How many of you, when you did the process yesterday – The World and My World – understood
it is you who messed up everything in your life?
It is you, who is supposed to repair everything in the life.
How many of you understood that? Alright. How many of you think we should really, really
repair it? Very seriously, sincerely you want to repair
it? I’ll give you step by step. How many of
you think you don’t need to repair it, you are not responsible. Raise your hand. No,
really I want to see. Maybe somebody will be thinking, ‘Ah, why should I?’ No, I
want you to understand. Unless you decide, repairing cannot be done. Unless you decide,
repairing cannot be done. Repairing cannot be done.
So please understand, listen. Listen. Today we start completing with others. Others means
not just only your father, mother, husband, wife, brother, sister, the human beings around
you. We will start the completion with everything with which you are living – your wealth,
your health, your bag, your seat, your pets, your car, your house. Please understand, all
these are living parts of your life. They may be dead objects, but they are living part
of your life. See, a house may be a dead object but it is a living part of your life. How
many of you understand what I am saying? It’s a very important component of your life.
(2.27) First we will start completion with all the
human beings with whom we are living. First step: completion with everything; sorry,
with every human being. First thing you need to do is deciding, ‘I have to bring completion
with others, with whoever I am living. I have to bring completion with whoever I am living.
Even if they don’t want, I will stretch my best and I will decide – I am in the
space of completion. Whenever they want I am open to have them. I am open. I am going
to be in the space of completion. Whenever they are also ready, it will become completely
complete.’ Understand, completion with others does not
mean you are going to apologize to them. No. Apologizing is not completion. Asking sorry
is not – so many people were saying, ‘Sorry. I want to apologize.’ No! ‘I am sorry’
is not completion. “I am deciding to drop hurting pattern in
my life or any incompletion, misunderstanding, I am deciding to drop and I am deciding not
to bring them, not to give life to it again.” See, past – you can’t say you are wrong
or you are right. No one can say, “you can’t say you are wrong, you are right.”
It is not apologizing. It is not feeling sorry for the past. No.
Deciding, ‘I am dropping this incompletion, hangover of the past and I will not allow
this to happen once more.’ Completion is actually responsibility, not
apologizing. See, apologizing or feeling sorry comes out of powerlessness but Completion
comes out of responsibility. Understand the difference. Please listen. See the difference.
Now when I am saying, ‘You need to complete with your mother, with your father, with your
brother, with others’, I am not asking you to apologize. ‘Oh sorry. Oh sorry. Oh sorry.
Buss buss’, No. No! Feeling sorry comes from powerlessness. That
is not completion. When you call, you explain, ‘This is what has been perceived by me.
Here, I am not interested into looking into you are wrong. I am wrong. That will only
create more and more anger, hatred and suppressed violence. I am only saying one thing, “I
am ready to drop the past and its powerlessness, incompletion. I am declaring that I am dropping
the past and I am complete. I don’t have incompletion and I will not create any incompletion
anymore.’ (06.09)
Your decision and declaration, when it reaches them, you will suddenly they will open up
and start coming towards completion. But first you need to be prepared.
The first step, preparation for you: sit with any one person in the hall. First invoke your
mother in that person and complete. Then go to another one participant, invoke the father
in the person and complete. Don’t invoke everybody in one person. No. One, one person.
And with whoever you need to complete, here complete. Then, without the person, sit with
the mirror and invoke that person in the mirror. Invoke your mother in the mirror. Talk loudly,
not silent completion. No. Talk loudly as you are talking to your mother and complete.
Invoke your father. Talk loudly as you are talking to your father and complete.
Listen. First step: with the participants you will sit and do completion.
Second step: with the mirror you will sit and talk and do the Completion.
Third, only you are going to call them and start talking to them. How many of you understand?
First, do the first step and second step. If they are dead, by invoking in the mirror,
if you do completion, that’s enough. And if there’s a legal problem, calling them,
they may record and create a problem, you don’t need to call them.
Yes? (Unable to hear participant’s question)
Answer: Oh. If you know that they are still alive and if you have the ability to reach
out to them, you should reach out. First, you don’t even go to that step. Let us first
do these two completions and you’ll have a lot of questions. I’ll answer them. I’ll
help you to do these two Completions first. That will take away the anger and vengeance
and misunderstandings and suppressions you have. Let that come out first. Let you be
healed. All that spicy chili anger, vengeance - everything will come out through the words.
You will be ready to complete. If you directly now call them, you will only pick up more
fight and come back with more mess up and incompletion. How many of you understand that?
(8.59 mins) That is why I am not going to let you call
them now. You will start reasoning with them. ‘You are wrong. You are wrong. You are wrong.’
End of the call, more incompletion. First, even if your relative or the person
with whom you have to complete is in the hall, you will not talk to them directly. Even if
they are in the hall, you will not talk to them directly. You will sit only with persons,
other participants. Then you will only sit with the mirror. Then I’ll have one more
session, answering your questions and I will also be doing a Shivoham process to heal your
past; that part of the brain which records strong emotions. I’ll heal that part with
the awakening of the kundalini. Then your tongue will have the sweetness, honey. Then
you should call and ‘Honeyyyy’ (in a sweet tone). Otherwise ‘HONEY!’ The ‘Honey’
itself will be so frightening. It won’t be like a honey – honey bee! No, she is
telling, ‘I don’t know but how you are catching the exact points.’ Ahhhh!
Yes, go ahead. (Inaudible Question)
See, completion is not feeling sorry, feeling powerless. For example, you are going to call
your mother. Sit with her. Explain from the beginning what all incompletions you developed
with her. Make her understand very clearly – you are responsible for it and you are
dropping it. You are not saying ‘Sorry’. You are not becoming powerless about it. You
are saying, ‘Yes. I am responsible. I don’t want to get into – who is right, who is
wrong. Even if you are wrong, I am only responsible. I am dropping the past and now I want to start
the new space with completion. Understand, I am dropping the past incompletion and I
am starting the new space with completion.’ See, when you call, before you call them,
I’ll give you the instruction. Simple introduction. You tell them, ‘I am going through a meditation
program where I’m supposed to complete with myself and all the relatives, so I am calling
you.’ Just add two, three lines.
“You are important person, part of my life, so only when we are complete, I can be complete.
Now I am calling you. This, this, this, this has happened. Now I am realizing who is right,
who is wrong is not the thing. I am responsible, so I am deciding to take the responsibility
and bring completion.’ Understand. The other person should not feel you are weak. Other
person should only feel that you are taking responsibility for it. All of you are getting
it? Getting it? Yes, then? (12.35)
Ah yes, when you talk to the volunteers, you talk in the language, when you talk to the
participant, you talk in the language you are going to talk to that person – to your
mother or to whoever – talk in that same language. The participant need not understand,
and even to the mirror. Talk in the language you are going to talk.
(Inaudible comment from participant) Swamiji’s response: Maybe when you meet
him next time you’ll have to sit and communicate. Shall we start now? Yes, any questions, come
on. I’ll answer. (Inaudible comment from participant) [Tamil
reply from Swamiji.] (Inaudible comment from participant)
Swamiji’s response: No, what I
am saying, even if that person has done something wrong, he is the reason for the incompletion,
but I am going to be responsible for the completion. So I am not bothered about ‘you may be the
reason’ or not but I am going to take responsibility for the completion.
(Inaudible comment from participant) Swamiji’s response: uh, no. I am not responsible
for the abusal I went through, but I am responsible for the completion which I am going to bring
now. You understand? You see, I have been attacked and abused so much. I’m not reason.
I am the victim of the media attack, religious persecution. I am not reason for it but I
am taking the responsibility to bring Completion. (Inaudible comment from participant) Swamiji’s
response: Same thing. (Inaudible comment from participant) Swamiji’s
response: Yes, so even if the other person is wrong, we will take the responsibility
for the completion. Yes? (Inaudible comment from participant)
Swamiji’s response: Is it independent whether we are…? Yes, yes yes. That person understands
or accepts or not is secondary. (Inaudible comment from participant) It is you come to
the completion space. It is working on you, mainly.