Every guys dream is to be the alpha male, the man who always gets what he wants.
He dominates every group and always seems as this charismatic leader and easily stands
out from the crowd.
Man respect him and woman love him, everything you could ever imagine to be!
But unfortunately for most man, thats a dream that is impossible to achieve, I mean you
are hardly managing your life, you find it difficult to even wake up early in the morning,
leave alone becoming the man whom everyone admires.
You probably already calmed yourself down by convincing yourself that they are just
lucky or they are just born like that.
Sorry my dear friend, but I have to tell you that you are 100 percent wrong! because alpha
male is a personality or a character that you develop within yourself!
its a set of skill you master or principles and values than you implement into your life!
Of course you are not going to become the coolest guy in the world just by changing
some of your principles but you will develop a personality that over time will be dominant!
The most important difference between so called beta males and the alpha’s is that alphas
are extremely confident about themselves.
An alpha male doesn’t hesitates to do what he wants, if he sees a business opportunity,
he quickly jumps in and isn’t afraid to fail.
If he wants to talk to a stranger, he doesn’t hesitates and does it instantly.
He doesn’t worries about what people might think about him, he knows is the master of
his fate and he doesn’t gives a damn if someone doesn’t like him.
If you have watched James Bond movies, he never tries to prove anything to anyone, he
knows he is the best and he does every mind-blowing thing you can think about!
Although thats just a movie but an alpha is something close to that!
Here is what people usually get wrong about the alpha male!
Its not about becoming a douchebag, it doesn’t mean you should suddenly act like an asshole.
In fact, what makes him an alpha in the first place is that he treats everyone around him
with dignity and respect, he believes that every human being deserves to be respected
and for that reason alone others admire him! he doesn’t stab in you in back, he doesn’t
treat you like you are second class and he never lets his anger to take control of him.
He knows that the moment his emotions get in charge, he is no longer an alpha.
And most importantly he is a man of his word, he doesn’t gives promises he cant fulfil!
Thats the kind of a friend we all want to have, thats the kind of people we want to
surround ourselves with!
The first step to becoming an alpha male is to be responsible in general.
Most people do not even take responsibility for their own life, they always blame something
or someone else out there for their own problems and obstacles.
You find them constantly complaining about everything.
If you don't have the guts to recognise that you are the master of your fate, forget becoming
an alpha at all!
Don’t be the one who constantly goes with the flow and doesn’t have a sense of purpose.
Set a dream or a goal that you want to pursue, have something that inspires you to wake up
in the morning.
Most people waste their life on the couch watching Netflix and then complain that alphas
are simply lucky.
Take a look at the world see who are the alphas, usually they are the entrepreneurs, or people
who have exceeded everyone else in their respective fields.
People who hustle day and night to be the best of the best.
Their extreme discipline builds unusual charisma within them that drives everyone to them!
People often complain that their life is boring, but the weird thing is that, they chose that
kind of life, no one is forcing you to be an average.
Right now, Start by writing down what inspires you, things you wish to achieve within your
lifetime, make your life about pursuing them.
Instead of simply talking, take action!
Since we are kids, We all have grown up with dozens of crazy ideas that we want to implement,
but for one reason or another we have lost the motivation and convinced our minds that
all that is impossible!
We find the corner where we feel comfortable and then we find it difficult to leave that
comfort zone!
What also makes alpha males so unique is that they are brave.
That doesn’t mean they are not afraid of anything.
Like every other human being, they have fears within them, but what makes them different
is that, they are ready to fight back their fears, thats why you find them usually doing
the most ridiculers things you can thing about, starting business that no one could have ever
imagined possible.
That doesn’t necessarily means you should start a rocket company if you want to become
an alpha, but don't give up to your fears and have the courage to fight them!
If you see someone is getting offended in front of you, have the guts to stand out for
him or her!
Keep in mind that, no matter how far you are from becoming an alpha, if you put the hard
work to master the necessarily skills, you can become one for sure!
And now its your turn, what do you think?
are you an alpha male or there is a long way for you to go!
Lets me know in the comments below!
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