it is never easy to come around to the fact that a girl is not into you often it really hurts
and it's something that we would rather avoid right so we end up ignoring the signs and keep
on trying to win her over now gents do think to themselves that if they plan a big gesture
maybe she will reconsider how she feels often this never works though and it's just a waste of your
time you are much better off cutting your losses and completely moving off but this is the question
how do you know when she's not into you well there are hidden signs that you can look for which will
save you waiting around for her to fall in love when she's just not interested and today you
guessed it i'm going to explain what these hidden signs are so let's get ready like and subscribe
she does not notice you if you are meeting in a public place or you are with your friends
you've noticed that she doesn't actually notice you in fact she ignores you and talks to everyone
else instead of talking to you now don't be fooled she does notice you and she does know that you are
there she is choosing to ignore you because she does not want to speak to you so instead of you
chasing her just leave her be and let her go this next one so many guys misinterpret as her having
an off day and that is she sends short texts whenever she messages you she sends something
short and very snappy they might say something like yep i'm doing great how are you when you
ask her how she is if a girl is interested in you let me tell you she will take the time to send
you a nice long message she wants to tell you all about her day how great it was and how she feels
a girl who sends you short texts is secretly saying i'm not interested in talking to you
now here's a quick tip every girl is an emotional being they're a lot more emotional on average than
guys so when a woman is expressing her emotions to you it means she has a thing for you if a
woman is withholding her emotions it means she is purposely being cold or she's not interested
you will notice that she takes ages to reply this ties into the previous tip whenever you message
her or you phone her you find yourself waiting hours for her reply which sucks and just carries
on like nothing even happened you might wonder what she's been up to and why she took so long to
reply it probably is because she was with another guy or she's just not interested in talking to you
and everything else is far more important i know this hurts it can be a very hard pill to swallow
but it's something that you have to come to terms with otherwise you will end up spending a lot of
your time waiting around for someone that will never show you interest this is another sign that
most men miss she looks bored when she's with you you are talking to her telling her what you
think is an interesting story then you notice she just looks really bored even when you are walking
down the street together even holding hands she looks bored this is not a great way to be and it
should show you exactly how she feels actions over words guys you don't want a girl that is bored to
be around you she friend zones you she straight up puts you into the friend zone you might have
been dating for a while or even a long-term relationship and then suddenly she just calls
off and friendzones you this is going to hurt but you are much better to walk away with your head
held high and look like the bigger person she talks about other guys in front of you this is
a really really bad sign and it's one that really proves she's not into you if you are on a date and
she starts talking about her ex or a guy that she is currently dating at the moment it is her trying
to subtly tell you hey bud i'm just not interested guys often think that it's because she's trying to
make them jealous and it could be which is a red flag tactic that you should not be putting up with
sometimes girls do this for that reason most of the time but really you can identify how she's
talking to you and my suggestion is not even make it look like you're jealous just be like
okay great next topic and then you walk away and find someone better she cancels dates and
makes excuses is she constantly cancelling dates and making some big excuses as to why
maybe she cancels on the day of the day which is rude behavior unless there is an actual guaranteed
personal reason at the beginning you might believe her excuses and gaslight yourself but after a
while you have to come to terms with the fact that she's not interested in you and she's actually
trying to show you this you just haven't picked up on it yet she never seems to be alone she's
very popular whenever you try and arrange a time to see her she is busy or she's with someone else
when you do see her she always brings someone else with her whether it is her friend or she
invites one of yours she's trying to create that distance from you because she doesn't want to get
intimate she wants to friend zone you which is why she's doing this
this is a sign that she does not really want to date you and that she's just not that into you
she does not make an effort to dress up around you even when you take her to a nice restaurant
she wears her normal clothes there's no makeup no perfume her hair's pretty messy
now girls dress their best when they want to impress a guy and win him over so if she's
dressing like this it's because she doesn't want to impress you she does not really care what you
think about her and she might even be purposely trying to put you off she never makes a move
whenever you guys are together she never touches you to break that physical barrier and you find
that you have to lean over and touch her she also is never the one to ask you on another date you
are always having to plan them for the both of you and ask her to come along she never compromises
you always end up doing things that she wants you to do and if you suggest anything else she
immediately shuts it down when you say something like why don't we go to the movies she says
maybe next time today i'd want to go to the beach when it comes to eating the same thing happens
you always end up eating what she wants to eat and she will never budge compromise is a major part of
every healthy relationship so if she is refusing to compromise this is a very bad sign she subtly
rejects you she laughs and says things like i would never actually date you now you might miss
it or be laughing along but this is her way of subtly being cold and rejecting you another way
of doing this is by making fun of you in front of other people it's not nice behavior and it's gonna
put you off eventually which is what she wants because she wants you to break things off so that
she doesn't have to she never tells you personal things you ask her questions and things about her
personal life but she always avoids answering she may even give you very vague things about her job
and that's kind of about it now this is a red flag and it really shows that she's not interested in
connecting with you in fact she would probably rather have as little to do with you as possible
she is maybe too scared to call things off and it might be up to you to do this part
she never commits she never says that you are dating or commits to being called your girlfriend
she always seems to come up with an excuse as to why she does not want the title this is
suspicious behavior and unfortunately it probably spells the end of the road when a girl does this
it means she will never commit to you and she is simply wasting your time and also hers she doesn't
introduce you to her friends this is a major red flag obviously if you have only been dating for
a short period of time then it's understandable if you have been dating for a while though it's
a sign that something is wrong she is most likely planning to break it off with you and does not see
the point of introducing you to her friends as well you're not going to be around much longer
if you ask her when you can meet her friends and she gives you something vague you need to dig
a little deeper to find out why she might use it as the opportunity to break things off which will
hurt in the moment but i promise you will be much better off in the long run and if she tells you
that she just isn't ready then give her some time but if she goes on at this behavior for a long
time it's time to move on and there you go we've reached the end of the video let me know down in
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