Hi guys, I'm Stevie and today I'm gonna teach you how to get your girlfriend to do whatever the f*** you want
Virgo: You will allude to it passive-aggressively and if they don't get it immediately,
you give them the cold shoulder until they figure out on their own what they've done wrong.
Stevie: Noooooooo!
-ooooooo!
Virgo: What? Stevie: Look,
I'll be honest the best way to get your girlfriend to do what you want is to be honest about what you want and then
ask them about it.
Leo: I want you to climb into the sky and bring me the moon and I'll accept no less.
Okay, wait, wait, wait wait wait when you say "I want you to climb into the sky and bring me the moon
I'll accept no less" - what exactly do you mean by that?
Leo: [sighs] Like, text me first,
compliment my brain over my looks, surprise me, but with food, not loud stuff.
Stevie: Okay, so my first tip is: talk to each other. Literally. So instead of saying all that moon sh*t
just say what you literally just said to me.
Leo: Surprise me, but with food not loud stuff.
Virgo: You are so in luck, because
earlier, I was thinking about how artistic and cool you are and so I ordered burritos and they'll be here in 12 minutes.
Stevie: Wow, I'm so good at this job. The thing is, most people aren't psychic.
Leo: Did you say most people because you are acknowledging that some people are psychic?
Stevie and Leo-Stevie: Maybe, maybe not.
Leo: Knew you were gonna say that
Stevie: So, no one is a psychic and no one's a mind reader either. And on top of that,
we all grew up in completely different experiences in completely different communities with wildly different family circumstances.
So no two people respond in the exact same way to the same emotional cues.
Virgo: [sighs] Leo: Same, I'm not really feeling like having s*x now either. Virgo: THAT SIGH MEANT HAVE S*X WITH ME!
Stevie: See? Told you. Tip number two:
tell her what you want.
Virgo: I really want to have s*x with you. Leo: Okay!
Stevie: And now you got what you want! Man, f*** emotional cues. I'll say it again! F*** 'em.
Also, and especially, passive-aggressive cues. So, literally tip number three:
F*** passive-aggressive cues. It's not even a cue.
it's confusing and weird and it's a form of manipulation. If you want your girlfriend to apologize for something,
why don't you just tell them why it hurt you and how you're feeling?
Virgo: They should know.
Stevie: No,
they shouldn't. Everyone learns differently and everyone has different versions of what's right and wrong.
So they might not even know that they hurt your feelings,
Which is totally okay if you were to just tell them and then they won't do it again.
Virgo: Okay, fine. You're actually making sense.
I just don't want to tell them because everyone should do things my way.
Leo: I also love to yell about feelings.
Stevie: So this all might seem like a joke because, you know,
I'm just yelling at my camera and then also yelling at, like, fake clones of myself.
But seriously, being passive-aggressive or expecting someone to read your mind and know exactly what's hurting you is
so close to turning into a form of manipulation and abuse.
You have to be willing to sit down and talk about something if you want it to work.
Leo: I have learned that talking openly makes s*x more fun as well.
Stevie: You know what, Leo, you don't show up often, but I always know you're there.
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Leo: I'm a fan of that. Virgo: Can confirm.
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