationship. Trust us when we say men notice this.
Her voice: While it may not be the first feature of yours he talks about with his pals,
a guy will certainly be aware of the sound of your voice.
Especially if that voice is exceptionally sexy, or unusually obnoxious.
Your voice can instantly change a person's perception about you, for better or for worse.
Her hair: Sure, men notice a woman’s beautiful and healthy hair. Trust us,
all those hours spent in the hairdresser’s chair are not in vain. Most guys think that a stylish,
healthy, shiny and sleek hair is a sign of health and youth.
Also, you need to know that most men like to be with a woman with soft hair that smells good.
Although a lot of men like long hair, there are many who prefer bold colors and short hair cuts.
Men are just afraid of everything that looks unusual and striking.
If you feel confident with your hair, don’t change it. Wear any color and length you like,
but make sure your hairstyle suits you.
Not everyone is blessed with great hair and hair loss is a common problem
all around the world. Learn how you can regrow your hair easily by
watching “13 Ways To Regrow Your Hair Naturally And Forget About Bald Spots
Now, back to Little Things Men Notice About Women Even If You Think They Don’t
Her weight: Weight is one of those things most men notice about women. It may sound shallow,
but it actually makes sense. You’ve probably heard that men prefer women with curves,
but you still catch evaluating glances on your thighs and legs. These glances can
make you doubt that you’re beautiful. But, he’s not judging you, he’s just noticing.
If you are starving yourself to death in order to be skinny,
you can breathe with relief and quit it. Studies show that not all guys like skinny
women. So find your comfortable healthy weight and stick to it.
How fake she is: Men also notice how fake women are. If you have hair extensions,
fake eyelashes, and nails, he will definitely notice it. For most men,
fake means high maintenance and large expenses. While fake eyelashes might draw his eye, he won’t
always like them. If you want to get the guy you like, make sure you look natural, sometimes.
Learn to conceal your drawbacks and show your beauty without looking like a doll.
Choose light foundations, nude shades, and pink blushes. Instead of hair extensions,
opt for a good quality volume shampoo and volume styling products.
Her skin: Most men also pay attention to the way a woman’s skin looks. Numerous surveys
have shown that a man sees a good complexion as a sure sign of health. Most men think that
a woman with a healthy-looking complexion is healthy and she can produce healthy offspring.
In order to attract a man, your skin should be soft and smooth. Always cleanse, tone and
moisturize your skin in the morning and before bed. Never sleep with your makeup on and don’t
forget about exfoliating. Moreover, make sure you get enough sleep and reduce your stress levels.
While these may be some things that men first notice in women,
there are subtle things that women notice in men when they meet for the first time.
Learn more of what we are talking about by watching:
9 Things That Women Notice In a Man But You Don't
Or
16 Surprising Things Women Find Attractive In Men
So go ahead and watch one or both of these videos if you want to create a
better first impression. What’s the first thing that you notice in a woman when you
meet her for the first time? Let us know in the comments section below!