HOW TO LET GO OF YOUR EX Jules: This is Jules Bia with T.A.M. Team.
And today I'm going to be showing you a very powerful way to
absolutely transform and let go of the baggage
of a past relationship,
especially that special relationship that you can't stop
thinking about that you can't stop feeling tormented over..
That you can't get out of your head. Now,
how much of your energy and time have you been spending thinking about what
she's doing, who she's with? What kind of guys is she dating now?
Are they better than you? All these crazy things?
They spin in our mind and we suffer.
We give away so much of our power and worst of all,
it stops us from attracting a new relationship. That's better,
more connected, deeper, and more rewarding. If that resonates with you,
make sure you watch this video all the way to the end,
because I have a special offer for you.
That's going to change your life forever! Okay I know..
Making the movie guy voice, but you know, I'm just going for broke here,
being my weird ass self. So make sure you watch this all the way to the end,
the information in here,
the method you're going to learn is absolutely life transforming.
And the thing at the end that I have to offer you is equally. So.
Yeah.
Y'all had breakups or as you've never had a relationship,
you've definitely had unrequited love, right?
You're in fact created in love with a woman and she didn't return that.
And it's as equally as painful, if not more painful than a breakup, right?
So I could feel you. (HOW TO LET GO OF YOUR EX)
Cause I had a lot of that in my past to society says I'm over that relationship.
But what is being over a relationship actually mean?
It means that you went through the apathy of it.
You know the shock when you first break up and you're, you're not,
you went through the grief, the crying, the bargaining, the denial,
the whatever, right? You went through the fear, Oh my God,
I'm never going to find somebody again. Or, Oh my God, what do I do? Right.
I don't know what to do now.
Have you ever been in a relationship where you come out,
the other end of it and you don't even know who you are as a man, right?
Because you eroded all your values because you wanted her approval.
You wanted it to work so badly. And women aren't attracted to that, right?
Women want us to be solid, stand our ground and lead, right?
So you go into the lust after we're you either want to hook up with somebody new
or you desperately want your partner back, right?
Because you can't see any other way.
Then you go into the anger part where you remember all the stuff she did that
pissed you off. And then you go into the pride.
The pride is when we're over it I'm over.
It that's all in the past, right?
Pride is not actually letting go.
Getting over relationship is just getting over the hump of most of the pain.
But we continue through our lives with this residual energy that we
bring into subsequent relationships. And if we don't properly clean it out,
our relationships are just going to keep reflecting the same thing with
different people.
And this is why so many people keep attracting the same relationship with a
different person, because we have all this stuck energy.
Now this is a specially. So if you had that special relationship,
right, maybe you broke up with her recently,
AB you broke up with her a year or two or three or five or 10 years ago.
I've seen this happen with our students.
I've seen students come to us five years ago.
They broke up and they still can't get her out of their mind. Right?
They're not even over it. They're still in the lower parts of apathy,
grief and fear. This is trauma. (HOW TO LET GO OF YOUR EX)
This will hold you back from connecting and letting another woman
into your heart and loving a guest. It really, really screws up your life.
The process is really simple. It's kind of scary, but it's really simple.
But first I want to tell you that special relationship,
which a lot of us have had. You know, that one that was up and down,
it was so painful. And then it ended in a disaster.
I had that relationship okay. For a year and a half, almost two years.
I dated this woman. I was so deeply love with her.
My beliefs at the time were the,
I wasn't good enough to have a woman like this in my life.
I thought that she was going to leave me and cheat on me. Right?
I didn't believe that I had the ability to keep her interested and it
eroded the relationship. I kept running away, breaking up.
I had that fear of abandonment. I had really bad, nice guy syndrome.
Does this sound familiar? Does this feel familiar?
Eventually she actually cheated on me.
She built a relationship under my nose.
The last four months we were together, dumped me right before Christmas ate,
destroyed me. It destroyed me.
But thank God I had to like this because with the tools with this one tool,
especially then I'm going to teach you too. Today.
It helped me put my heart back together. Stronger overcoming,
especially the special relationship will transform not only the
relationship,
not only your belief and your ability with women and to attract true love.
That's healthy and balanced and connected,
but it will so profoundly change your self esteem.
It is so important to do this work guys.
Now I'm going to share with you the process,
but if you can do this process to completion, it is so profoundly powerful.
Okay? No pain, no gain. Remember the price of freedom is pain.
You have to be able to go through your pain to transcend it.
And as you transcend these negative heavy feelings inside,
what you're going to find is your thinking, your beliefs,
your self esteem will sky rocket to the more positive,
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Before you do this, I want you to do some breath work. Okay?
Look up some breath, work online. I really like Wim. Hoff.
Get your mind nice and quiet or go for a run for 10 or 20 minutes.
Get your body moving. Get your mind quieter.
Because when you get your mind quieter,
you can access and bring up the deep subconscious feelings inside a
lot easier. The method is simple. It's not easy, but it's simple.
What I would like you to do is to imagine your ex-girlfriend.
Now it doesn't just have to be the special relationship.
Do this with all of your exes.
I want to you to imagine your ex-girlfriend
having sex with the guy.
You like the least in the world, the guy,
maybe you're most jealous of you feel the most inferior too, right?
Just the guy that you, I would like the least.
And I want you to meditate on the feelings that come up from doing that.
That's going to stir up your deepest insecurities. (HOW TO LET GO OF YOUR EX)
It's going to stir up your deepest attachments to her. It is so powerful.
And look, don't try to get it. Perfect.
Don't try to make it four K ultra HD in your mind,
just having that intention is enough to start stirring up the feelings.
Now you might feel numb. You might feel heavy.
You might feel nothing at first and that's still a feeling.
So I want you to welcome and be okay with whatever comes up and just keep
sitting in meditating on that for a half an hour for an hour,
for hours and hours.
Because on the other end of this is such a profound transformation on who you
are. Think about it.
You are not only bringing up your attachment to her because as soon as you can
meditate and be okay with her getting for lack of a better word,
pounded by the guy, you like the least in the world,
or would want her to have sex with the least, your attachment will drop away.
As you welcome up these feelings and allow them to just pass through you,
you will literally drop that attachment. So profoundly fast.
I had a student who came to me with this same kind of pain from a woman that he
broke up with two months before he couldn't get her out of his head.
He did this for a couple of days and he went into complete peace. Now,
imagine if he didn't do that process,
he'd be carrying that trauma for months or maybe even years.
I've seen students come to us and five, six, seven, eight, nine, 10 years ago.
They're still hung up on the breakup and they haven't had a girlfriend since the
other thing that this does as you do this. And I mean,
I want you to get creative. All right,
you guys have probably seen a lot of porn. We all have, right?
Imagine the most crazy ways that she's getting pounded by the
guy. You want her to get pounded by the least all the crazy positions,
giving her more orgasms and stronger orgasms than you ever could
yourself. Right? Really bring that up.
Remember you don't have to get it perfect. You don't have to get a clear vivid.
It's the intention and keep meditating on the feelings that come up. Okay?
Because this is also going to bring up all your self esteem issues,
all your negative beliefs about yourself.
All your deepest insecurities with women will come up and as you let them
up, you just be with them. Don't try to change them. They might be intense.
Don't try to figure them out, just be with them,
give them your undivided presence as best you can.
And I want you to do this and tell you can imagine her doing that with that guy.
And you are not triggered by it anymore.
And if you can get to the point where you can actually enjoy it and get a little
bit turned on, that's even more powerful.
That is even more detachment and freedom. That's true liberation.
And I'm telling you guys the transformation you will go through.
If you see this simple but crazy process to the end
will change. You forever do this to the end.
Even doing it a little bit is going to make a shift.
But what kind of transformation do you want?
Simply imagine her having sex with the guy you like the least you're most
jealous of you feel most inferior to whatever it is and tell completion until it
doesn't bother you anymore, until you can maybe even enjoy it. It's that simple.
And I want you to post in the comments below
Juul is you're crazy,
but I'm going to try it so that I know that you watch this video until the end.
Now guys,
me and coach David vibe are running a
very powerful inner transformational program right now.
And we're looking for new students who are ready to do the work,
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Me and David have incredible extensive knowledge and the
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We're going to show you how to find inner peace change beliefs and
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Any baggage you have from past relationships is constantly replaying in your
mind. This is why our mind is so noisy on top of that,
we pick up on unconscious patterns, reactions,
and behaviors from these incompletes, from our past.
And as you process the baggage out from your past with
processes like this, especially the wind in this video,
this is wait until you see what happens when you do this with an ex girlfriend,
right? You're going to start noticing these behavior patterns drop away.
Your behavior will actually transform. You won't be so reactive anymore.
You won't be so afraid to connect and open yourself up.
Really getting complete with our past relationships is one of the most important
things we can do for our mental,
emotional health and our ability to have a connected,
deep and satisfying life of our choosing and our design.
It kind of works like this.
Imagine a computer with all these open programs in the background,
we have all these programs running in the background.
Thoughts in complete traumas, right?
As you close out these programs with inner work processes like in our program,
unshakeable or in this mini course, or in videos that I'm sharing with you here,
you start to get more of your power back more of your clarity of mind,
right? So that you can go out and have this new
lease to create what you want.
It's possible to create what you want with all this trauma,
but it's much more effort. It's more difficult.
And there's a likelihood that you're going to give up.
How many times have you tried to change? You go out,
you push and then you give up, you go into avoid, avoid, avoid,
avoid for months and months and months. Then you do it again.
And you go into avoid guys. The more you go through this pattern of push,
avoid push, avoid, you build up heavier and heavier stories about yourself.
It affects your self esteem.
It affects your self respect and your belief in yourself. Now,
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So you can affect your outer world. This is Jules Bia with T.A.M.
Thanks for watching. And I'll see you on the next video.