Hello, my wonderful friend! Let's talk about how to get her back if she lost interest. You
need to know the ultimate secrets to re-attract her. Okay, there's this girl, and you you have
feelings for her. Maybe you recently met her, or maybe you've been going out a little bit,
or maybe you've even been going out a long time. And you feel like you've met your dream girl. But
you feel her pulling away and all of a sudden you've lost her. You're devastated,
you don't know why it happened, and you don't know what to do. You want her back,
but you don't want to mess it up further by being creepy or needy. Be honest. Is that you right now,
or have you maybe been there in the past? You are about to discover how to get a high-quality woman
back after she's lost interest. There are four secrets you need to be in on so that you can
re-attract her and win her heart permanently. Even if you aren't trying to get someone back right now
you need to know these secrets right now so you're never in this situation. So make sure you
watch to the end. Now before we dive in be sure to subscribe and ring that notification bell. My name
is Melannie. I'm a Christian dating coach for men and your go-to place to have an unfair advantage
at getting the girl of your dreams. If you're looking for a happy lifelong relationship this is
the place for you. Okay, let's talk about how to get her back if she lost interest. In order to get
her back you first need to know what causes her to lose interest in the first place. And as we go
through these secrets I'll share a little bit with you on that. Make sure you also watch this video
on why women reject you and try to come back. You're going to be surprised by what you learn
there. I'll put a link in the description below. As we go into this I have a disclaimer, okay?
I'm not willing to lie to you for views. I'm just not. Many people are. I personally am not
okay with that. Sometimes you cannot get her back, okay? Sometimes it's messed up so bad
that you can't re-attract her. That's why it's so important that you understand these things that
I'm going to be sharing with you right now so that you're not in this situation. Anyone who tells you
you can get any girl back is actually lying to you. However, with that being said, often you
can get her back, which is really exciting. And that's where these secrets come in. Secret number
one for how to get her back is to avoid being needy. And if you've been needy you have to stop
right now. Nothing creeps a girl out quite like being needy. It is actually creepy to her. It
scares her. It makes her afraid of you. High quality women will not tolerate a relationship
where you're needy. It pushes her away, it makes her feel awkward. If she lost interest because
you are needy you need to reverse that fast. But how do you stop being needy? One of the best ways
that I teach my clients in my program is to build your confidence. When you really increase your
confidence neediness naturally goes away. Instead of being needy, you're strong, you're masculine,
you're confident. You still need someone, but you aren't needy. You don't depend on her for
your self-image and how you feel about yourself. If confidence is a struggle for you right now,
oh my goodness, I have been there. It happens. The good news is, is you can skyrocket, like skyrocket
your confidence incredibly fast. I've had many clients go through my program who have really
struggled with confidence, like really struggled with their self-image, and by the end they're like
on top of the world. So don't be discouraged by that. You can learn these things very quickly. You
deserve the natural high that comes from feeling confident instead of needy. And again, if she
pulled away because you were needy you need to get that confidence very quickly. Second secret for
how to get her back is to pursue her correctly. Now the important word here is correctly. One
of the most powerful ways to attract a woman is to pursue her. If you do not pursue her
that attraction is going to go away. One of the ways she sees you as a strong masculine man
as a leader in the relationship is when you are pursuing her. And if that's not there she's done.
As a matter of fact, if you don't pursue her, she sees that as rejection. So many men miss out on
their dream relationship because they didn't pursue. This definitely makes her pull away. It
makes her lose interest and go look for a man who will pursue her. So if you want to get her back
pursuing her is very important. However, you need to make sure you pursue her correctly. Otherwise,
it's going to be creepy, it's going to be awkward, and it's going to make things a million times
worse. But don't panic. Pursuing is something else I teach in my program, so you don't have to do
this alone. You have a step-by-step format so that you can pursue very naturally and really increase
your attraction for you. As a matter of fact, one of the main things so many men enjoy about
my program is that step-by-step game plan for how to pursue her. To learn more about my program and
how you can work with me to learn everything you need to know to get the girl of your dreams fast
make sure you watch my free masterclass. It's at coachmelannie.com/masterclass I will also put a
link in the description below. If you're tired of trying to piece it all together yourself,
which has tons of room for error, you just instead need a system that works. And that's what you're
going to learn more about in that masterclass. So make sure you watch it today. Don't waste any
more time. If you want to be a winner at love you have to know how to do it right. My third
tip for how to get her back is to attract her emotionally and not just physically. Women need
to be attracted to you on an emotional level. And one of the biggest reasons she will lose interest
is if she's just not attracted to you on an emotional level. Most men don't understand how
important emotional attraction is to a woman, so they instead focus just on physical attraction.
The bad part is once she gets to know you, after that initial infatuation is gone,
and she's not attracted to you on an emotional level, she's done. She's gone. She leaves.
Because she needs that in a relationship. She wants to fall in love with someone emotionally
as well as physically. And if you don't know how to do that you're going to struggle with
this. If you haven't yet seen this video you will learn more about that there. I will put a link in
the description below. One of the main things that allows my clients to be so irresistibly attractive
is the fact that they've now learned how to attract her emotionally and physically. So this is
not something you should just skip over or assume you know how to do. Okay, my next tip for how to
get her back if she's lost interest is to read her signals. God made women different than men.
That just makes sense, right? We all know that. But what this means is she is going to handle
situations differently than you do. She is going to pursue you differently than you pursue her.
And the way a woman pursues a man is through her body language. She's going to send signals to you
that she's interested in you, that she wants you to make a move, that she wants you to notice her,
that she wants you to ask her out. But here's the deal. If she's sending you those signs
and you don't act on it, that is a slap in the face to her. That is literally like a slap in the
face to her. Have you ever been in that situation where you feel like she's really interested in you
and then all of a sudden she's just not interested anymore? And you have no idea why. You thought it
was going really well. Well this is usually why that happens. She's sending those signs,
you don't pursue, you don't act on it, and it's rejection. And she's done. Just like if you were
to approach someone and ask them out and they said no you'd be done, right? That's how it feels
to her. Now I get a ton of questions on this, so I'm just going to answer it right now. Sometimes
people comment and say, "Okay, why can't she just grow up and tell me?" And I understand why you
would feel that way. I do. But here's the thing. You're a man, she's a woman. Women think and feel
a little bit differently than you do. It is very masculine to just cut to the point and tell her
like it is. Most men want women to just tell you like it is. Women don't want that. Women do not
want that at all. As a matter of fact, they want it to be just as simple and easy as possible. They
don't like the confrontation. So if a woman has to act out in that way and has to just tell you she's
actually taking on a masculine trait. And if she takes out a masculine trait she feels masculine,
which, one, destroys the attraction for you, and two, lowers her self-esteem, makes her feel worse,
and just messes up the relationship. So if you are asking her to just come out and tell you if she's
interested, you're asking her to give away some of her femininity. That's not the way God designed
it. God designed it so that men pursue one way and women pursue another. If you want a high quality
woman, do you want a high quality woman? That's what I thought. If you want a high quality woman
do not ask her to give away her femininity, because a high quality woman will not do it. It's
okay if it doesn't make sense to you. There are things you do that don't make sense to her, okay?
That's what relationships are about. Bottom line make sure you understand how to read her signals.
If you haven't yet seen this video on signs she wants you to make a move make sure you check
that one out. There's a link in the description below. Okay, what's the biggest thing you need to
remember from this video? If you want to get her back you need to understand how to do these things
now. Because if you let too much time go by, your opportunity is going to be gone permanently.
Now is the time for you to understand how to be such a dream man that there's no way she
would lose interest. If you don't know how to do that you're going to continue to struggle
in relationships. Why in the world would you put off becoming her dream man? You want to
be her dream man, right? Well you have to know what it is she even wants and how to be that.
This is what I'm here to help you discover and why I created my program for you. To learn more
about this so you can take the fast track instead of messing it up and continuing to feel frustrated
make sure you watch that free masterclass. Again, it's at coachmelannie.com/masterclass
I will also put a link in the description below. You deserve to finally just have the
answers up front. Thank you so much for watching, my wonderful friend! Be sure to subscribe and ring
the notification bell and give me a big thumbs up. I want to hear from you in the comments.
What surprised you most about this video? Was there something that you didn't think would push
women away that does? I want to hear about it. And if you want more videos on how to get her back
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sure you especially follow me there. Thank you so much again, my amazing friend, and have an amazing
day! [blooper beep] I, uh, I almost forgot to push record. [laughter] That'd be so awkward.
I'm glad I didn't do that. It's one of those days. [laughter] It's fine.
Oh my goodness, get my hair under control here. The joys of naturally curly hair. Okay,
let's do this. [singing] Waiting for the jet to leave, waiting for the jet to leave,
waiting for the jet to leave~ [laughter]
Never mind. If you do not know how to attract a girl emotionally
this is going to be a huge problem for you. If you haven't yet seen this
video make sure you check it out. I'll put a link in the descript- [laughter]
God made women different than men. That just makes sense, right? Everybody knows that. But what this
means is that she's going to handle situations- [cough] What was that? Here comes the jet.
Wow, that is a lot of jets.
I want queso from Chipotle right now. You know what's the best thing ever? This is not sponsored,
by the way. Although if you're watching and your Chipotle I'd be up for that. [laughter] But
the best thing ever is a quesadilla dipped in queso. That is not healthy at all. I don't care,
it tastes amazing. Bottom line make sure you understand how... to tell the jets to stop being
noisy when you film videos. [chuckle] I haven't figured it out yet, but you might. [laughter] The
biggest thing you need to remember from this video if you want to get her back... What?